I have been seeing a guy for over a month now and we have been on four dates, but still haven't kissed! He cooked me dinner on our last date, and I was convinced he would make a move then, but... nothing! Should I be worried? Or is he just shy?
2007-11-07 04:27:41 · 22 answers · asked by happyg 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Enjoy it! it's good to meet a guy who respects you and is not in a rush to get physical. It shows he wants to get to know "you" first. The physical part is easy, and that can come later. Be patient and enjoy getting to know him.
If let's say within the next few weeks or so he doesn't kiss you, try kissing him goodbye on the cheek or holding his hand. See how he responds and go from there...
2007-11-07 04:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-11-07 12:55:54 · answer #2 · answered by zora 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on your and your date, if you feel comfortable with each other then a small kiss at the end of the 1st date. Your guy sounds shy, maybe you can make the 1st move, he might be worried about offending you
2007-11-07 12:33:21 · answer #3 · answered by cuffyn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say kiss when the both of you are ready to kiss. Try dropping subtle hints on him, look at him, smile, gently touch his hand. Play with his hair, all that stuff that can turn a guy on. Guys do like girls who take charge, and guys are afraid they may be rushing things. Instead of him saying "hi" to you the next time you see him...go up to him and give him a kiss. Just take things at your pace. Don't worry. If you both really like each other, you'll get there.
2007-11-07 12:33:43 · answer #4 · answered by duckieluvergurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rarely does a first date end for me that there isn't a kiss...I think the longest I've had to wait was maybe 3rd date (long ago).
Perhaps he is shy...one wouldn't think he'd keep asking you out if he wasn't interested. Hope you get that smooch soon! âºâ»
2007-11-07 12:31:18 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldn;t be worried, it will all happen in good time, cooking dinnner!!ooohhh!! well it sounds romantic so if i were you, if you feel the mood is there, i would make the first move! he is making an effort so why don't you, he is probably to shy to make the first kiss! hope this helps!
2007-11-07 12:36:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss him, start off by kissing him to say thanks for the evening/dinner, i have always kissed to say thank u on the first date and that lets them know its OK for them to approach as he may be shy(my guy was(now i cant stop him lol) so go on i dare you KISS HIM!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-07 12:32:48 · answer #7 · answered by littlemermaid_72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you just bow down and kiss him. you dont want to be waiting another 6 months. He is probably waiting for you to do it - when you are ready. If i were you, i would just go ahead and kiss him first then wait for him to do it the second time round. Then when we are comfortable in our relationship, have a go at him.
2007-11-07 12:32:48 · answer #8 · answered by tchickiedee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the fourth date there should be atleast a kiss. Why dont you try leaning in and kissing him? See how he reacts.
2007-11-07 12:30:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just lean in next time he's close to you & draw your face near to his. Look into his eyes & lock them with a devilish smirk on your face. Being too serious at at time like this can be a bit intimidating. He should react favorably.
2007-11-07 12:36:10 · answer #10 · answered by cutie807 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋