Singles & Dating - 31 August 2007

I'm 14 1/2, and a freshman.

I asked a question about a guy named Nic a few weeks ago.

He doesn't flirt like he used to in the beginning, now he's taking it slow. When we go to lunch (in the middle of class), (he sits next to me), he gets up, and I get up too, and I follow him (not intentionally), and I notices that he like looks back over his shoulder whenever I walk behind him. He also does this thing to my best friend, (their last names are close to each other's); she opens her locker and he closes it with his foot. She told me that she notices that he only does it when I'm there waiting for her to walk with her to our next class. I'm making him laugh, and smile, which is a good thing. My bff is telling me to take it slow, and not to rush into things. I was thinking of giving him my number, or asking for his, but she said wait a few weeks. She also said that guys like the chase.

How exactly should I take it slow, but let him know that I'm still interested? I really like this guy..

2007-08-31 13:42:24 · 3 answers · asked by Grandpa Stanley 4

**so confused**

2007-08-31 13:40:34 · 7 answers · asked by rae-rae 1

2007-08-31 13:36:16 · 13 answers · asked by Stripper 3

I don't want one around, they are in high quantities...... Is this what they mean by irony?

2007-08-31 13:34:51 · 3 answers · asked by Stripper 3

well i like this total nerd but my friends laugh at me then is it me or is it my friends but i have like 4 classes with him and he sits rite next to me and always looks at me what to do??

2007-08-31 13:26:06 · 16 answers · asked by me!!!! 1

My girlfriend and I decided to go to a fancy restaurant as a date. We both suggested it; no one asked the other out. It was expensive and I offered to pay because I figured she would pay me back soon. I didn't think I'd have to tell her to pay me back because I figured it was proper etiquette. It's been three weeks and she hasn't even mentioned paying me back. How long am I supposed to wait?

2007-08-31 13:10:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend and i have a good thing goin, but me and his best friend r getting really close.i see his bf more tha ni see him, and every1 says we should go out and that we flirt.i am starting to have feelings for him, but i still have feelings for my boyfriend.what should i do????

2007-08-31 13:04:12 · 21 answers · asked by HarleyQuinn2011 1

I Don't like women who have more money i just go on what person they are but i feel that some women only like guys if they are rich what do you think?what is more important money or love?

2007-08-31 13:02:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

To every guy:
to every guy that's said, "Sex CAN wait"
to every guy that's said, "You're beautiful."
to every guy that was never too busy to drive across town to see her.
to every guy that gives flowers and a card when she is sick.
to every guy who has given her flowers just because.
to every guy that said he would die for her.
to every guy that really would.
to every guy that took time to do what she wanted to do.
to every guy that she cried in front of.
to every guy that holds hands with her.
to every guy that kisses her with meaning.
to every guy that hugs her when she's sad.
to every guy that hugs her for no reason at all.
to every guy who would give their jacket up for her.
to every guy that calls to make sure she got home safe.
to every guy that would sit and wait for her for hours just to see her for ten minutes.
to every guy that would give his seat up.
to every guy that just wants to cuddle.

2007-08-31 13:00:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

HURRY

2007-08-31 12:57:49 · 29 answers · asked by leer 2

whats a way how

2007-08-31 12:57:19 · 19 answers · asked by leer 2

i met this guy on line keep saying he'll coming here to see me but never show up yet always promise....

2007-08-31 12:52:44 · 2 answers · asked by lynch63 1

I love my man very much, but he has a hard time express his feelings to me. I think he is a manly man and love to keep all his feelings inside.

He love to write poems for me though. He wrote over 30 poems during our separation (distance and circumstance). We are still separated and keep in touch as friends.

I think he love to read stuffs on my website. Last week, I wrote to my girlfriend that it hurt and kill me inside that my man and I are separated and not sure that we will able to be together.

Next day I saw he wrote two sad poetries about moving on (I guess he does not want us to feel more hurt and linger). I try to ask him why he wrote the moving on and sad poems. But he does not want to tell me. why did he write the poems? Do you think he still love me? What should I do

2007-08-31 12:47:08 · 17 answers · asked by Hope 4

I need general advice, so I'm going to be general about the details.

My heart is begging me to do one thing, but my mind is giving me holy hell with logical thought and various other things.

It seems the stronger I develop a heartfelt passion, the more my mind throws into the equation, balancing the scales and keeping me still.

The problem is, it is depressing me, because I feel as though I am having to deny myself no matter which way I choose.

I have tried throwing away logic and following my heart. So my mind gave me more to think about. I'm tired of thinking. I just want to get on and do.

But what my heart begs involves a huge lifestyle change. Something I can certainly do in time, yet my mind tells me I'm not prepared. I have been prepared for at least 4 years, so why do I suddenly become unprepared when I want to follow my heart?

My mind calls my heart silly and careless. My heart calls my mind dispassionate and overbearing.

Trouble is, which one do I follow?

2007-08-31 12:39:25 · 12 answers · asked by ? 5

I think I found someone that I can live my life for.
What do ya think?

2007-08-31 12:32:49 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

we've been together for 2 years..we really love each other,he does everything for me... but i think im going crazy.. at some point at our relationship he started talking about threesome really seriously,he even mentioned my girlfriends and what he would do to them if i agreed for a threesome... every time he goes away for a business trip,he comes back and tells me imaginary stories of him cheating...i know he would not cheat cause he has very high morals,very mature..and...i just know,believe me..in addition he always looks at other women...so all this adds up,and i cant think of anything else...i think this kills my love to him slowly....i talked to him about it,but he says im just crazy....we are planning to be together forever,but its so hard for me to get over this...he doesn't do it anymore,cause i told him not to....but still looks at every chick...i have so many girlfriends,whose boyfriends and husbands dont ever do things like this and never look at other women...HELP!!

2007-08-31 12:29:34 · 1 answers · asked by Woman 2

Why do grown women really believe that all men want to be their friend. This woman I'm talking to has many guy friends, and I told her one in particular would start to have feelings for her. Guess what happened? Now she said she's confused and doesn't know how to deal with it. I'm to the point were I'm losing patience with this woman, and I'm about ready to cut my losses. If she doesn't know how to feel about this guy, why would I waste my time trying to take her out to eat, and trying to win her heart if some other little cock blocker is messing up my game. What do you think? Am I giving up too soon? Why am I the one that looks like I have trust issues, if she just told me she might have feelings for someone that's supposed to just be her friend? WTF!!

2007-08-31 12:18:25 · 1 answers · asked by TXboy 2

My boyfriend is very affectionate, always holding hands or putting his arm around me, etc. As my one friend put it, "He can't keep his hands off of you!" Is this a good sign that he's pretty into me, or is it likely that he's just an affectionate person?

2007-08-31 12:17:01 · 2 answers · asked by Kona Cutie 33 3

my ex of 9 months and i are talking again. he says he still likes me but one of his friends told me different. he likes another girl 2 tho. shes wayy prettier then me but she also has a b/f. and so he says he doesn't know what he wants right now. so should i wait for him to make up his mind or should i just move on cuz i still like him a lot..

2007-08-31 12:12:48 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

In my highschool class I was writting some stuff on paper and some hot girl in my class grabbed my hand on purpose while she was walking by and messed me up on purpose and giggled and walked past. What is she trying to do? Is she trying to flirt or something?

2007-08-31 12:05:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

hey, so I've been hooking up with this guy for a while now, but I'm starting to have a kindof big crush on him, I know he's physically attracted to me, (cuz we have sex) and sometimes he does things that make me think he might like me, but how can I find out. I don't want to tell him I've started to have feelings if he isn't interested because it might scare him off

2007-08-31 12:03:46 · 4 answers · asked by Ariana C 2

I've been talking to this really nice guy online since June. We're really close and talk about practically everything. However, we've stayed just friend since we've both had crushes since we've been talking and his friend just cheated on him. He's afraid to get hurt again but he's said that he's now ready to resume the waiting game to see if anyone else comes along. I've told him before I have feelings for him and he said he'd thought of us together but didn't want to say anything because I liked someone else. (I don't anymore) We're going to meet in person in a few weeks and I don't know how to act! How do I know if he likes me as more than just a friend? Should I make a move or wait for him?

2007-08-31 11:59:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

hello there im 19 and a girl i no realy wants me but she 45 to old dont get me wrong she is nice looking but think my mats may take the pi@+ and wud be my 1st grilfriend and what shud i do ?

2007-08-31 11:59:10 · 28 answers · asked by james g 2

i live in NY, i was just curious if anyone on here makes around a 38k salary and what their take home pay is per paycheck (assuming bi-weekly)??

2007-08-31 11:26:01 · 14 answers · asked by hersheybar99 1

It makes me very uncomfortable. I am a bit larger than normal, but not extremely huge. How can I turn their interest in that element of me into a request for a date. (just dinner first! ;-) )

2007-08-31 11:18:29 · 1 answers · asked by LovesAssFlakes 1

i'm so sick of having to wipe off pee with tp before i sit. its his pee!! its nasty and has got to stop. what can i do?

2007-08-31 11:15:15 · 16 answers · asked by bertinathompson 1

I know this girl & I told her I like her, & lately shes been emailing me, talking 2 me more often...even when shes tired shes still willing to talk, she'll ask me how my day is, she says she misses me from to time & it seems like she likes me as well, anyhow, for some reason if i compliment her & say she looks pretty or her hair looks nice or nice compliments in a small manner. Now she says I'm lying or she thinks that shes not pretty enough & for some reason shes been getting moody with me, pretending to hate my guts, I DIDN'T DO ANYTHING! and then she denies it, whats her problem & does it seem like she has low self esteem & do these signs indicate she likes me?

2007-08-31 10:42:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok when ur textin a guy and he says 'ttyl'(talk to you later) does that mean he does like you or wanna talk to you? like he acts like he likes me-he flirts alot. but i just wanna know....

2007-08-31 10:35:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this boy, most people think he's ugly and I kinda agree with them but he's still a really cool kid. Well it just so ahpenes thjis kid is my crush. And most people know it. But I lied to them and said I dont like him anymore. I want to talk to him in 1st period because thats the only class I will get to talk to him,because my school doesn't have recess. Oh and if you are wondering I'm in the 6th grade and in middle school for the second year. Anyway bak to the question. Also in 1st period there are a bunch of guys that kinda make me feel bad about myself because they think I'm ugly.And evertime I try to say something there remarks cut deep and the only thing I can think of is to say something really stupid or get mad. How do I talk to my crush without him freaking out? I told him I dont like him but ya know he probably knows I still like him but I dont knw what to say to him. Could you help me out?

2007-08-31 10:08:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

would you? meaning from home/work/relationship etc. Or are you happy where you are now. why?

2007-08-31 10:05:43 · 15 answers · asked by ? 6