Have you ever done it?
How far do you dare to reveal your fantasies?
What's the reaction of your significant other?
Have you ever discussed about acting some of them out?
If yes, how was the experiences? Rewarding? Regretful?
2007-11-07 07:41:16 · 6 answers · asked by sir_b_man 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm always willing to share my fantasies with a partner. I don't hold anything back. On occasion, I've gotten a reaction of mild shock with what I've revealed, but no negative reaction. And I have had some of my fantasies fulfilled (I wouldn't really want them ALL fulfilled. That's why they're fantasies). It's only ever been rewarding. And of course, I've fulfilled my partner's fantasies as well. Only once was it not an entirely positive experience.
I'm of the opinion that you need honest and communication in relationships. If you're not comfortable talking with your partner about sex, you shouldn't be having it.
2007-11-07 07:51:50 · answer #1 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes we do it all the time. But you must be comfortable enough in your relationship to do so. Some people find it offensive. Plus you must know what your partner enjoys. If he/she enjoy the idea of a threesome, then throw that in the mix, or bondage, etc. Now as far as how far to go with it...use caution. this is when knowing your partner comes into play. My husbanf loves it. its a different kind of foreplay. When you do talk to your partner, make sure you are talking about things you want to do with THEM, or vice versa. i think if done right it can be an awesome additiion to your sex life.
hope i could help.
2007-11-07 15:47:35 · answer #2 · answered by Lee A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have already had sex ask her if there is anything different SHE would like to try. It doesn't have to be anything really exotic. It could be something she may like to try but you hadn't thought of yet. If it is reasonable then act it out. Then next time let her know that it is your turn to suggest the something new/different.
If you haven't had sex yet then I'm afraid you are going too fast and need to take it a step at a time.
2007-11-07 15:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easier to talk about your fantasies/dirty thoughts during
forplay or while watching porn, not during dinner, lol
It's an advantage to both parties.
Also, only do if your in a commited relationship you don't wanna tell your one-night stand all your secrets and desires, that would be weird.
2007-11-07 15:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always fun to re-enact sexual fantasies...its part of a healthy sexual lifestyle...sex is dirty but fun...my partner enjoys my fantasies and it brings lus closer in our relationship...u should try it...:)
2007-11-07 15:46:49 · answer #5 · answered by kinky rocker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah we didnt hold anything back and man is it ever great
2007-11-07 15:44:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋