**so confused**
2007-08-31 13:40:34 · 7 answers · asked by rae-rae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How long has this break-up been? If it has been a while, and the reasons for the break-up are good ones, then keep the door closed and don't reopen it for him.I know love is a very powerful emotion and sometimes we don't have as much control over our actions or feelings as we would like to.But if this guy wronged you or at least gave you sufficient cause to end it the first time around, I suggest you leave matters as they are now no matter how painful they are for you .In the long run, you will be better off for it. Think carefully and long about all the issues I have raised before you elect to let him back into your life.I wish you all the best .
2007-08-31 13:56:06 · answer #1 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically you guys have broken up in the beginning for a reason. You wouldn't want to have to go through the same thing again so my best advice is just to move on....guaranteed you may find someone Just as good as you think he/she could be OR even better! =]
2007-08-31 20:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. It's a traditional move of manipulative people. They see that they are losing their hold over you, so they act nice and caring. Once you are sucked back in - they will screw you over again. Don't make yourself suffer! Tell them that you are not interested in going down that path again.
2007-08-31 20:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by May 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you have moved on and wish them well. You broke up for a reason and if you go back things will get even worse.. trust me!!
2007-08-31 20:51:45 · answer #4 · answered by boykicker69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL THEM TO TAKE A HIKE - IT WAS TOO HARD THE FIRST TIME, AND YOU ARE NO LONGER WILLING TO SET YOURSELF FOR THAT KIND OF PAIN.
2007-08-31 20:45:07 · answer #5 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say, so sorry for your bad luck. You had your chance and blew it, move on , I have.
2007-08-31 20:55:50 · answer #6 · answered by ladyhawk8141 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN THE OTHER WAY, Rae-Rae, as fast as you can run!
NOT KIDDING.
2007-08-31 20:44:34 · answer #7 · answered by bitadkins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋