I am 26yrs old, female, and have slept with 8 guys since I started to have sex at 16. Half of the guys were long term relationships.
I have never been able to have an orgasm during sex, which I know is a common problem for females. One time I almost did, but nope! lol. My gyno once told me it was the guys I slept with and their lack of experience, but I have slept with a range of ages up to 33.
So my question is, how should I deal with this when a guy asks me if I came? I always am honest and just tell them I never have from sex, but then I notice some guys feel bad about it. Almost like they don't want to sleep with me because I can't and they feel like it's their performance that is the problem. I can assure them when it isn't, but it's just annoying because I wish I could orgasm during sex. Yes, I have tried pleasuring myself during sex, and one guy tried too, but no luck.
But what is the best way to handle when I don't come, because I have never faked it and never will?
2007-11-07
06:02:57
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Ambi
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