Why are Black Men rejecting there own women to be with other races?

Question

I do kind of feel it is becoming a sort of a "trend." It's happening way more now than ever ( yes I know becuase society is more expecting blah blah blah) but i've heard black men say that they feel black women are too assertive, loud, brash etc. they get this stereotypical thing in their head about black women, and just automatically most of the time don’t give them a chance or the time of day. So in a way some men are rejecting black women.

Answer 1

A lot of people know how to stand up for themselves. SOME black men feel they have no power over black women so they go to "easier" races (from an experience in the family i know about this one). There are a lot of reasons. There are still a lot of black men though who wants nothing but their "strong, black women". It all depends on the person.

Answer 2

I am sorry. This has been going on for a very long time now. I noticed it back in the mid 70's. I was in the service then. The whilte girls were all out on 'dates' with mostly black guys and the black women were back in the baracks preparing for the next day. I thought WOW, these are some of the world's most beautiful women and the dumb men didn't ask them out!?! Well, heads up. Today those black women are doctor's and lawyers and 'those white women' ... well they aren't.
What bothers me today, as a white grandmother, is the young white women aren't 'dating' the good black men any more, they are dating the under class, getto talking, monsters who are heading for prison. So, it's looking better, IMO, for the black women of today, then back in my day. But, they are doing it, IMO, for the same reasons: Too shock their parents and grandparents. As I see it, the good church going black man of today is looking for that good black woman.
Some days I just want to go out and start knocking heads and not quit till I get shot.

Answer 3

For various reasons I suppose, whether it's true love or not. I wouldn't say they are "rejecting" black women and I believe we black women are "choosing" to do the same--- It all depends. I ponder on this one myself at times. As a 30 something single black woman, I have had some terrible experiences with black men and recently have given consideration to taking the leap to the other side myself. What does race have to do with finding my true love? We deserve nothing, but the best, right?

Answer 4

well i mean im not black so i guess my opition doesnt rely matter much

in my school which has over 3000 kids of all races

there are more black females then any other race and ill be honset some of them are loud brash ect. but most of them are rely nice and friendly

but also i kno wut ur saying about how black men are rejecting black women but in a way women are doing the same thing to men

i think black men should give all black women a chance but its sometimes good to have a multiraced family


ya diggg?

Answer 5

Here is some of what the guys I know are saying. Other races are more easier to control. Black women are tough we need to loosen up a bit. Some black men have extra marital affears with very little or no conciquenses should if discovered, plus they get to do more freaky stuff. With black women, there are what is commonly now as the baby mama drama, she most likly will leave him, it most likly not his first, take the apartment, the kids, beat the mistress, and take him to court. The other races will more likly visit a therapy or seek counseling, or pretending all is well, for the sake of her family. The other race are also see as dosile, black women have been through a lot, when ever we are confronted with injustice we can get loud as they put...I call it having a voice. Some black men are weak, and does not have what it takes to love a black (nubian) queen, stand up with us for the better good. he will run to the woman he fine his feeble equal to go into life partnership. There are black men out there that are proud to be black men, know who they are, know where they coming from, and know where they are going. Don't worry about the few lost one, chances are the affear they are having are with nubian princesses...the irony! Do not be discourage my sister when you see brothers with their "other" non-black companions one its the changing of the times, two be honest too sister we are no walk in the park either we have alot of stuff we must let go....just let some sh*t go, know what I mean, bury it, ..... learn to love ourselves, let it project.

Answer 6

Most black men have given up on black women because they say we talk too much, and aren't supportive! Black men are afraid of conflict, and confrontation! And since these two words are stereotyped with black women, we get no love!

Answer 7

because it is something different.

i know a lot of assertive, loud, brash etc, white woman too.

most people are only attracted to a certain type . i am white, but i have never been attracted to a dark skinned black. light skinned, yes.
i am friends with dark skinned black women.

Answer 8

You know the race thing is getting real old. I think we should all procreate with a member of a different race just so we can eventually all be one race. I'm married, but if I wasn't I'd date whoever I liked as a person and not even worry about anything else.

Answer 9

Even though some black men do that some black women do as well, everyone is different. Who cares eventually we will all look the same.

Answer 10

I think that it's great that people aren't affraid to be with another race. I come from a family of mixed races. I'm also white and my boyfriend is Middle Eastern. Seeing past color is a good thing.