I have a boyfriend but I kant help but think of him as only a friend. On the other hand me and his friend flirt alot. And I really like him [his friend]. But i don't know if i should try and wait it out w/ my bf or just break up with him and tell his friend how i feel. What should I do?? Thnksz 4 ur answersz...
2007-08-31 17:34:17 · 18 answers · asked by {{{**`ATLkaramel`**}}} 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-08-31 17:39:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'll never work out with the friend. Trust issues are bound to arise!
The best advice I could give you would be to stick wit your man and talk about the things you two could do to improve the relationship. Or just dump him simply because you're not feelin him. (which is probably what you should do in the first place.)
Whatever you do don't decide to get w/his friend on the D.L. it'll ruin his friendship with his friend and you don't want that kind of juju comin back around to haunt yu. Or...
Just be honest! When people say the truth will set you free! They say that for a reason. You can probably get what you want if you just try being honest.
2007-09-01 00:48:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would break up with my bf but I won't tell his friend how I feel. I wouldn't want to ruin their friendship. I wouldn't want any of my friends to do that to me so I wouldn't do that to anybody. There are a lot of other fish in the sea. Find another bf.
2007-09-01 00:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by Caitlyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you see him as only a friend he's probably not that into you otherwise he would try to make a connection so just break up with him and ask out his friend.
2007-09-01 00:37:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because some men do things, like this to us, there is no reason you should do this to your boyfriend. Break it off, when him now, before he finds out, if he hasn't notice or found out already.
2007-09-01 00:42:01 · answer #5 · answered by That one 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but do you really want to cost them there friend ship
cus if your bfs friend goes out with you then wont your bf get mad
over here thats how fights break out
but whatever you decide to do
think about it before you do it
2007-09-01 00:38:41 · answer #6 · answered by CandiiBabii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get girls. First they say they like you and next they just break up with you for another guy they like. You should just break up before he gets to attached
2007-09-01 00:38:32 · answer #7 · answered by Life Stops 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are YOU his GF??? If you two are just close friends....Talk to him about it. Tell him you don't want to hurt him if he thinks of you more of a GF then a close friend. I had a similar situation and after HS, I ended up asking my friend to merry me.
2007-09-01 00:38:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say first see if his friend likes you and if he does then just break up with your Boyfriend.....
2007-09-01 00:41:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You'll look like a ***** if you dump the bf and hook up woth his friend! and well i would give it time and see if your feeling mend out! then go with your heart, not your head!
2007-09-01 00:37:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have a problem and should figure out your feelings and before you go out with someone first get to know them and then go out with the person.
2007-09-01 00:41:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋