"If you don't have any plans for tonight (tomorrow, etc..) I'd like to take you out to (dinner, movie, etc...)"
This is a way to ask a girl out and avoid an embarrassing rejection. If she's not into you, she'll hopefully make an excuse for being busy.
If she's into you and really is busy that day, she'll let you know when she's free.
Please don't use lame pickup lines or pet names like "hey baby"
2007-08-31 13:06:21
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answered by Emma 3
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well, something simple like " you must be asked this all the time, but oh well. i'd like you take you out on ( fill in date here), for ( fill in proposed date activity, dinner, etc..)."
make sure you give her at least three days to get ready, and be a man and make sure you have something planned! nothing kills a date more than showing up and the guy saying " so what do you want to do?" instead say something like " i have this planned, does this sound good to you?" that way you aren't making her do what YOU want, and not giving her a choice.
bottom line : make sure she knows you have planned this, but are flexible if she wants to do something else.
oh and after, call her a day or two later, just to tell her you enjoyed yourself, and hope she did too. ( you don't have to ask her out again during this call/ chat)
2007-08-31 20:49:37
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answered by Jewel M 2
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ok, as a female my self. I would go out with a guy that would just come to me and ask if i would like to go out to dinner and a movie. or, if you want to do something more fun, ask her to dinner and then to play pool. that's a 2 person game and it would be perfect when you help her how to hold the stick. but always include dinner in what you do because a girls gotta eat. do the activity 1st, then the food.....'cause when u eat afterwards, the activity you just did, gives you something to talk about.
2007-08-31 20:06:20
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answered by Anonymous
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Just ask her if she wants to go out some where where ever you plan to take her. But let her know that you like her and be confident in yourself, don't be shy. A girl likes a confident guy! Good luck!!!
2007-08-31 20:04:32
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answered by swffsflame 1
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send her flowers with a note "do u wanna go out" an sign ur name. and make sure shes not allergic to them! Then send her an e-mail asking for her answer. if she says yes leave her a sweet voicemail on her cell with the details.
hope i helped
good luck =D
2007-08-31 20:07:06
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answered by Jaiden 2
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Do you want to hang out sometime?
Do you want to go get something to eat?
your making this a lot harder than it actually should and has to be.... relax and have fun.. that right there is whats a turn on to women
2007-08-31 20:02:59
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answered by Anonymous
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(i m a grl) just casually walk up to her and say this: (assumed conversation)
You: what do you have goin' on this weekend?
Her: not much (only works if she's got nothin' to do, or you could try other days)
You: i've got nothin' to do either, so maybe you'd like to go to the movies or somethin'?
Her: sure, i'd love to.
don't look to anxious, but put some character in.
2007-08-31 20:07:01
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answered by Grace 3
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Simply talk to her and ask it to her face. For me the most annoying thing is when guys give you notes, poems, emails or anything like that. I like guys that aren't afraid to just put themselves out there like that. If you do that, you automatically get a chance with me. But I guess I intimidate some guys ;]
2007-08-31 20:04:12
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answered by Anonymous
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Just say Hello there my friend was suppose to go out for dinner with me tonight but they canceled would you like to come with me instead?
2007-08-31 20:07:12
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answered by Anonymous
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compliment her on her clothes, so she gets the idea you like her, then ask her out, and when she leaves say promise to wear something like that on our date. that way she will definately know its a date, and she will wear that outfit 100 more times
2007-08-31 20:06:00
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answered by lana s 2
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