The bar is not the best place. Church can be good, although there are men out there who like to "prey" on women as they pray. So where are the good men?
2007-08-31 14:03:08 · 58 answers · asked by divaat29 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
at da club or marketplace or movies
2007-08-31 14:05:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Already around you! You probably ignore the most eligible bachelors,and go for the rich and famous.Most men are outnumbered by eligible females,so if you're over 35,it's slim pickings.I met my wife when another couple that we both knew arranged a blind date.After 6 months of 100 mile drives to see her on weekends,it got to the point where I didn't want to leave her.She was 27,I was 25.We both expected the other to dump us.Your best bet is mutual friends.And the more that are married,the fewer single friends they have.Have you "Prayed" for a man?Divine intervention works wonders.Read the account in Genesis of Isaac getting Rebecca as wife in the Bible.
2007-08-31 14:23:43 · answer #2 · answered by gary s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as for my opinion... finding the right guy is not really necessary. It will just happen in the right time, all u have to do is just wait and expect the unexpected =D. It wouldn't be that exciting if you were the one to "find" the right one right? it's much better if you'll get surprised suddenly and find out along the way that he's the one for you. also, there is no such thing as a "perfect good guy" in this world, but a guy that will love you truly and accept the whole you is what all of us need ^^
and lastly... pray.so that you'll not end up with a guy that's not really good for you.
that's it... he he TC! =D
2007-08-31 14:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by kawaii ne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you will find they are in the same position as you --- looking for a "good lady"
depending on age (and that can be make a big difference to how and where you look) sometimes the online dating scene (if you ignore the idiots) can work --- i have met a few ladies online and while they did not work out we were both looking for a long term relationship --- saying that i have met the lady i want to spend the rest of my life with online --- it was a total surprise --- so keep your mind open to possibilities and dont reject someone out of hand --- there is a BIG age difference between us yet we do not see that ---- best wishes
2007-08-31 14:10:33 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually where the good women are! A party or get together of some kind where friends bring other friends, but it's usually when and where you least expect it. Make sure you get out there though and expose yourself to as many situations as possible. Good luck!
2007-08-31 14:08:32 · answer #5 · answered by Chris B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol, I used to wonder the same thing about ladies, but there is somone out there just for you, waiting for you, even now you two are going through things that will prepare you for your time together. Remember that, and learn to be content on your own, don't pine over a man, but be ready when he comes into your life.
2007-08-31 14:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by Villain 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should elaborate a little more. A 'good man' is too broad. But to answer anyway, book stores would probably be good. I remember talking with a guy there because we both went to pick up the same book haha. He was really cute too =)
2007-08-31 14:08:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Homeless shelters.
KIDDING!!!
Libraries -- behind the reference desk. Ask for Bob, or Nate.
By the pool.
At the hobby shop.
Grocery store....
There's an endless variety of where we hang out, but you're right, bars ain't good!
2007-08-31 14:09:36 · answer #8 · answered by Bryce 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm personally not looking for a man so I shouldn't have anything to say about that but if someone would let 'Cut Up Angel' know there's a good man out here, I'd be grateful.
2007-08-31 14:07:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
we are here you have to give us chance that we have been hurt to and have the thought that there are good men looking for good women just as you arelooking for good men it really is easier said than done,have understanding and patience and hope get out mingo and try to make new friends.
2007-08-31 14:12:53 · answer #10 · answered by likeablerabbit_loose 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are not on myspace or match.com or eharmony dating sites. Perhaps they are friends of your friends and they can introduce you. I can really relate to this question. I have been looking for years and have not found one that can be faithful and loving without cheating in more than 10 years. Maybe they were all kidnapped. Let me know if you locate their planet.
2007-08-31 14:07:54 · answer #11 · answered by justclicktherubyslippers 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋