on the whole, im much more optimistic than i ever used to be, and can find something good in everyday, but a problem has been plaguing me for as long as i can remember. maybe my brain is just hard-wired for this but more than anything i want love. i've always likes guys and no one has ever really liked me back. i had a pathetic little relationship back in highschool, and since then there's just been nothing. ive liked guys, i like one now and i got really close with him, physically and it was wonderful but i know he doesnt want a relationship right now and i guess it's set me off. i cant talk to friends about this because i dont want to sound depressed or self-depricating but part of me thinks that i will be alone, romantically, forever, and that noone will ever like me as much as i might like them. people always say "oh, it will happen, i know it" and i try to keep hope, but how do they know!? i really think people say that out of habit, just to make you feel better. thoughts??
2007-11-29 14:39:07 · 6 answers · asked by Lisa B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all i gotta say is... be patient. at least ur living life. just live life and "the one" will come along one day. if you live life looking for "the one", you are wasting ur time trust me! you are not going to be single for the rest of your life. i thought the same thing too. i'm not that greatlooking, there are others who are more outgoing than i am but i found somebody and it just took patience. you have to do something with your life, not sit around and wait for him to come along! go to a bar and it doesn't hurt to tell your friends that you want somebody. they are you friends and maybe they can hook you up with other friends they might know. you only have 1 life. do everything and anything! take risks!
2007-11-29 14:45:08 · answer #1 · answered by ٩(̾●̮̮̃̾•̃̾)۶ Gatorade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...its true...it will happened. I myself had little relationships in high school, but they were mostly abusive and they didn't really care for me. I felt unwanted and became depressed. My worse fear was being alone. That was 3 years ago. I now have someone that actually loves me for me. It took a while, but it was worth. Good things come if you wait.
2007-11-29 22:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by Philly_Mami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we all that way until it happens. Maybe your thinking about it a little too much. just enjoy ife and stop focussing on this and you'll b surprised how love will come when u least expect it.
2007-11-29 22:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have faith.
someone is going to come and hit you hard and you'll be in love.
no one will ever be alone romantically.
you've just got to wait. and the longer it takes - the more special the person will be.
good luck.
be patient.
2007-11-29 22:42:52 · answer #4 · answered by curRy xox luva <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no we dont say it just to make you feel better --- ive been there done that and seen that --- experience and age has shown me that these things happen --- so just let your mind wonder and someone will surprise you ---- best wishes
2007-11-29 22:47:21 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray about it...to God. You'll see that you get an answer. Just try it.
2007-11-29 22:42:23 · answer #6 · answered by dGom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋