This 25 y/o guy I had 2 dates with assumes I'm the party type based on the fact that I do go to parties occasionally. He thinks I'm the type to hang out at parties and go up to strangers and hook up with them (could be due to rumors). So, he seems to be interested in me for the wrong reasons- interested in me for sex. I won't hook up with him. But I know he can be the relationship type. What can I do to show that I'm not the fool-around type? Should I confront him? Should I mention about my last long term 4-year relationship which ended few months ago? He already revealed his past on 2nd date (6-year relationship & claims he is a virgin) and when he asked me about mine, i said it was on a need-to-know basis b/c i felt it was too early to share that kinda stuff.
Most importantly, he invited me to his housewarming party and suggested i could crash over on the next date. Should I avoid going? Or should I go and leave at end of it? He will be driving me if I go.
2007-11-07 05:12:22 · 12 answers · asked by angelgirly777 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he needs to get to know the real you. first impressions don't always reveal who you are and no one should ever listen to other peoples opinions without coming up with one of their own. he needs to see who you really are and please don 't rush into anything. good things come to those who wait.
2007-11-07 05:17:06 · answer #1 · answered by LMD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was in a 6 year relationship and claims he still is a virgin? I think you guys should form a liars club and tell each other what you want to hear.It is obvious he is expecting you to hook up with him after the housewarming. I would bet you do also.
2007-11-07 13:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by Harley Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your inner voice you know he only wants one thing and unfortunately he thinks you`re easy. Don`t go or if you do go leave early, a good excuse is your mother is waiting up for you. It will waken him up to the fact that you`re not what people say if you`re mother is on the scene. If it does develop into something more than a fling confess to him that it was only an excuse.
2007-11-07 13:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to convey that you are not a loose girl, simply tell him about your morals and how you are never going to go back on them. And with the Party I think you should go and see how late it lasts. If it's like 1:00 at night maybe you should just sleep at his house and not with him. also you should stay there if you have been drinking. Whatever you do don't have sex with him you will regret it later. Good luck.
2007-11-07 13:18:38 · answer #4 · answered by 80's lad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When did you first meet him? - at a party. What did he see you do - at a party? What does he want - sex. You have already been on two dates with him.....you live the party life....what was the real question?
2007-11-07 13:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by Philip T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't trust him and feel uneasy about him, why bother?
Discussing past relationships and dating history is a BIG "no no" on a first or second date.. or ever, really. Who care about a person's past relationships? not me.
2007-11-07 13:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would go at the end. He might try to take advantage of you. I would tell him before you go if you decide to go back home. Be up front with him.
2007-11-07 13:18:37 · answer #7 · answered by runner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've posted this several times already...just talk to the dude. This isn't rocket science and it's obvious your copy/paste skills are great, so find a new topic already... *sigh*
2007-11-07 13:16:19 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you read the answers?I've answered this question 3 times.Just tell us what you want to hear and we will write that since you don't like the answers your getting!
2007-11-07 13:19:31 · answer #9 · answered by notagain49 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and have a conversation about it, then move on. He ain't the one
2007-11-07 13:16:23 · answer #10 · answered by MrsMagee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋