get my boyfriend to hold my hand and hug me right? i have been dateing him sence Sunday. maby he's nervous? please give me some tips and advice.
Thanks a Buch!
2007-11-29 11:28:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and im 14.
2007-11-29 12:50:39 · update #1
Slow down, pace yourself, plenty of time for that after you get to know each other a little better.
2007-11-29 11:50:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's always best to be good friends for a while before anything physical. Give it enough time to really get to know each other. Hang out together and just have fun. It should happen when you both feel very comfortable with each other. If you worry about it,it might make you seem nervous to him. He might interpret that as you having a problem with him. You are much to young to worry this much about a boy. Just have fun!
2007-11-30 00:25:48 · answer #2 · answered by MommaDoo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
perhaps if he is a bit too nervous he is just waiting for you to make the first move as to not be rejected if he makes the move himself.
Next time you see him give him a hug.....it will probably break the ice with his nervousness and then he will be more likely to initiate next time...or if you are sitting watching a movie or walking through the mall just reach over and hold his hand. He will probably be relieved he didn't have to make the first move and risk you pushing him away.
Good luck girl.
2007-11-29 23:36:28 · answer #3 · answered by Jane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cami
The next time you're out together just reach over and hold his hand. That's a good start as he may be a little shy.
2007-11-29 19:52:38 · answer #4 · answered by Buzzy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush what u should do. Wait. Let him have the first move. Remember, guys will sometimes rush things, so try to hold him back until the moment is right.
2007-11-29 19:33:23 · answer #5 · answered by Legend 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make small contacts with him like putting your hands close to his hands, or walk close to him shoulder to shoulder see how he reacts and keep doing those things like that He is probably nervous or needs time to adjust himself in the current situation he is in.
2007-11-29 19:51:59 · answer #6 · answered by Faisal A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you just need to go for it. Be playful and be like awhh ur so sweet and just hug him. IF you do that then he will know you are ready to hold hands and hug him, he probably just wants to make sure u are ready and he doesn't want to move to fast which is really good =]
2007-11-29 19:31:15 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Be respectful, Give him time. I'm sure he will. Maybe after a lil bit, if he doesn't, ask him. If he comfortable or is he nervous ect.. Be honest and maybe he will start doing it.
2007-11-29 19:32:00 · answer #8 · answered by ~!Ashley!~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh he wants to hug you trust me. give him hugs and cuddling, holding hands, and maybe kissing will eventully come. let him feel comfortable around u and everything will turn out great! good luck
2007-11-29 19:31:42 · answer #9 · answered by chris b 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe you should hold his hand && he'll get the idea..
then wen he walks you home say ''so i dont even get a hug
=[" then he should get the idea =]
2007-11-29 19:32:45 · answer #10 · answered by AutumN♥ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋