i feel lonely, i feel fustrated, i feel like crying. i feel my life is boring. i have a bf but he seems to be in his own world. some times i feel i dont fit in his world. he have his own friends. he dont offer to go anywhere with me. and when he's home he only play his video games. all we do is work and come home. or he may go out with his friends and then i get upset because he dont offer to do anything with me. sometimes i want to just leave him and find me someone else. but i cant because i love him. he tells me he love me to. but sometimes i dont think his love is real.
2007-08-31 17:14:06 · 10 answers · asked by ms sassy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The answer is simple. If youre not happy, having to ask us what we think, and/or doubting his sincerity, then dump him. Love doesnt make one feel sad, lonely, cry, or bored. And it most certainly does not cause one to question it. You deserve better and hopefully, when you DO find someone who treats you the way you are supposed to be treated, you will wonder why you ever bothered with such a jerk.
2007-08-31 17:19:59 · answer #1 · answered by Debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, if this is the type of bf you need you are in big trouble. You need to drop this "bf" and learn you need yourself and family. What do I mean by yourself? Look at it this way, you are all alone and what do you have, YOU. You can only depend on you, you can only worry about you, you can only enjoy what you like, and you can learn you must have inner strength. Family is simple. Family is something you know you can depend on. Family is something you know you can argue with and still have people you can depend on and love. A "bf' is something you can find a dime a dozen. You need to find a bf who you have something in common with. You need to find a "bf" who loves and respects you.
2007-09-01 00:37:08 · answer #2 · answered by CommonSense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a son that does to his g/f, similar to what your b'f does with you. But, I do know that he loves her dearly. He is just a homebody, very quiet and laid back. He likes simple things and she likes to go out and party with friends and he doesn't. It's obvious that both of you have different opinions of things and thats what makes the world go around. We are all different. Just be glad he is with you, even if it means staying home together playing video games.
2007-09-01 00:20:23 · answer #3 · answered by wundawoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out there and socialize! If you were in the same city as I am, we could talk about this in person, perhaps over drinks from Jamba Juice. Ok, you have to either leave him, or let him be in charge. It's your decsion. Nobody's making you love and stay with him. It's my guess, your relationship is semi real.
2007-09-01 00:19:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a recreation, seems like you love being on the relationship but not happy anymore. Better get some break ut don't give up yet.
2007-09-01 00:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont look to him to make you happy, you have to learn to make yourself happy and to do what is best for you. Why don't you go and work abroad for a while and learn something different. If your love is real it will be there when you get back and maybe things will look different then
2007-09-01 00:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by beachloveric 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have the luxury of getting yourself a new BF. If you're not happy now what makes you think you will be in the future?
2007-09-01 00:18:12 · answer #7 · answered by krollohare2 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him "If you love me, why don't you show it instead of saying it?" jeez what a loser... why don't you try to talk to him about his games or his freinds? You are his girlfriend, you are supposed to be part of his life, not neglected like some thrown away rag doll.... Women would like to be respected by their boyfriends, not ignored... do what you will, if he looses you it would be his fault and he can't go around blaming you.....
2007-09-01 00:21:37 · answer #8 · answered by Jay P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like your life, change it. Only you can fix your life.
2007-09-01 00:18:03 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't sound as if you are in a happy relationship...so why stay???
2007-09-01 00:17:29 · answer #10 · answered by chandra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋