I know chaz (my boyfriend) likes Olivia (my bestfriend) and she probly likes him too, this has always been a problem! He always say " im sorry i didnt know you called that 'flirting' ill stop im sorry... plz forgive me... it wont happen again"
when he was playing MASH with sister he had to pick three girls and one was olivia... me chaz and olivia were under the cover and i was in the middle and chaz kept rolling over to hug me and 'playfuly' grabing and touching olivia. He 'acsedently' grabed her boob, when we talked about it he said i was trying to grab her shoulder. There is numerous times sh*t like this happened and he always has some excuse and gets all definsive and makes me look like im crazy.. lol but yeah his favorite is "she was siting on my lap, it was all her" like he could not resist or say anything. He is always smacking other girls butts, grabing there boobs, and letting them write on him "kristen love you" and stuff like that. We are in a SERIOUS relationship.
2007-11-07 08:40:45 · 23 answers · asked by Rachel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Rachel,
you sound way too young to be in a relationship and if you are it defiantly doesn't sound serious sounds like you need a new friend and boy friend if you just have to be in a relationship good luck with that.
2007-11-07 08:45:51 · answer #1 · answered by Blaqchinah Violation Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to your friend and tell her to stop flirting with him. Also tell him that if he wants to date her to go ahead. Then again some people are just natural flirts. But there is no excuse for her sitting on his lap. Also there is no excuse for him grabbing her boob. If he is serious about this relationship then he needs to stop. If not dump him.
2007-11-07 16:46:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this guy isnt treating u how u should be treated, and i would think twice about letting your relationship get even more serious than you already concider it. he seems to be too immature to handle commitment and even if he hasnt actually made out with another girl, it sounds like he can't be trusted and will probably end up hurting you later on if you stay with him. find someone who will respect you and not flirt with your best friend.
and maybe have a word with your friend too... if she is a true friend she wouldnt hurt you like that
2007-11-07 16:45:40 · answer #3 · answered by Nat A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably does not see that as a problem as it is just natural for him to act in that way but if your not happy about it how is your relationship going to work personally i wouldn't want my boyfriend to do that you could tell him to stop but ristricting him may cause problems maybe you should talk to olivia or even give him a taste of him a taste of his own medicine go grab a guy's *** lol no hope it all works out for you goodluck:) guys can be idiots sometimes
2007-11-07 16:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by freefaller 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like YOU may be the one in a serious relationship, but he DEFINATELY is not....the way he treats you is very disrespectful and Oliva is betraying you as well. Neither of them are worthy of your friendship! I think it's time to find a new boyfriend and a new best friend!
2007-11-07 16:47:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a loser. You deserve better. He sounds like he has/will cheat on you. If a guy gets defensive, he's lying. Honest people have no reason to get defensive. I would consider looking for someone better...someone that deserves your time.
2007-11-07 16:45:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump your friend and then him...Let those 2 have eachother. The best thing you can give anyone is your time and both of them are not worth it
2007-11-07 16:49:02 · answer #7 · answered by livin the dream 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say that is cheating...because ...first of all he has no reason to be doing this sh*t...i mean you guys are going out.........this is just f*cked up...like big time.....if he is not willing to get into a serious relaionship with you then...dump him...tell him that is over..that you are sick and tired of him flirting with oter girls..and that he said that he wouldnt do it again...but he still did it..so yeah..hope this is good enough
2007-11-07 16:49:40 · answer #8 · answered by Monique 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, not serious enough! Dump him, or he will continue to do this too you. If you brought it up and he's still doing it, it's not worth it. He's not grown up enough for you yet. Move on to better things!
2007-11-07 16:45:07 · answer #9 · answered by nikkoli121 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
must not be too serious for him...check him off and find someone more respectfull and deserves your love and you....
goodluck and have fun looking else where...let him have Olivia since thats seems to be who he wants....sorry but thats how I hear it from you...it may not be what you wanted to hear but then maybe you just needed someone to tell you....
hey,us girls has to stick together and help each other out...
goodluck girl,have fun,and kiss him off.....
2007-11-07 16:49:15 · answer #10 · answered by hotmommadru 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋