Singles & Dating - 31 August 2007

I recently searched my boyfriend of 5 years' computers to see if he was looking at online porn. I never thought he did ANYTHING like that until someone I work with, also a friend of his, said he's obsessed with it. When I asked my boyfriend if he looked at porn he denied it and says he rarely masturbates Recently I saw a show about how online porn addicts eventually engage in casual sex and cheat. My boyfriend is 27 and I always thought he just didn't have a sex drive. He works alot and I thought he never wanted to have sex with me b/c he was too tired. I always got turned down when I asked and we only had sex a couple times a month, which lasted very shortly. I looked online and hes been going to porn sites before work, after work and sometimes after going to bars several times a week. He's doing this before I come over his house. He's been looking at local sex ads of girls in nearby towns and I think he's cheating on me. Any advice? Am I overreacting? Do all guys look at online porn

2007-08-31 14:56:05 · 3 answers · asked by duclosall 2

why do guys always go for the sluts and not nice pretty people!!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-31 14:49:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

this guy needs to be set in place help me to make myself to make him so he stops doing it its wrong

2007-08-31 14:40:07 · 8 answers · asked by Kilee 1

Were all between 21-40 and we share stories about guys etc. So anyway, the other day were all talking and just about every one of us atleast once if not more times had there vibrators either stolen/taken/destroyed when breaking off a relationship by the ex..... so I was wondering how common this is and if its happened to you? Whats the reason for it? And guys, have you done this and why?

2007-08-31 14:33:09 · 11 answers · asked by JJ 5

Ok well dont answer if u r going to say something mean but my last bf said that he broke up with me because he found someone else and thought I wasnt really good looking so I was just wondering what u think?http://www.usc.edu/student-affairs/IMREC/spirit/song/media/2005fball_hawaii06.jpg I am the one with brown hair and I have the blue and white stripe shorts on.Thx.

2007-08-31 14:31:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you consider beautiful for a girl or guys physical appearance?

2007-08-31 14:31:39 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

One day I was just hanging out and a guy came up to me. He asked for my number and I said sorry I'm not interested. So then he grabbed my left breast and said "honk honk" (what an idiot) he started walking away and I asked if he wanted a suprise he told me yes and walked up to me. With all the strength I had I kicked him in the balls. He fell over in pain. I kicked him in the balls again and said "Do you want more?" He moaned and I walked away. Girls has this ever happend to you? And this is for girls and guys, was I right or did I over react? (I don't think I over reacted)

2007-08-31 14:31:09 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello all. I have fallen in love with a wonderful woman. On many levels we are perfect together. I love her very much and im sure she definitely cares a lot about me. We have been together almost a year and have had some great times. We are currently living together. We are talking about a longterm future. We want the same things - nice house, kids, etc. However there are multiple clouds on the horizon - 1. She is 7 years younger than me (im 30). 2. She has a 3 year old daughter (who i get on well with) 3. Her previous relationship was abusive - we have great sex - but she finds physical intimacy difficult - i suppose we dont have sex as often as i would like 4. She is being sued in a civil case - long story short - she went drinking with some underagers, one of whom killed a man while drunk driving - im worried that she and if i marry her we will be liable for a lot of money etc making our future difficult. 5. Her ex bf is psycho - he is currently in prison for how he - continued..

2007-08-31 14:17:48 · 8 answers · asked by Pa J 1

So This Is How It Went Down-
We broke up cause he is not the same person and really Iiked this girl named Fatimah. My ex is spreading lies saying I broke up with him cuz I wouldnt F*** him and I always want my way, and yada yada. So I was like screw him, he can kick rocks! So his new girl Fatimah (supposed to be my friend) She came up and said "He's Mine Now". I told her I dont care cuz I really dont want him. So even though I like my best friend Steven, I still like Keytron (ex). What should I do about Fatimah? I dont know what to do! Help me out plz!

2007-08-31 14:14:56 · 14 answers · asked by niyah_chrisbrown 2

OK...this is something I've never understood. Why is it that a guy can meet someone that he says is beautiful and that he loves her to death, but then turn around and go do the cyber sex thing with any woman who will let him? To me it makes no sense. He's got someone to love...someone who loves him...and yet he would rather do something like that. I even know a girl who tried it out for her guy's sake. He started the whole thing...stopped her within seconds with a lame excuse about people supposedly milling around the house...but the next night, she was talking to a another woman and he propositioned her to show herself on cam, even though he knew they were talking! She was so ashamed...and he never spoke of it after...nor did he speak to her after that. How could a guy claim to love someone and do that to her?
And yes...I know there are women who do the same...so let's say why do people do that? (Though I'm specifically looking for a guy's POV).

2007-08-31 14:13:16 · 18 answers · asked by Unpretty 6

2007-08-31 14:12:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

What are your favorite qualities in a girl?

2007-08-31 14:12:36 · 5 answers · asked by peace♥love♥latex 1

I caught my fiance' cheating (our engagement was on hold anyway) I checked his answering machine and he got 2 females on there saying "hey baby" and all of that crap. This relationship sucks, I want out but our lives are intertangled together right now, but I've had it I want him out! What can I do? He brought his little sister to our apartment to live, and this crap is not good at all the relationship is failing but he won't leave! I won't be with a lying, cheating man! What to do! How can I get rid of him! He has no car and no way to work, but I can't deal with this crap right now, because he should have thought about that before he cheated on me and when I asked him he said no!

2007-08-31 14:10:28 · 22 answers · asked by rashida_16 5

i've heard this
and i don't if this is true?

anyone have some feedback?

2007-08-31 14:09:39 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

yeah I know this is weird for me a girl to be asking but I'm trying to figure out what types of girls my friend likes and I'm showing him all htese pics and he has just revealed after much begging that he likes brunettes

2007-08-31 14:09:07 · 3 answers · asked by s 1

we have have been 2gether for 2 years. we have been through thick and thin and he used to always say i love u 2 me no matter who was around, now he doesnt say i love u very often. he doesnt really say it when he is out in public, see our relationship is complicated we dont see each other like other couples do. so usually i see him rarely. so we talk alot on the phone. lately when i talk 2 him on the phone he is out and most of the time he hasnt been sayin it so i dont say it. so for example, today i spoke to him and he told me he was going to the movies with his new roommate tony. and so i say ur going u 2 by urselves he said yes, so then i say, talk 2 u later and then he says ok bye, so i say what r u supposed to say he is like dont make me say it, i ask y he says oh cuz im with tony and i say ok so wat he says ill just talk 2 u later so i then i go no. and he says fine i love u but idk should i be suspicious, i feel kind of bad. im really tired of this. grrr lol what should i do?

2007-08-31 14:05:41 · 5 answers · asked by Just Wondering! 1

Hi everyone I am in a very conflicting situation. I have been going out with this guy Paul for 4 months now. We hit it off really good and it started in an intensely sexual way. However he has had an ex/gf on the side and lately he says they are seeing one another once again. However paul and i have still been going out with one another, but under discrete terms, it involves us going like 30 miles out of town.

He tells me all about his ex, when he's with her so he can be with me, but he says never ever does he tell his ex/gf about me. Paul and me always have a good time with one another, watching a movie, going to dinner, cuddling , sex etc. The thing is i am falling for him really badly lately. I was hurt when he told me this news , yet we still do the same things. His ex is also not a very attractive person (at least i dont think most guys would think she is)- Paul says he really likes how i look and it all started with his attraction. I don't know what to do, I really love him??

2007-08-31 14:04:53 · 17 answers · asked by Liz 1

The bar is not the best place. Church can be good, although there are men out there who like to "prey" on women as they pray. So where are the good men?

2007-08-31 14:03:08 · 58 answers · asked by divaat29 2

No little boys please...
Which one is more of a turn on to men? Kissing the neck, or ear?

2007-08-31 14:02:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

just wondering your feelings on dating a black girl/or getting to know one!! *winkwink*
im just doing a bit of reasearch..

2007-08-31 14:01:54 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok im going to be a freshman in 5 days, is it true everyone in high school gets a boyfriend? i never had 1. so will i get a boy friend 4 sure in 9th grade?

2007-08-31 14:00:06 · 7 answers · asked by Mimi 4

Charisma, etc? What is it? How do you build on these qualities?

2007-08-31 13:57:33 · 1 answers · asked by AO099 2

Okay, so this isn't the typical stalker situation. My boyfriend's ex is CRAZY - I mean we're talking about threatening to kill me, illegally obtaining my address information, harrassing me, etc. They broke up 18 months ago and we moved 700 miles away almost a year ago. He hasn't had any contact with her in forever, but she constantly leaves messages for him on his sister's myspace page (we both have blocked her from ours). She told us both she'd do everything she could to make sure she stayed a part of his life forever. Yeah, crazy, I know. Now she's engaged, but she STILL tries to communicate with us both. Sure, it's annoying, but it's also sad and pathetic that she's marrying a man she obviously doesn't love just to make US think she's happy.
How do we make her go away??

2007-08-31 13:54:36 · 21 answers · asked by Roland'sMommy 6

November 2nd is me and my girlfriends one year anniversary were going very strong so were both sure were gunna make it to then we have both decided to wait til were married to have sex and to do anything more than making out so physical stuff doesnt get in the way of our relationship and we both trust each other with our hearts and would tell each other anything so all we have is love and thats all i want from her i want to show her and remind her of this even more so ladies whats the perfect date and gift for a one year anniversary for the girl of my dreams???( ps i also got her a silver heart bracelet for her birthday so jewelry has already been around once as a gift)

2007-08-31 13:54:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I found this guy that I want to "hook up" with but don't want to ruin our professional relationship. How can I do that and still maintain?

2007-08-31 13:52:33 · 26 answers · asked by for7949 3

okay so me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months and one of my good friends wont stop flirting with him and ill ask her if she likes him and she claims she doesnt.but then when im not around i hear my best friends telling me she is all over him when im not around. i really want our relationship to last but i dont want him to start falling for her.
help!? wat do i do? and how do i tell her to back off.

2007-08-31 13:52:23 · 15 answers · asked by abcd1234 1

Ok, so this guy and I have been friends since 6th grade (i am in 11th grade now). BUT- I just found out the other day that last year he wanted to ask me to prom but got too nervous and that he told his best friend that I look "good every day". And I've seen signs that he might like me but they are very subtle but I don't know what to do! Now I act all awkward and I feel bad around him but I'm still nice to him and stuff but now I don't know what to do. I want to still be friends without him knowing that I have this information.... and I don't know if I like him or not. Help?

2007-08-31 13:52:01 · 7 answers · asked by Susan 4

mk, well most of you are saying to go talk to him, but im soooo freaking shy!!! i hate it so much to. im like hinata from naruto when it comes to guys that i like! >.<

umm well we make eye contact every now and then. but talking isnt my only problem... the other one is that he is and upper classman. thus making it worse.

anyways what should i say to him exactly?!?!?!

2007-08-31 13:51:37 · 4 answers · asked by ANIMELOVER 2

just because their physically attractive and not have feelings for them

2007-08-31 13:50:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well i like him alot but I don't know if he's good looking enough to be seen in public with. what do u think?


http://www.flickr.com/photos/12473278@N07/?saved=1

2007-08-31 13:43:06 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous