Singles & Dating - 7 November 2007

Okay, so I met this freshman girl in my history class. I had seen her from the first day of school but it took two months for me to actually talk to her. It was because we were assigned to do a project together. Me, being an idiot, didn't even talk to her even until out of school and when I did, it was on AIM. Now, at first she kinda liked the way I acted on the computer. The first few days she would talk to me in class, but I would get a little bit embarassed and shrug her off. I think she caught me staring at her a few times. One day she said bye to me as we left class, but I pretended not to hear her and shrug it off. 'thus, one night when we talk online, she said she can't be friends with people who talk on the computer and not in person. I try ot chill with her after school, but she said she doesn't want to. She IMs me a few times, which lets me know she's interested. However, she keeps saying she likes outgoing people. How can I redeem myself?

2007-11-07 08:56:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been going out on AND off for 6 years now, and I've even tried moving 500 miles away to get over him, yet I found myself coming back home. He invited me to move in with him, and so I did, yet he still doesn't want to commit to a relationship. I've been meeting men here and there, and he gets furious at the fact that I have other men inquiring about my relationship status. I love him, but I can't keep going on with his uncertainty about being in a committed relationship with me. We're supposed to go to counseling, but he always has something that comes up. What do I do?? Do I keep on waiting, or shall I move out and meet new people?

2007-11-07 08:56:56 · 32 answers · asked by chase. w. 1

BTW: I am not asking about scary, mean-looking, creepy guys- who might be intimidating for obvious reasons- but about guys who are "normal" yet who are intimidating to you....

Why might you find them to be so?......

2007-11-07 08:56:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, so I have been in a few serious relationships. One I was married in, but it seems that I am getting a track record of not being able to keep them around or if they do they just end up cheating. Are men that difficult to keep from getting bored. I'm not saying that I am boring, acutally I am pretty fun to be around. I feel like a I am developing a phobia to relationships, since they probably leave anyway. I am finding it is easier to just date people and not make commitments, but that isn't what I want. It just works. So,how is it that I see so many couples that have been together for so long and seem perfectly content? I know this is a wide range question, but is there just some hint that I have missed?

2007-11-07 08:55:37 · 11 answers · asked by Gohappy 3

i had been going out with my boyfriend for 1 1/2 years and we just broke up because we argued a lot. now idk wut to do without him and i miss him because he was my BEST friend, and its soo hard to see him wiht other ppl. were still friends, and talk but it hurts soo much. what do i do?
p.s. (were keeping the door open for eachother in the future)

2007-11-07 08:53:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

If u were asked to ask 1 dirty question what would it be

2007-11-07 08:42:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know chaz (my boyfriend) likes Olivia (my bestfriend) and she probly likes him too, this has always been a problem! He always say " im sorry i didnt know you called that 'flirting' ill stop im sorry... plz forgive me... it wont happen again"
when he was playing MASH with sister he had to pick three girls and one was olivia... me chaz and olivia were under the cover and i was in the middle and chaz kept rolling over to hug me and 'playfuly' grabing and touching olivia. He 'acsedently' grabed her boob, when we talked about it he said i was trying to grab her shoulder. There is numerous times sh*t like this happened and he always has some excuse and gets all definsive and makes me look like im crazy.. lol but yeah his favorite is "she was siting on my lap, it was all her" like he could not resist or say anything. He is always smacking other girls butts, grabing there boobs, and letting them write on him "kristen love you" and stuff like that. We are in a SERIOUS relationship.

2007-11-07 08:40:45 · 23 answers · asked by Rachel 2

I have been with someone for 2 years and things have got a lot out of hand. The little stuff is just to much to handle. He is the one that screwed up and I'm the one that is trying to fix it. Now he is trying to make it seem like he doesn't care about us anymore. He says that if I want to be with him I have to prove to him. So should I even try? Why is he trying to flip the stroy now when he should be showing me. Do I try anymore or do I let him go?

2007-11-07 08:38:33 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok what is the best way 2 ask her out should i write her a note or an email cuz i just dont got the guts 2 ask her in person so this is a note that i wrote 2 her tell me if its ne good and what is good and what is bad also what i should add k

emma,
i have liked u ever since the first time i saw u sitting next 2 me in spanish class. i was really happy when u got moved 2 sit right behind me so i could talk 2 u more. i have been talking 2 u more and more 2 find out more about u and the more i found out about u the more i liked u. i have been wanting 2 ask u out for a long time now but im way 2 shy 2 just come out and ask u because i am scared that u will say no and that would make awkward between us. i really really like u but i cant help but feel that u r just 2 good 4 me but i want 2 give it a try. i no that u like some other guy and when i found this out it was killing me inside,
there is more i ran out of space

2007-11-07 08:38:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like a friend of mine, but one of my friends is his girlfriend. I love him alot and I feel bad for doing so. All his friends say he likes me, but he allways tells them that I know he has a girlfriend. I fell terrible. Should I still like him? Please give best advise.

2007-11-07 08:35:54 · 28 answers · asked by madison b 1

how do you attract him

2007-11-07 08:25:48 · 8 answers · asked by racheal m 1

I'm definitely attracted to the brains and personality of my date. I like his e-mails, texts, and phone calls. I enjoy spending time with him. But I don't get that physical urge for him that I've had for others. I obviously find him attractive enough to bother, but at what point can I figure out if I will ever enjoy a physical relationship with him, or if I have just made a new friend?

2007-11-07 08:25:07 · 3 answers · asked by newcitykitty 2

2007-11-07 08:22:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anthony A archie 1

this boy i like use to hate me now he is being nice and he talks to me and puts his feet on my desk and tipping me whats happening with him

2007-11-07 08:20:49 · 17 answers · asked by lottie a 1

Do you like girls that are slim are curvy?

2007-11-07 08:19:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this guy and he is popular, im kinda half and half popular but not in 'the' popular group. so ive liked him for about a year, and he knows that, he gives certain clues to 'maybe he likes me' like he looks at me in the hallway a lot! but his friends dont ever say who he likes they just ask me if i like him... and supposably he htinks im 'hot' and im 'pretty' but i dont know if its true... and one of my guy friends is one of his bestfriends and he said that he knew who hel ikes and he was gonna ask her out. but i dont know what to do.. cuz i dont know who he likes, and also my guy friend kept saying stuff like why arent you happy, your gonna be happy, stuff -like- that. HELPP what do i doooo??? and im way to shy to talk to him, trust me i have tr ied and it didnt work out so swell by the4 way im in seventh grade

2007-11-07 08:18:22 · 8 answers · asked by 123456789 2

We have been together for at least 2 years. He is high maintenance, he needs pampering all the time. He does not do any chores (may be garbage once and a while) and he does not have a real job. He plays cards (looses more often than other), work a few hours on a small strugging business that he has and plays Xbox 360 (that i bought) with his friends during week days... and i have to not mind the few joints here and there (which i do)... he pays for the house, i pay for food, entertainment and restaurants (and his gifts to his family and friends) which costs me over 1000$ a month cause he has no money ... i am working 55 to 60hrs a week and feel just tired of all this... i feel like he is abusing of the situation... i get the speach : <> almost everyday...but i just do not feel it from him... i feel like a commodity...Last Valentines... i got a <> just after he heard it on tv... wow, i feel really special...what would you do?