Singles & Dating - 31 August 2007

i'm not cute, if someone were to rate me from 1 to 10, i'd be hovering somewhere ranging in the 4 or 6 section (im talking AVERAGE here)... im still in my late teens, im not interested in dating but what ive noticed so far is that looks triumph over personality for some reason. i tend to wonder, now that i'm growing up, if that will ever change... i have asked someone before, but no response, i think due primarily to looks... coming from asia, most guys tend to judge someone by their "fairness factor" and although im not completely dark, i have been called that as a reason for my 'uncuteness'...mind you, I DONT CARE ABOUT SKIN COLOR! but i am wondering, will this whole "looks over personality" concept change later on in life?

2007-08-31 18:14:32 · 15 answers · asked by ishida25 2

2007-08-31 18:02:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok there is this girl in my P.E. class and her name is olivia and shes wow! perfect. and im new at this hs and i dont know anyone including her..i dont know what to do..and now i got a class change so now i dont have a single class with her and it would be wierd if i just go up to her and start talking to her..i wish there was just some way i can get her to come talk to me..

2007-08-31 17:55:00 · 1 answers · asked by Jonathan 2

how much should the number of sexual partners you have been with in the past matter in a relationship? should you tell the other person or is that something you would keep to yourself? (unless the # was completely ridiculous?)

2007-08-31 17:40:35 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive always been curious about this. I know girls are wired a little differently than men & they actually need to know a person (sometimes) before having sex with them, this isnt true with men obviously, we can havee sex with a total stranger just based on what she looks like. However, Ive always been curious, how often girls have one night stands with someone just for casual sex like what men do. So Ladies, please comment on this, do you have casual sex regularly, rarely, or not at all. & by casual sex, i mean you just met the guy that night & that same night you have sex with him.

2007-08-31 17:36:49 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a boyfriend but I kant help but think of him as only a friend. On the other hand me and his friend flirt alot. And I really like him [his friend]. But i don't know if i should try and wait it out w/ my bf or just break up with him and tell his friend how i feel. What should I do?? Thnksz 4 ur answersz...

2007-08-31 17:34:17 · 18 answers · asked by {{{**`ATLkaramel`**}}} 1

I live in the midwest and the scene is kind of small to medium here. Everyone in my age range (29-36) seems to already be coupled off. I tried meeting people online but most of them seemed to be looking for a third. I am not much for bars and the typical places so how does one go about this. Should i just stand in the gay friendly sections of the bookstore for hours on end? I'm relatively attractive, I'm out to almost everyone, outgoing and have my crap together. Now I just need someone to share it all with, but they seem to already have that portion of their life taken care of, so suggestions are needed.

2007-08-31 17:29:45 · 2 answers · asked by write_it_down 1

I know I am getting ahead with the going out thing, we've known of each other for at least 5 years... but we are from different worlds!

Hes what you would call a jock.. football player but hes a nice guy... doesnt do drugs, gets decent grades... he has only had one girlfriend, showing his seriousness in a relationship...

i dont know what it will take for him to notice me, but i want him to...

this is the first and last class i will have with him, as we are seniors in high school...

sometimes we say hi to one another, mostly not.

he probably wont keep it up if i dont do anything or try to talk..

its hard i dont know what to say... we are so different... i feel too grown up for him, i take college classes and all APs, work... its not being"good" or "bad" its the connection...

i feel something that can happen.. but its just a feeling...

he teases other girls... never me. we hardly know each other... plus im not the girl to be teased...

what to do?

2007-08-31 17:19:39 · 7 answers · asked by sam3345 1

i feel lonely, i feel fustrated, i feel like crying. i feel my life is boring. i have a bf but he seems to be in his own world. some times i feel i dont fit in his world. he have his own friends. he dont offer to go anywhere with me. and when he's home he only play his video games. all we do is work and come home. or he may go out with his friends and then i get upset because he dont offer to do anything with me. sometimes i want to just leave him and find me someone else. but i cant because i love him. he tells me he love me to. but sometimes i dont think his love is real.

2007-08-31 17:14:06 · 10 answers · asked by ms sassy 1

We were engaged and together for 8 years. He found meth and got a girl that he doesn't really love pregnant. He is suppose to be with her, but he ALWAYS tries coming back to me. NO, I DO NOT WANT HIM BACK AFTER HIS METH MESS AND PRISON TIME. I'm kinda betting with friends, how soon it will be before he calls. lol What do you think? When do you think my phone will start ringing off the hook?l

2007-08-31 17:11:32 · 21 answers · asked by SHARI 3

i mean im always left out i dont have any friends im literaly ignored by the whole world im lonely why do i fell like this its like im depressed. help.

2007-08-31 17:09:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am digging this older man so much! He is old enough to be my dad literally! For some reason i really have a crush on him... just because of the things he says, and the way he says them.... it helps that he is established and has an excellent job( and i do mean excellent).

At first he was really into me... he even followed me to my car, just to get a glance at me as I left...lol )he was unaware that my friend saw the whole thing)...
He also likes to check me out a lot.... he likes to stare at me and wont look away when i catch him!!! Im just really unsure how he feels now because we have drifted apart and barely see each other anymore....

Should I just get it over with and say hi to him, and see what page he is on? I am tired of wondering... my friend seems to think that he is unaware of how I feel, and he is intimidated by MY age.... should I let him know that im ready to "hang out" with him????...lol
by the way im in my early 20s and I know NOTHING about older men.

2007-08-31 17:08:04 · 28 answers · asked by Into The Thick Of It 1

2007-08-31 17:08:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 18 and i got asked out by a 25 yr old. i was curious what are they thinking when they ask a younger girl out. is it for sex, are they looking to get married, do they wanted to be friends? can someone explain?

2007-08-31 17:07:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

HELP ME TO STOP THIS!
when he sits next to , talks to , plays around in a flirty way with another girl it makes me soo jealous!!

2007-08-31 17:07:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm turning 20 in less than a month and honestly I am freaking out. I still feel like I'm 16; like there are still so many things I haven't done. Its such a pointless age. I'm no longer a 'teen', I'm going to be in my.... 20s! Feeling depressed.

2007-08-31 17:03:22 · 15 answers · asked by loungequeen21 1

I was thinking of texting her this:

Hey xxxx, sorry for being an ***, k. I realized that I was pressuring you with my feelings and stuff. Was being selfish cause I didn't care of what you would think. Hope we can just be normal friends k?

Is this good?

2007-08-31 17:01:51 · 12 answers · asked by cowsmoo1711 3

I wear glasses all the time (except when I am sleeping and showering of course). I am not wearing them in my avatar because I have a camera that glares. Do you prefer glasses or contacts/no glasses on a girl?.... or does it not matter?

2007-08-31 17:00:24 · 35 answers · asked by Kelly 4

my gf told me not to talk to her on msn yesterday coz she was grumpy and she said that she ll talk back to me on monday and she refused to gimme the reason. Today i asked her again y she told me not to talk and she said that its not only me o_O, wat is she tryin to say? p.s shes never been like this bfore like NEVER

2007-08-31 16:59:17 · 6 answers · asked by Letsgofishing 3

Okay lol When I & my ex hubby split, I said "No More Aquarius" simply because I know a few Aquarius
personally and Yes! our temperaments *crash* By the ways, I'm a Gemini....so maybe then a Gemini? lol Hey, why not? Aren't we the same way...don't ya think? Again, I know a few Gemini's personally....my own brother, my best friend & even an ex! Well, one think about Gemini's is that we get tired easily of the same person ;) So what about Libra's? Are they really all Good Hearted but Players? you tell me

2007-08-31 16:58:09 · 4 answers · asked by gmg2 3

I have been going out on and off with this guy tony for about 2 years. When he lived here in the same city, he didn't like it when i wanted to hang out with other people, even girls. So, i spend almost every day with him. Now, for about a month so far, he is at Oklahoma University having the time of his life meeting people and joined a fraternity, as he says. I think he is a hypocrite for not letting me have fun then, and now HE is having all the fun, leaving me with no friends here anymore. Now, is it bad that when i talk to him over the phone i like to manipulate him and tell him that it's not right if he hangs out with people in college? I do it because i think he deserves it because i got treated badly by him. While he goes out and parties, i stay home because he doesnt like the ppl i hang out with. I know i should get over it and move on, but i just can't stop thinking about the fact that i hope he gets treated like crap the same way!

2007-08-31 16:55:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 15 and never had a truely steady boyfriend
i mean i have had aboyfriend but it rele only last a couple months..
is this normal..??

i mean ik other friends who have had such long relationship then me wit these sorta flings..i feel like im missing sumtin

2007-08-31 16:55:16 · 11 answers · asked by Nancy Pants 2

Ok.... people keep telling me not to hug the guy that likes me.... but guys.... would you be turned on by getting hugged by the girl you liked? Sorry.... but this is a problem. Girls are welcome to answer too.

2007-08-31 16:55:02 · 12 answers · asked by "Spencer" 3

Theres this guy Ive been friends with for about 3 years now. But he just recently told me he has liked me for a long time. So, we've gone out on a few dates. He dedicated the song "Superstar" by Usher to me. He keeps saying he's not waisting his time. He's ready to find someone to settle down with and start a family. He is 30 years old, so I assume he's serious about that. At the same time I kind of feel like he's not serious. He hasnt said anything to make me feel like that though. He keeps saying he wants to spend more time with me. And I work 3rd shift but he works 1st shift. Hes asked me twice now if I could change shifts at work. But after all this. The next weekend after we had sex for the first time, we were suppose to go out. Well, 30 minutes before we were suppose to meet he said he got a call saying his friend was in the hospital froma car accident. My question is, do you think he wants to be with me or does he just want sex? Any advice!!!

2007-08-31 16:54:08 · 15 answers · asked by eranjc 1

2007-08-31 16:46:19 · 22 answers · asked by Alana R 1

I recently posted " I feel trapped" It was recommended that my boyfriend and I should seek counceling. Thinking it was a great idea, I brought it up to him. He doestnt want to. He says "we dont need it" I asked if he wants our relationship to end and he said no. He says well do it when it gets to that point. I told him im not happy and he was shocked..like I havent told him 50 times or anything. I want to make it work with us. We have a daughter and she deserves both parents. Not if we arent happy though right? I dont want her to watch us arguing all the time and seeing her mom misarble. Thats not fair. What else can I possibly say to get it through is head that this is what we may need to save our relationship?

2007-08-31 16:45:27 · 7 answers · asked by Samantha 4

like i said theres a confrence i have the time off to be able to go but she insist that i dont im afrraid she gots plans to meet someone there what do you think?

2007-08-31 16:43:48 · 12 answers · asked by hioutput_99 1

OK my cusin works with the producer of disney channel and i got ot hang out wiht miley cyrus for a day!!! ok well heres the thing i went to her house and she didnt give me her phone number but she gave me her aol instent messager screen name . i dont know if im supposed to tell but alot of fans talk to her on this normally it cost money to talk to her on this but now its for free i talk to her somethimes she doesnt talk but its smileymileyxonline try it tell me if it works and u can tell all of your friends its sooo much fun!

2007-08-31 16:43:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been married 3 times, I've had 5 arguements out of my whole life with men. Don't really play games, have never recieve one rose, one box of candy, one card and I have never celebrated one anniversary. Not one of them paid any of my bills and the last 2 times I bought my own wedding rings. I know I very odds and really just asked, just because and be assured I am not despair or seeking a man to spend (sex) with. Just a curious question,

2007-08-31 16:38:06 · 11 answers · asked by Queenetta 2

2007-08-31 16:34:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous