my boyfriend dumped me a month ago and i miss him a lot! i loved him. well, tomorrow would have been our year anniversary and im not sure how im going to get threw it. i have to see him at school a lot so if anyone has any ideas for me please share.
2007-11-29 14:15:59 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have somebody throw you.
2007-11-29 14:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 1⤋
depending on how things ended and how long u were together, there are some things you can do...im guessing things didnt end on good terms and he knows how much u still care about him...so the best thing is, dont be weak or let it get to you...spend the day with good friends only as much as u can...and as much as u want to talk to him and talk about him, dont...itll only make things worse and you'll miss him more...the more u talk about him, the more ur letting him take up space in your head...u guys arent together, so that means u need to try and reclaim that space...so if u can sleep over at a good friends house even if u dont want to...force urself...its important that u stay around people...otherwise ull feel lonely and think about him more...this should be YOUR weekend, it would have been both of urs 1 yr anniversary but now, its about YOU...holidays are here, good times for family and friends...and try to force urself to be social and meet new ppl. the more u can do that, the more u can change ur outlook and feel like a different person and get back that person u were before u started dating him. most of us have probably been there...ur friends, ur family...so theyre the ones u should be with now...just keep urself busy and around ppl, b/c when ur alone ull start thinkin about him...and ur instincts may b tellin u that u have to talk to him...but resist it and force urself to be with friends, even if u dont want to...bc ull be glad u did...it gets better...u made it thru the first month, thats the worst and hardest part...dont go back again, you've come too far...
2007-11-29 14:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by whatwouldyoudo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my girlfriend broke up 3 months ago and to cope with the constant pain of thinking about her I would do anything to distract myself. I'd spend heaps of time with my mates and go out to parties a lot, I'm a guy so my technique might be different, but as a human I know how hard it is to just stop seeing someone you have been with for so long. The truth is, the only way to get threw tomorrow is to let it come...you will naturally do what makes you feel better. Listening to music, writing down how you feel -getting those feelings out is the best way to feel better. When we keep them in it just burns. If you feel like you can't bare to see him then take a few days off school...you need to look after yourself :-)
2007-11-29 14:25:27 · answer #3 · answered by Lloyd S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wake up, go to work/school, go home, watch TV, go to bed. That simple. I mean, you will get over it and one broken anniversary wont kill you. I had a horrible week last week but still managed not to do anything stupid. Don't spend the day before saying "OMG, tomorrow is going to be bad, what am I going to do? Woe is me... I am so sad" because then that day will suck, then will the next day. So, really, just live on, find someone new, and live another day. Good luck.
2007-11-29 14:19:47 · answer #4 · answered by nerfpallys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get through tomorrow. And all the heartache and sadness will eventually wither away. Time is the perfect healer. When we love, we build our life around those we love and when they leave we feel like we have lost part of ourselves in the process. But guess what... it is just an illusion. You are still you, you still have a life; it is just a life without him.
So get your chin up, be yourself and let time work the double miracle: heal you and show him that it was all his loss.
Hey, do not worry about tomorrow because you just don't know what it has in store for you. Just let it come.
2007-11-29 14:37:06 · answer #5 · answered by toroboltan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is try to forget it that's it's your anniversary. Do not stay home and be all sad and blue. That will only hurt you, nobody else. I'm not saying it will be easy. Get up, shower, do your hair and wear a cute outfit and act like you are the happiest girl in the world. We have no control over other people. We can only change ourselves and how we think. God bless.
2007-11-29 14:21:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry we all go through this kind of stuff....he obviously is a total jurk and u totally dont need him.
tomorrow just ignore him and think of all the good things that has come from the break up...maybe even flirt with another guy right in front of him XD
Good Luck tomorrow!
2007-11-29 14:26:51 · answer #7 · answered by IsItLove? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try not to concentrate on him if and when you do see him. Try not to even think about what tomorrow is and it wont bother you as much. Maybe you can try and make some plans for yourself with some friends and look forward to haveing fun after school.
2007-11-29 14:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by jdzanses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly theres no easy way to get over it getting over a love hurts n takes time espcially when your not the one that ended it just remember that your a great girl n he missed out on something incredible n at school blow him off like he doesnt matter .. there will be other guys other years girl trust me i know
2007-11-29 14:19:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan ahead today. Find a way to stay busy all day - hang out with friends, go shopping, take a drive...the key is to just stay busy and think positive and you will get through it.
2007-11-29 14:19:51 · answer #10 · answered by Arctic Flame 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the 1st girl..Don't go to school, stay home and cry about it alone if you want..Then get over it, meet a new guy and move on..Your young trust me there will be others..We've all been there and it sucks I know..But it gets better
2007-11-29 14:19:21 · answer #11 · answered by gangstaG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋