I found my boyfriend code to his phone I found out he has been talking to another woman all the time he has been text messaging her alot he has been coming home late from work when I ask him where was he he says the train was late or some excuse but when I look I see he has been talking to her should I comfront him with this cause there was a time when I found out he was buying another woman flowers and he wasn't even doing that for me I comfronted him about that he told me he's not gonna explain cause I shouldn't have gone through his things he went away for training for his job the night I spoke to him he said he was tired and he was gonna to bed but I look and he had called her right after he spoke with me for and hour and a half and three minutes later he called her again half the time he don't even respond to my text messages he claim he don't get them as well as my calls what should I do should I comfront him about this cause I did sneak into his phone to get this information
2007-11-07 04:55:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont confront him or anything. dont talk to him. change your number, and dont ever talk to him again. he is not worthy of you and you deserve better! just b/c you looked through his phone doesnt give him an excuse to cheat! you let him by once and he'll just keep on cheating TRUST ME! I know its hard but move on. Let him wonder why...
2007-11-07 04:59:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on, you're being played. He is trying to make you feel bad for going through his personal things (which IS a violation...sorry) so that he doesn't have to take responsibility for the fact that he is talking to another woman behind your back.
Get rid of him and find someone that wants you and only you. The fact that he goes out of town may be even more of a reason to believe that he is physically seeing another woman and is quite possibly cheating on you as well. Best wishes to you!
-Knowledge24
2007-11-07 05:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
easily take a deep breath and concentration on what you like. :) you will completely have yet another boyfriend. i'm 33 and that i've got had many adult males come and pass. I felt panicky many circumstances, yet you're so very youthful. you're advantageous. do no longer permit your strategies convince you that only with the aid of fact one guy broke up with you which you will no longer locate yet another boyfriend ever. "Ever" is an prolonged time!! :P only get invovled in what you prefer to do, pursuits, jobs, imaginitive passions and you will certainly experience greater effective and locate greater human beings to be around. there are various of wonderful boys accessible! The Universe is calling out for you and that guy wasn't magnificent for you besides :) I additionally locate that gazing clips of wonderful celebrities i admire on Youtube helps too in specific situations, haha. just to permit me overwhelm out on different adult males. additionally, meditating is large!! look into that. It particularly helps with the pancky feeling.
2016-12-08 14:50:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got the information you needed to see to tell you he is cheating. Now that you know the truth, you really should consider leaving. You should have enough dignity about yourself not to allow a guy to walk all over you like that. Good luck and I am sorry you are going thru that.
2007-11-07 05:00:54 · answer #4 · answered by Shubunkin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although you should not be checking his stuff, since that does violate his privacy, its obvious that your inclination of him cheating was correct. Although you went about the wrong way obtaining this information, since you have it now you should definitely confront him. If he tries to make you feel bad about looking at his stuff, tell him if he didn't have anything to hide there wouldn't be a problem, now would there? Just be honest with him...
2007-11-07 05:00:05 · answer #5 · answered by mally_pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave this guy, he is OBVIOUSLY seeing another woman! I know it's hard to accept, but you can't live like this. Even if you confront him and he stops, he'll just do it again...once a cheat always a cheat.
Confront him, pack your bags, and find a new man!
Good Luck
2007-11-07 04:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I dont see why your boyfriend doesnt explain himself. I mean, yes you shouldnt be looking at his personal stuff, but at the same time you are justified in not trusting him. Ask him where he is and all the things you suspect. Tell him if he doesnt talk to you about it, youre not sure you can trust him anymore.
2007-11-07 05:03:28 · answer #7 · answered by Nat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CONFRONT HIM!!! Tell him looking at his phone isn't nearly as bad as cheating. Find out about the other woman first.
2007-11-07 04:58:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...i said call or go to "cheaters.com" i bet u he will feel so bad that he will bed to come back and 4give him..but if you guys dont have no kids and u are a very independant who dont need shiit from him...then u dont have nothing to loose but leave him... dont take no shiit from him girl..been there done that..put ur foot down and let him know that u stand b4 him.
2007-11-07 05:05:28 · answer #9 · answered by April 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the evidence is right in front of you
they i see is either you allow the the lies,and the sneaky calls to continue
or put a stop to it, and move on with your life
2007-11-07 05:02:14 · answer #10 · answered by treekgomon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋