I've been married 3 times, I've had 5 arguements out of my whole life with men. Don't really play games, have never recieve one rose, one box of candy, one card and I have never celebrated one anniversary. Not one of them paid any of my bills and the last 2 times I bought my own wedding rings. I know I very odds and really just asked, just because and be assured I am not despair or seeking a man to spend (sex) with. Just a curious question,
2007-08-31 16:38:06 · 11 answers · asked by Queenetta 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, there are men like that out there.
2007-08-31 16:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by lady bird 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, there are all types of men out there. It's usually the nice ones who go unnoticed. Every guy wants to date, and eventuallly have sex. That's y men and women were created, to be fruitful and multiply like the sands of the Earth. But due to society the way it is, guys who follow the biblical principles of human living are in short supply because they know marriage would come late for them. That's y when a girl does find a man who'd lay down his life for her(so to speak), she hangs on to him...or she doesn;t know how to treat him, and destroys him, so then he's juset like the vast majoritiy of men who roam the world.
If u pray, and believe, and just leave it up in the hands of the Lord, he will find u the man u seek. I think u found these other guys urself, and that's y none took care of u. But this problem in the Lord's hands, will work, and u'll find the guy who's supoosed to be complimentary to u. The owner(ur his rib), is out there, but w/o asking, God won't show him to u. Good luck.
2007-08-31 23:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of them are just pretending to be nice.....alot of guys SEEM nice at first - its about finding out what they are REALLY like....looking before you leap...if you see any of the danger signs...get out quick!
Yes - there are genuine , good heared men out there with a good character....but they are few and far between...but at least they exist!!!
They may be an endangered species but they are not totally extinct - thank God!!!!!!!!
Just to add one thing....I think you let your exes treat you badly...and not how you deserve....they should be working every hour God sends to save up and buy you a wedding ring!
Definitely learn from your mistakes...you deserve so much more than candy!!! lol :-)
2007-08-31 23:47:18 · answer #3 · answered by chandra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they are out there. First, you have make sure that they are a true Christian. It is one thing to say you are a Christian, it is another to walk like a Christian. But be careful, do not look for perfection, because no one reaches perfection on this side of Heaven. When Christians are in a relationship, they should understand love as it is described in 1 Corinthians 13. For the Christian, love is defined as selfless and not selfish. Love is not "what have you done for me lately" but "what can I do for you". Also in a Christian relationship, the couple should encourage each other to be more like Christ. My advice is to continue to pray to the Lord about your situation, He is waiting to hear from you. Also trust Him and in His timing (Romans 8:28). I know what I'm saying here is not easy, but we need to trust Him and continue to grow in our walk with the Lord.
2007-09-01 00:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are, but you have to choose them, not jerks who treat you badly. Also, you have to be a genuine Christian, one who tries to follow the teachings of Jesus, for them to be attracted to you.
I'm sorry for the emotional pain that you have had in your romantic life, I've had a lot of the same in my life too. The reason was that I chose beauty and emotion instead of a genuine Christian woman.
My x-wife was the daughter of a Lutheran Pastor. I assumed that she was a Bible believer. I was wrong.
God bless you in your future relationships.
2007-08-31 23:53:36 · answer #5 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure with ur experiences with men.. i know that it is really hat difficult to find for som1 who really deserves u... treat those 3 unhappy marriage as an experience and from there u can now eliminate guys who have the same character as the ones who u had... like they say.. u can learn from your past mistakes.. and if you fall down.. just get up and move on...
2007-08-31 23:44:47 · answer #6 · answered by zykoe1208 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to stop going after guys that are all the same. Also have more arguments guys want a girl that fights back of you dont they will walk all over you.
2007-08-31 23:46:53 · answer #7 · answered by biteme4455 d 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
iam not religious but i bet their is good men out their i took care financially of my ex wife she was a stay at home mom and we only had one child so i know their is bad thing stay at home moms are cheaters
2007-08-31 23:46:32 · answer #8 · answered by mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe so you just have to find them in the right place.
it seems you're not looking there.
2007-08-31 23:46:18 · answer #9 · answered by pepsiandpickles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no........
2007-08-31 23:46:12 · answer #10 · answered by Jay P 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋