...After breaking up with my bf we decided to try one more time...and today I was waiting to go out with him and have fun...instead he said that he will go to lunch break with his friend...later....said he is busy and can't meet me...I mean come on...I said to him that I want to try again...despite his weird attitude..and said he can't meet me...?
Is this normal...or not...?
2007-11-07 08:03:49 · 19 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell that bumbling idiot to take a hike and to just kiss your grits! no more chances, no more nuthin'...get gone, get lost, and take a flying leap into hell!
dont be his fool. you are better than that!
2007-11-07 08:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by JEN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say without a little more input. Does he have a job that is unpredictable? Does he have a history of breaking dates with you, in the past? Is that why you split up before? Is there a reason why he couldn't meet up with you for a later meet-time? At least he called to say he couldn't meet you (or did you call him?). Are you overly possessive of his time? Before "flying off the handle", ask yourself these questions and it might help you determine if you are over-reacting or not. If not, move on. If you doubt yourself, some, then the two of you need to talk or your 2nd time together will be your last.
2007-11-07 08:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by David T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, sit down here and let look at this together. hmmmm, if you have made the first two attempt to go out with you and each time he had excuse not to accept the invite. Its clearly that he is not really interesting going out with you, period. This is like a mind game that he want you to continue to ask him out so he can have the satisfaction to tell you no.
Its over between you two and its best for you to close that chapter in your life and move on to the next chapter. Dont waste any tears on this situation. Believe me you be wasting your tears over nothing.
2007-11-07 08:23:03 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are both supposed to be trying to work it out...which means both of you putting in effort..then no this is not normal. It sounds like maybe he has already moved past the relationship or is not taking it as seriously as you are. Doesnt sound to me like hes worth it. Also what does your gut tell you? Do you feel like something is up? If your instincts tell you that something is wrong.....most likely it is!!
2007-11-07 08:07:58 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa G 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
normal for a guy to do yeah if he really is not takin the makin up ...... i should say take a chance in life talk to him serious and actually think about it diply because the one that will be getting hurt is going to be you!! if he really wanted to be back with you he would of done anything to just be with you not put his friends first!!!!! so hope this helps!
2007-11-07 08:08:51 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He obviously is not putting you as his first priority, so he is not in the same mindset as you of trying to make the relationship work. Do not waste your time, to make a relationship work both parties have to put as much effort.
2007-11-07 08:19:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl I know it is hard not to go back to the man that you love but you SHOULD NOT do it!!!! If you guys broke up it was for a reason. Only go back to him if he has shown you he has changed! He is only playing with you! If he wanted to see you he would have shown up! I know it is tough but stand up for yourself you are important. Do not let anyone walk over you!
2007-11-07 08:12:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 13:07:57 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not a normal behaviour
he does not treat you well and considers you very cheap
so dont try to get back into relation with him
you deserve better than him i believe
good luck
2007-11-07 08:08:26 · answer #9 · answered by samur 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he is not interested in trying. I would move on. There are other fish in the sea. Good luck.
2007-11-07 08:11:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he made an excuse twice why he couldn't meet you, there is probably more to the story than he is letting on.
2007-11-07 08:06:27 · answer #11 · answered by kk 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋