I need help I don't know if i'm in love
2007-11-29 11:36:42 · 19 answers · asked by Rocky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If a 17 year old is going to date a 13 year old...he either only wants one thing, and/or is not right mentally.
2007-11-29 11:39:49 · answer #1 · answered by kMaz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in your question you said that you do love him, in your additional details you said you don't know if your in love.
Well let me tell you something about what 17 year olds want from 13 year olds, yeah he may be nice and sweet and very talented but did you know he could go too jail because you are not 16 years of age?
Im not ragging on you but i do think you should find someone your own age, you seem like a sweet person so that shouldn't be hard.
2007-11-29 19:40:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he has all those wonderful things doesn't mean you love him. The rule for dating older people is not to date people x amount of years older than you if you wouldn't date someone x amount of years younger than you. For example, you and Logan have a 3 year difference. Would you date a ten year old, someone 3 years younger than you? If you would, then go for him, but if you wouldn't, then he's too old for you.
This is definitely not love, though, because at thirteen, you're too young for anything but puppy love and crushes. Also, to love someone, you have to know the other guy inside and out and care for him more than you care for yourself.
In addition, you may be too young for love, but not too young for crushes and dates. So, if he's a good guy and you think you're mature enough to handle a 17-year-old, then go for him. :)
2007-11-29 19:42:03 · answer #3 · answered by Adelaide S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AT 17 all he wants is sex..
at 13 all u want is love
its not love until you want to get married.
Its a crushh
just because he is sweet and blah blah blah doesnt mean you are in love, at All.
2007-11-29 19:41:07 · answer #4 · answered by cuteayita222 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not saying "ur to young to fall in love" cuz i kno how that is, but jus be friends for now and get to know him more, besides he's a 17 yr. old boy, they usually aren't in the whole "in love" thing by this age, i kno, im that age, trust me sweetie, dont do anything you'll regret k? Good luck! :)
2007-11-29 19:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by the mrs:) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, I'd believe you have a crush.
Aks yourself some questions about what you know about him?
Those in love, probably see him regulary, not by chance, they have been invited in his house, they have been kissing him on a reg. basis.
They speak to him probably every day. And the person who loves him, wouldn't have to ask.
No offence, but we've all been 13 & in a major crush once!
2007-11-29 19:41:04 · answer #6 · answered by belligerent assistant 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 13, wayy to young to think about love. Love brings so many feeling, alot are bad. Don't even try to put yourself in that position yet. Just have fun.
2007-11-29 19:39:39 · answer #7 · answered by ~!Ashley!~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do NOT go for it
if you really care for him, wait until you are over 18, b/c he is soon to be 18, anythign physical happens between you two would lead him TO JAIL!!!
and most guys with band, no offense, tend to get girls too easily
2007-11-29 19:40:07 · answer #8 · answered by Clueless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in something, but it's NOT love. Back on the porch for now. You're still a kitten.
2007-11-29 19:39:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are to young to be dating a 17 year old anyway.. it may be just puppy love.. wait until you are older
2007-11-29 19:40:22 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋