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Okay, so this isn't the typical stalker situation. My boyfriend's ex is CRAZY - I mean we're talking about threatening to kill me, illegally obtaining my address information, harrassing me, etc. They broke up 18 months ago and we moved 700 miles away almost a year ago. He hasn't had any contact with her in forever, but she constantly leaves messages for him on his sister's myspace page (we both have blocked her from ours). She told us both she'd do everything she could to make sure she stayed a part of his life forever. Yeah, crazy, I know. Now she's engaged, but she STILL tries to communicate with us both. Sure, it's annoying, but it's also sad and pathetic that she's marrying a man she obviously doesn't love just to make US think she's happy.
How do we make her go away??

2007-08-31 13:54:36 · 21 answers · asked by Roland'sMommy 6 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

She's even stolen things from my boyfriend. We have contacted the police, but they say that's a matter for the courts, and won't do anything about it.

2007-08-31 15:54:49 · update #1

21 answers

To sever ties completely with her get your b/f's sister to block her too! That way she cannot contact you at all, can she? Have a great day.

2007-08-31 14:04:20 · answer #1 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0 0

First off, calm down. I hear the stress and understand why it's there. I would suggest you call the police where you are living and let them see what this "girl" is writing on your boy friend's sisters my space. Get advice from the police how to handle the situation before someone gets hurt. Hard to tell if the threats are just that or real. Make sue that if you call the police you are armed with as much proof as possible as to what threats this person is giving you. Don't go to the police if you can't back up what you say. Don't waste your time or the police's time. Give them real stuff to work with to help you. Good luck!!!!!

2007-08-31 14:07:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Take her calls and messages that threaten you to the police and get a restraining order, she seems like a crazy ex. It would be best just to have no contact to her even have his sister not talk to her, she seems dangerous.

2007-08-31 14:00:46 · answer #3 · answered by Ally... 5 · 1 0

you will ought to stay consistent and truthful with Zach. If he freaks you out and what no longer enable him understand which you at the instant are not delicate around him and his following you has have been given to end. Be ordinary with him yet don't be rude with him. If he does not capture the hint tell a instructor which you have instructed somebody to end following you and that's starting to be stalkerish. tell the instructor which you're fearful and choose to tell somebody approximately it. Then tell Zach lower back on his 2nd offense which you at the instant are not delicate with him following you and that he has have been given to end. If he does it lower back tell your theory and oldsters. If the priniciple does not end Zach from consistently stalking you confront the police. Stalking is against the regulation. And the police can manage it if the college won't. Your risk-free practices is fairly important and there is no longer something incorrect with keeping your self risk-free and having a member of authority manage the region in case you have long previous during the lengths of attempting to by way of your self with no longer effect. additionally, make valuable to no longer gossip approximately him or %. exciting at him. in case you mostly tell him to diminish back off yet in the back of his decrease back or infront of him you carry his call up then you definately're in all risk giving him motives to confront you. wish this permits!!

2016-10-19 21:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Gather the evidence and show it to the police. Let her husband to be know what is going on. She is obviously unstable as well as unhappy. Perhaps he can help get her into therapy.

2007-08-31 14:01:22 · answer #5 · answered by jules 3 · 1 0

thats creepy u should call the police because threatening to kill u is a serious thing . good luck wit that situation.

2007-08-31 14:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Contact the police.

2007-08-31 13:59:07 · answer #7 · answered by Vig90 4 · 1 1

Being that she is now engaged it would be smart to bring her fiance into this. Perhaps informing him of her fixations would have a dramatic effect

2007-08-31 14:12:11 · answer #8 · answered by espreses@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0 0

ready, here it goes, report him to myspace, and send some of the messages to mysace, so they know what is going on. If she percists, get a restraining rder against her, and change all your stuff, phone numbers, emails, so on and so on. don't play her game, cut her off at the knees.

2007-08-31 14:00:52 · answer #9 · answered by jt 4 · 0 1

thats not good... contact the police, tell her fiancee by leaving a anymous message on his cell phone

2007-08-31 14:02:19 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥JuicyGirll♥♥ 2 · 1 0

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