Singles & Dating - 29 November 2007

2007-11-29 11:49:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i called him half an hour ago, and all he could work up is, "i'm having a good time, i'm with richard, we're in the middle of nowhere".

i feel like spitting.

he hasn't been out in a while (he's been 'good', and we've been working on this!), but i hate it when he does go out... he has a drink problem. has got into fights in my presence, i have no idea what happens when i'm not there.

tonight i am feeling fed up...

we have been working on it, like i say. i just feel sick about it, at the moment, though...

2007-11-29 11:47:31 · 16 answers · asked by lane 4

For those of us who don't really enjoy dating at this age (let's say, anyone in their thirties), sometimes it gets tricky. People have kids, divorces ... all kinds of baggage. When, if ever, do you allow yourself to "settle"? I am starting to think that I would rather not date than date someone I would not normally date just because I am getting older. But it is hard, with family members asking stupid questions like, "Don't you WANT kids?" (Uggh.) My friends tell me I'm picky, but I don't think so. For starters, he has to be emotionally and physically healthy; not have a bunch of kids; have a good career; be responsible, reliable and trustworthy; keeps his word; has integrity, loves God and what I find attractive. My friends insist that I will be single if I continue to be picky. Should I believe them?

2007-11-29 11:42:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

We did terrible things to eachother. I haven't spoken to him in almost 1 year, haven't seen him for 3 years. But, I have not moved on. I still love him. I am still single & haven't even kissed another man.

A year ago, he still loved me. He moved on shortly after we seperated. We can't be together. How can I put this to rest?

2007-11-29 11:41:49 · 16 answers · asked by Nicole M 2

I need help I don't know if i'm in love

2007-11-29 11:36:42 · 19 answers · asked by Rocky 1

2007-11-29 11:33:33 · 4 answers · asked by Hotdivababe 3

get my boyfriend to hold my hand and hug me right? i have been dateing him sence Sunday. maby he's nervous? please give me some tips and advice.
Thanks a Buch!

2007-11-29 11:28:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i cant stop thinking about my ex boyfriend.
we broke up 2 months ago.

i love him.

im in high school.
he goes to a different high school.
he usually emails me but he hasnt recently.
i cant get him off my mind.
its really hard to forget him.
his aunt lives next door and we go over there a lot.
i hear about him all the time.
he is a bad boy.
i am a good girl.
[that is the stereo types i would put us in]
i dont want another boyfriend.

how can i get over him?
please help?

2007-11-29 11:21:12 · 4 answers · asked by forever unknown 2

That this would fit ok on a guy who wears size 30 pants? My guy lost a bet to me and now he has to wear a womans thong under his pants for a few hours at home one night this week when I have some of the ladies over for cocktails that he of course will be serving. Nobody but him and I will know (but I know its going to be hard to resist telling my firends!). I picked this one from VS. What do you think ? Any suggestions on the color to go with?

http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=3G-206998&page=1&cgname=OSPTYSSSZZZ&rfnbr=3355

2007-11-29 11:19:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My guy had to leave me, 3 months ago his ex girlfriend came to bring him home, he has a son with her. He seemed sad the day he left,we were together for 7 months and we really get along.I knew since the first day we were together that the day would come when he had to return to his home across the country,as he has 2 children with 2 other women. For his children's sake that is the right thing to do. My children are here and this is my home.It is hard for him because the other 2 women don't get along and his children are jeopardized.His problem, 2 different women, 2 children. His most recent ex who he is again living with came here to bring him back, and she didn't like me,just as she doesn't like the mother of his other child,who I get along with.I knew he was sad the day he left,he likes it here better. Because of his possessive ex, I have only talked to him once since he's been gone.I wonder if he even thinks of me.

2007-11-29 11:19:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok. heres the thing. i LOVE my boyfriend he seems to be perfect. he is all that i want in a guy!!! he seems perfect. im NOT!!!! idk what to do. he is a great christian and everything. great looking, and loved by evryone!!! is he too perfect for me or should i keep hoping that i can b perfect too?

2007-11-29 11:17:25 · 4 answers · asked by LoViNg LiFe 1

I met a guy and I found out he has more kids than I care for--too many. I really don't think it will work for me. The problem is, he's very nice. I don't want to come off the wrong way, but when I found out about the kids, it put me off. My friend said I'm being picky. Help!

2007-11-29 11:13:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this boy at my school. I don't know what it is but something attracts me to him!PROBLEM: he's 2 years younger than me.I'm 17, he's 15.He's a sophomore, I'm a senior I don't know what to do or think! My friends keep calling me a pedophile or sex offender and all the that other stuff...but I can't help it. I don't even know if he's intersted! Some days he stairs at me, and the other days he sees me but acts like I don't exist. Some of my friends say he's gay! Only because he dresses fashionable?! We live in NY. I mean, the fashion capital of the world? But anyway..I'm just really confused. Is it OK for me to like him? I want to talk to him so bad!But I'm afraid. I don't know what to say to him. And I know I'm turning 18 in 9 months and I also know the consequences of going out with him IF i ever do.

ugghhhh please help??

2007-11-29 11:13:33 · 25 answers · asked by Normal? 3

Or are there aspects of your sexual past you have "in the vault"?

2007-11-29 11:12:36 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-29 11:09:10 · 7 answers · asked by izze 3

I recently broke up with my boyfriend because I didnt have feelings for him anymore is that weird?

2007-11-29 11:08:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

now this is a question on how " you" deal with things so i can have some insight on how to change my behavior. see im in a relationship with a great guy, but i get so jealous, sometimes i can control it but other times i get so mean, because i cant. jealousy isnt the only thing also when i get my feelings hurt( ie he wont eat my cooking even though im a pretty ok cook) i throw a guilt trip, or just get mean. i know some of these things some of yall wont get mad at but what do you guys do to deal with jealousy or getting your feelings hurt? i know he probably would never intend to hurt me but i dont want my behavior to eventually shoo him off. i dont need you guys to critque me or stupid jokes, just how do you deal with things?

2007-11-29 11:05:42 · 6 answers · asked by me me 2

IF YOUR...female

2007-11-29 11:00:14 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

oka so i like this one guy but im scared to tell him.. should i or not?

2007-11-29 10:57:13 · 4 answers · asked by AutumN♥ 2

i have a bf who is 35 years old and i have no idea what to get him!

2007-11-29 10:54:20 · 7 answers · asked by Tina C 1

there is this guy and i have classes with him and i really like him im 13-14 and like i think he might like me and i want to tell him but i dont know how and i dont want it to be like he dosent like me back though kk any girls who can help me please

please and thank you!!
xD

2007-11-29 10:54:15 · 28 answers · asked by <3TOWLOHA 2

he recently went to mexico and he got to hang out with old friends and his family. he came back and a few weeks later i went over to his house and i was looking at his brothers phone because him and his brother exchanged phones for the weekend. i saw a message that said, "hi ana! this is jesus, im waiting for your picture. i miss you. do you still miss me?" what should i do? he says its just a friend. im not the jealous type, but i deleted all of his girl friends number off his phone.

2007-11-29 10:52:45 · 32 answers · asked by latina666 1

I dont want to know just boobs, butt, figure. What comes from your heart???????

2007-11-29 10:51:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

What can I do to get this guy to like me?
I sit near him in class, I NEED HELP !

2007-11-29 10:49:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf asked me what i wanted and he started naming off all this stuff and he said earrings and i said no i dont like earrings cuz i really dont and he got them! and i dont like them at all
why didnt he listen to me?!
and i have to wear them so i wont hurt his feelings but omggg
it makes me mad cuz he dont listen to me.

HELP ME :(

2007-11-29 10:43:25 · 15 answers · asked by Taylor M 1

Since I want to tell my crush (wich is my best guyfriend) how much I like him. Do you think it would be a good idea to give him a cd with some songs that tell about how i feel about him......And will include a sweet note with the cd! Does that sound good? Why or why not?

2007-11-29 10:41:46 · 32 answers · asked by Kirstin Beth 2

heyyy., i have a question . my friend just moved
to texas and i live in newjersey.
i was wondering if he calls me
do i end up payin on my phone bill

because my sister told me that you
don't pay because you are receiving the
call ., is that true?. because im not
very sure.
thankkkkkk you!

2007-11-29 10:39:48 · 8 answers · asked by τнε мяs. <3 1

due to his attempts to woo a certain young lady on Y/A. How can I ensure that he continues to reach new lows of toe curling humiliation so that I can sympathetically laugh my nob off.

2007-11-29 10:31:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

might have a trust issue if he dosent allow me to do girls night once in a while? he says when ur in a relationship you dont do things like that..We go out as a couple. But we do go out all the time.Im getting very upset over it.

2007-11-29 10:27:27 · 8 answers · asked by candice t 1

if a guy at six foot 2 and a guy at 5 foot 6 walked past you, who wud you take your fancy?

2007-11-29 10:21:04 · 64 answers · asked by Only1Ronaldo 1