Ive always been curious about this. I know girls are wired a little differently than men & they actually need to know a person (sometimes) before having sex with them, this isnt true with men obviously, we can havee sex with a total stranger just based on what she looks like. However, Ive always been curious, how often girls have one night stands with someone just for casual sex like what men do. So Ladies, please comment on this, do you have casual sex regularly, rarely, or not at all. & by casual sex, i mean you just met the guy that night & that same night you have sex with him.
2007-08-31 17:36:49 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I was a LOT younger I had one night stands on a fairly regular basis. I had zero self esteem and just went with anybody who seemed interested.
Now that I've grown up, I know that I'm worth much better treatment than that, not just from men, but from myself.
This was also in the days before AIDS. I am pretty damn sure that if AIDS had been around, my pants would have stayed on.
2007-08-31 17:42:08 · answer #1 · answered by j3nny3lf 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
It stand to reason that just as many girls are having one night stands as guys. Unless you think about the guy guy type one night stands but then you also have to think about all the girl, girl one stand. Then you also have to think about the 3 somes but then again the 2 guys and a girl will most likely be about the same as the 2 girl and a guy.
Now the next day it may seem like more guys had one night stand then girl. That's only because about 20% of the guys will lie and say they did and 30% of the women will lie and say they didn't
2007-08-31 20:20:26 · answer #2 · answered by TheOneAndOnlyBooger 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have never had a one night stand.....I don't knock, some ppl can get down like that. But I have always felt that sex is a special thing that should be shared w/ a special person...who knows though, I might meet a guy one day that I want 2 rock, but I haven't so far
2007-08-31 17:44:14 · answer #3 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most girls who do that SOBER, feel a connection with a guy, deeper than their looks, or they just don't care and want the fun. Everybody's different and does it for different reasons. I'm in a long-term relationship right now, but I once did it, not on the 1st night, but the 2nd night we hung out, but it was a co-worker and we had been chatting and flirting for awhile before it happened, so I can't really say that it was a "just met and it went down" sort of situation.
2007-08-31 17:42:47 · answer #4 · answered by ṡ๓υгƒєtt 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men.. Yall say we(women) are the twisted ones, It's not us it's y'all. Yall want a women to be pure, but you want a freak too. What do you really want.
I don't have sex casually. That's like letting a stranger into your house, into your refrigerator, it's like letting a stranger into your bank account. My stuff is like my bank account. It's mine, it's personal..I only give it to who I want. It's private, and the person I give it to does not share the information.I really don't give it up when I first meet a guy because of how I was raised number 1. After you give it to a guy. What else do you have to offer him. The only thing he will remember or think about is your stuff. And when he calls you..That's what he wants not you...but your stuff.
But men, put soooooo much pressure on women. Like I said earlier. Yall say y'all want a nice lady,but when you meet one. You can't control your hormones,...you are putting so much sexual pressure on her,...Then when she does give it up. She's a sl*t. So Yall gotta make some changes. Control yall hormones lst.
2007-09-01 10:17:02 · answer #5 · answered by Imdatchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To, me, I look at sex as more then just a way of feeling good. It means something to me. I'm not religious or anything, but I do believe it is something you give to someone, and something you won't ever get back. I have respect for myself, and I would never ever EVER no matter how attractive or charming the guy was, give it up in a "one night stand" situation.
2007-08-31 17:43:13 · answer #6 · answered by Shiva K 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well i mean it totally depends on the person they can have very strong morals or no morals at all but they both can choose to have one night stands.Personally for me i choose not to have one night stands because like u said for women in my opinion they might say oh it was just a one night thing it had no meaning behind it but in reality some small or big part of what happened that night will stay with them. I guess it all depends on the person , me, i choose not to because i know that im probably going to put more feelings into it than the other person.
2007-08-31 17:46:06 · answer #7 · answered by onelove 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
It's happened, but it's rare. I doubt you get too many women to admit a thing like that however. I'll star this and check back. I may be proven wrong, but I'm interested in knowing! ;-)
2007-08-31 17:42:45 · answer #8 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poll says something like 75% of women say they will have sex with Brad Pitt :/ - so contrary to what you say. None of these women know Brad Pitt. lol.
And yes, alot there are women out there who will just screw with anyone (good looking I suppose). And yes, they just meet the guy and have sex with him.
Most girls dont do it. And the rare ones that do, some of them do it ALOT.
2007-08-31 17:43:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
We don't admit to that sh*t!!! lol
ok.....seriously - probably because we see it as a mistake , drank too much alcohol , resistance weakened or whatever - but definitely not proud of it and not something we want to make a habit of.....we would prefer to be with a lovely lovely LOVELY guy ( eventually , or when we're ready! ) ....Just wouldn't feel right putting notches on the bedpost and boasting to our mates about how many times we scored!!!
But it does happen and i think most of us kick ourselves rather than pat ourselves on the back if it does
2007-08-31 17:50:21 · answer #10 · answered by chandra 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋