My boyfriend is a LOT more experiences than me and whenever wr making out he always tries to go to the nxt level and I always push him away and tell him to stop. I REALLY like him and ive even threatened to stop making out with him if he dusnt stop but he DUSNT GET IT!!! What do I do?
2007-11-29 09:29:28 · 28 answers · asked by lolaaaaachica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to tell him how you feel. Just tell him that you're not as experianced as him and you'd like it if he didn't try to go to the "next level" every time, or at all. If you don't tell him, you're just going to keep being upset. Communication is the key.
2007-11-29 09:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Honey, it doesnt sound like he respects you. I hate to say it...But it seems hes only in the realtionship for sex. You deserve a man who will treat you right, and will wait until YOU are ready to move on to the next time, and respect your wishes.
If this boyfriend, is not doing this...you must dump him. You may think your in love...but think about it, if he was in love with you...wouldnt he wait for you?
Imagine if things were the other way around. You wanted to go to the next step, but he didnt. Wouldnt you wait for him, because you love him?
I hope I was able to answer your question.
2007-11-29 09:38:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't stop, then you may have to leave him. Dump him. If he cannot respect you or your body, then he is no good. Find someone who will respect you and stop making you uncomfortable. Do not let a guy do watever he wants with you, because you may end of doing something you may regret. If a guy likes you, he will do things on YOUR say so, not his. Good luck sweetie!
2007-11-29 09:43:42 · answer #3 · answered by J. Lee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old are you and him? then look at if what age he is acting like, what are you acting like. when boys/men so called they think they are get to a point of kissing they can't control themselves. yes sometimes women do go a little to far. what is his background like? did he have a good role model as a father to teach him how treat women in general? are you maybe going to far to fast for yourself? this is not attacking you i hope. but young boys tend to be more into getting what they want than pleasing the partner so to speak. get a grip and the next time he goes to far grab him by the family jewels and don't let go, tell him NO MEAN NO WAY NOT NOWWWW????????
2007-11-29 09:41:39 · answer #4 · answered by Valentine 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him to calm down . he may kno everything there is to know but you dont yet. & you dont want it forced on you. tell him that just becuase he knows doesnt mean that you kno how and that you want to do it hold it off. & if he really likes you. then he'll respect that. or else Push him off & say that youve already told him no the next time he wants to level up. & then leave if not then dump him. even if you like him alot it isnt worth being pushed around & doing stuff you dont want to do.
2007-11-29 09:37:05 · answer #5 · answered by LNP 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a guy is gonna keep trying if you make out with him, especially one in his teens. tell him that if/when you're ready to go to the next level, you will let him know. until then, you are not ready to go there and he will have to stop trying to get more than kissing. but be prepared for him to either dump you or cheat on you. if he does any of those things, he's not the one for you. don't sell out just to keep a guy.
2007-11-29 09:36:11 · answer #6 · answered by TwilightTwin2 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
He's after something and dosn't care if you say no. He will keep trying until he gets what he wants. Making out is also known as foreplay. I suggest you stop making out. He may dump you but you will know what he was after if he does.
2007-11-29 09:38:20 · answer #7 · answered by canam 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find someone who will respect your boundaries. He gets it, he just chooses to ignore it and that being the case, I would doubt it will change.
Follow through with your threat - see how that works out.
2007-11-29 09:36:39 · answer #8 · answered by IJToomer 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. you might end up giving in and he knows your threats are empty since you haven't stopped making out with him. He probably thinks he can wear you down. the greatest solution to this problem is dumping.
2007-11-29 09:32:32 · answer #9 · answered by bunnygrl43 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you could explain to him why you don't want to take it to the next level so he knows.
...and if he still doesn't get it.......then hes a jerk, and he can go find another girl to go to the next level with....but don't let him pressure you.
2007-11-29 09:35:17 · answer #10 · answered by jenn 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋