he recently went to mexico and he got to hang out with old friends and his family. he came back and a few weeks later i went over to his house and i was looking at his brothers phone because him and his brother exchanged phones for the weekend. i saw a message that said, "hi ana! this is jesus, im waiting for your picture. i miss you. do you still miss me?" what should i do? he says its just a friend. im not the jealous type, but i deleted all of his girl friends number off his phone.
2007-11-29 10:52:45 · 32 answers · asked by latina666 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't let him play you. You're being played. Hello? Is this thing on?
2007-11-29 10:57:06 · answer #1 · answered by Big Red Ten 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your deffinently the jelous type, (no offence). But seriously, let the guy have girl's as friends, it's not your right to decide that for him.
But when it comes to what he texted that other girl saying he misses her, kind of odd, i doubt that's just a friend thing. Friend (especially new-friends) dont miss eachother like that. I would look into it.
2007-11-29 10:57:46 · answer #2 · answered by xxearthfromabovexx 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey! That's a rational thing to do, deleting all of his female friends numbers off of HIS phone. If I was him I'd be royally pissed off at you.
As far as the context of the text message- he obviously hooked up with that girl. get yourself an honest boyfriend and stop snooping on other people's phones.
2007-11-29 10:58:54 · answer #3 · answered by jt_eradicator 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, how do you know for sure that his brother did not send it? Did you read the time date stamp to determine when it was sent? If if was sent during the time he had it, then I think you know whats up. Many men and women cheat on each other. When you find the right person, neither you nor he will have any desire to cheat :)
2007-11-29 10:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by Texas Bound 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all i wouldnt worry about it but u should ask him how close of friends they r bcus mayb shes a close enough friend where he would miss her
p.s
it was a little controlling
2 delete #s out of his phone
and if u act like that he might break
up w/ u
2007-11-29 10:59:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u could dump him or act like that nothing evan happened even though it will just haunt u so i will just dup him. but wait a second maybe it is just his friend now i am confused, those other answerers were kind of mean about it well sorry for what u r going through and good luck
2007-11-29 10:59:50 · answer #6 · answered by chelsea 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It seems like you are jealous, but thats coming from a guys point of view. I say just dont worry about it, and if he is cheating on you, then thats his loss. Hope I was of some help to you.
2007-11-29 10:58:11 · answer #7 · answered by JSizzle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound too possessive to me, what was you doing poking
your nose in other people's phones, you might as well say
goodbye to him now before he gives you the boot.
2007-11-29 11:05:53 · answer #8 · answered by momo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him if you did the samething what whould he think and how would he feel? How could he blame you with the i miss you's?! then just talk about it with him and if you still get the feeling he is cheating LET HIM GO!!
2007-11-29 10:59:09 · answer #9 · answered by Lilly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get so mad unless there were texts that had things that you knew for sure he was cheating. It's ok for you to have erased all the numbers it's just something that happens when your mad. Just talk to him about it.
2007-11-29 10:58:06 · answer #10 · answered by 1_angel_in_heaven 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
" im not the jealous type, but i deleted all of his girl friends number off his phone."
haha who do you think you're fooling? You're obviously the jealous type.
2007-11-29 10:55:34 · answer #11 · answered by pieninja 5 · 4⤊ 2⤋