Singles & Dating - 24 August 2007

I am not 'in love' with him. Will these feelings come with time? What should I do?

2007-08-24 05:47:55 · 21 answers · asked by Laurie J 2

Ive had 5 girlfriends in the past and I have cheated on all but one of them. I think I have a problem I just cant say no to pretty girls. The next girl I meet I dont want to mess up the relationship with does anyone know of any pointers or ideas that would help me straighten up

2007-08-24 05:42:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my fiance works with a girl that likes him. She has a boyfriend to. He says he only likes her as a friend. When he calls her it is not around me and he will call 2 to 4 times until she picks up. Then he will call her boyfriend? What does this sound like.

2007-08-24 05:42:07 · 8 answers · asked by surfawave 1

From my picture, do ytou think I'm pretty? Rate from 1-10. I know it's small but please do your best.

2007-08-24 05:39:24 · 44 answers · asked by That Blonde Rebel 5

what are the signs that he's in love with me??

2007-08-24 05:38:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a young college student, and this job is not my career. In fact, I am actually thinking about looking for another job anyways.

I am really starting to fall for this guy I work with, and I think that he feels the same way.

I want to show him that I like him without being too obvious....so what is a good way to go about doing this?

2007-08-24 05:37:57 · 17 answers · asked by lala2007 2

i overheard my younger sister talking to one of her friends on the phone (she is 16) she was talking about this guy she likes and wanted to know how to get his attention...then i heard her say well i wonder if i told him i am a virgin if he would want to hang out. my mouth dropped...ok so question first off do i say something to her....second if a girl (any age) came to you and in the middle of the conversation said she was a virgin what would you do. take advantage of it or respect it...i dont know how old this boy is, but it still scares me.

2007-08-24 05:37:30 · 13 answers · asked by puppy love 6

He's 32 and i am not sure how old she is; some say only 15; i haven't actually met her but cannot believe she's that young; but maybe 18 or so...
But here's the strange thing: we are close friends; so close it's caused problems in my marriage; my husband doesn't like how close we are. But he has never mentioned this woman/girl...though he has in the past, and even today talked of his ex wife...with great fondness...and high respect.
But this girl, never once. Last night when I was talking with him, she came up and he handed the apartment keys, confirming what I knew already; they are living together. He didn't introduce me. Later I sms'd him, "why have you not introduced me to the woman you gave your keys to; who is it? I am sad because I thought we were close friends, but maybe I thought wrong."

Though today when i talked to him he acted like we were best buds again, even apologizing for his phone being turned off last night (the battery was dead he explained), so the question:

2007-08-24 05:32:23 · 14 answers · asked by karen i 5

Everytime I go out with friends I think of her. Not her friends she did not know them.. I have prayed. I have cried. I have done everything I can think of to forget her but I can't shake her. Yes I was and still am deeply in love with her. However, I don't seem to move on. I hear her voice in crowds. I smell her scent sometimes. Songs come on all the time to remind me. And within an hour if I throw something away that reminds me of her she calls or shows up some where i am. I am starting to feel a little pycho. I have stayed away from her and her friends places she use to frequent. Still I cannot let go of this love for her, and until I do I can let NO one in. They will only be a bandaid on a corpse.

2007-08-24 05:27:51 · 15 answers · asked by Spanky 2

I have been dating this guy almost six months his ex wife uses the kids to call him to get a few extra hundred dollars even thought he voluntarily sends a large amount of child support and she still isnt working.I dont like it at all. I wonder how many more times he is going to let her keep doing this. She really takes advantage since 2 of the 3 kids aren't his but he loves them like his own. Do I wait and see or just straight up ask him how long hes going to keep rescuing her? Things are good between us and what happens when our relationship progresses and if were engaged, livng together I cant see standing by and watching this happen. What would you say or do?

2007-08-24 05:27:25 · 10 answers · asked by ms_sweet_real 2

2007-08-24 05:26:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi,
My BF buys me ice cream cones and watches every move as I savour the ice cream. He says that watching me lick and sukc on the cone gives him eratic thoughts. I can see his erection through his pants. Is he some type of pervert? Should I seek help for him? Or should I ditch him?

2007-08-24 05:25:18 · 32 answers · asked by Ayumi Yamashita 1

I like my best guy friend..but when i ask him out he always says that he just wants to stay bestfriends...what do i do?

2007-08-24 05:21:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont really care for the guy I have been dating for the last 6 weeks. I like him less and less as I see how open minded he really isnt. I feel suffocated, and I have realized, again, that I just dont care for relationships. They don't fit with who I am and who I want to be.

The stickler: His birthday is on Monday. Today is Friday. He is celebrating his birthday this weekend. ( and isnt seeing his kids to do this, and lying to their mother saying he works, when really, he will be celebrating, which I also disagree with as he only sees them on weekends!) So since he is celebrating his birthday this weekend, and I wont even be able to see him on Monday, his actual birthday, since I start school...
...how the heck do I go about this? I dont drive, and I dont want to make him drive 30 miles just so I can break up with him...and when should I? I don't want to spend this weekend with him and pretend, and mislead...but I also dont want to be rude.
yes. I need your help. Please.

2007-08-24 05:17:58 · 14 answers · asked by Britt 2

I met this amazing guy while camping about a month ago and when we met there was an undeniable mutual connection. We were inseperable the whole time and would just lay there and talk for hours.The problem is we live in different provinces.He has called me everyday since we met and we still talk for hours. I am going to visit him in 2 weeks and hes coming out here in 3 weeks after that.The other night he told me that he has to make a decision by late Sept about where to go to school and hes seriously considering transferring to the school close to me.He also said he has so much he wants to say to me, but he wants to say it in person.He has told all his friends about me and said he wants me to meet his parents. He also constantly tells me that he thinks i am amazing person and talks about the future alot.He also says he feels really lucky to have met me and he thinks we met for a reason. I am falling for him and I am sure he feels the same way.what do u think about this whole situation??

2007-08-24 05:17:22 · 10 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1

y do guys depend on looks y cant they just love ppl the way they r

2007-08-24 05:16:27 · 11 answers · asked by bulgerjessica 1

2007-08-24 05:15:36 · 53 answers · asked by themojoman_dj 1

questions& answers. and how do you ladies coop with loneliness.

2007-08-24 05:11:18 · 7 answers · asked by steven25t 7

ok, i have liked my guy friend for a long time now. over the past 4 or 5 months we have become very good friends. i'm pretty sure he's interested in me and i'm beginning to have really strong feelings for him. i'm also pretty sure we have a lot of chemistry. we're really close though, we talk everyday and have been hanging out a lot lately. we see eachother, with or without other ppl 2 or 4 times a week. we do everything together.lately he's been showing a lot more affection towards me, but i dont know how to react back. like always hugs me, but holds me in his arms really close and always has his arms around me. but i'm not completely sure if he wants a relationship with me. he had a bad relationship with this girl a couple of motnhs ago, who he really liked who he's still not over and he's always pointing out other girls around me. but i know he cares about me. and we're very good friends. but he's always poking me, we tease eachother a lot and hold eachother close. what should i do?

2007-08-24 05:09:02 · 4 answers · asked by Lilly Way 1

Do you agree? Has anyone read the book? I started reading it.. And I find it so true and helpful and realistic.. Sure, it doesn't solve all your problems, everyone is different.. but it helps a lot, it helps you in your relationship with the other sex and with yourself too, cause if you are confused, you feel more relaxed. It worked with me.. We just need to understand each other, and one of the two has to take the first step.. As in all kind of differences there can be in relationships between people..
Well, men and women, what most annoys you in the opposite sex? or you don't understand..

2007-08-24 05:09:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

im not a strong beilever in love or in trust bcuz ive been hurt so many times literay every relationship a guy has cheated on me and i took a big risk being wit my new boyfriend cuz hes known 4 cheatin but he hasnt yet.....well although we have our problems like every relationship we also have some great times..well i care about him alot i mean i talk bout him alot n hes all i think about everi nite n everi day n it feels like hes consuming my whole world..but deep down inside i dnt want 2 get hurt so i dnt completely express myself..my question is do u think that me n him could ever be in love? n how do u kno wen u love someone? is it wen u have no doubts or wen u completely trust someone if thats the case will i ever find love.
keep in mind weve onli been 2gether 4 5mths n i alreadi feel like this.....thanxs 4 all the help i get even 4rm the ppl who jus read this...

2007-08-24 05:01:06 · 8 answers · asked by Crystal 2

2007-08-24 05:00:43 · 43 answers · asked by jo 1

modern type means Hollywood type, or you look for personality? thanks

2007-08-24 05:00:08 · 12 answers · asked by steven25t 7

2007-08-24 04:57:35 · 9 answers · asked by ddsd d 1

2007-08-24 04:55:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went to Tim Horton's Yesterday and ordred a hazelnut Iced Capucino. The guy was so sweet, polite, and patient when he took my order. He was the same when he took my money, gave me my change, and gave me my order. He had the best eyes and the cutest smile. His hands were so cute and they looked soft and gentle. I am interested in going back up there and asking about him, but he's white and I am half Mexican and half black and have never dated a white guy before. I run into a lot of drive thru workers who are polite and cute, but there was something special about this guy. Should I go back or just let it be a pleasant and intriguing contact I'll never forget?

2007-08-24 04:52:27 · 6 answers · asked by UVRay 6

if my bf's birthday is right before Christmas, do i bring two gifts one for his bday and the other for christmas? or how does it go, thanks for the help

2007-08-24 04:46:28 · 9 answers · asked by Mirt 2

I want to get vengeance on a girl I was in love with. We go with the same group of friends and she was one of my best friends. Now she only tries to hurt me by arousing me one day, and ignoring me 5 or getting affairs with other men and telling it all in front of me (knowing my feelings about her).

I have been two years doing almost all that she wanted. Now I hate her so hard. She still hasn't realized of my change of consideration about her. I have already decided to tell my friends to let her away and not take her with us anymore as the first step but...

...I want to ask you, my freinds, ways of vengeance on this fuc**ng bi**h. I still have some of them but I want to know more to do her at least half the harm she has done to me.

Thanks for supporting justice enforcement.

2007-08-24 04:44:53 · 16 answers · asked by Nemesis 1

yesterday i found out he had made a myspace without me knowing so i checked it out it was just crzy i cudnt belive it so i kalld n told him n he denyd it n i told him give me your password he did n i went in his pageit was just OUTRAGEOUS was i saw with my owns eyes wat he told other girls if u were in my postion guys n girls wat would of u done?

2007-08-24 04:42:19 · 21 answers · asked by alejandra_0714 2

would you really rather date a blonde? are they really hotter? if so what makes them hotter?

2007-08-24 04:37:43 · 7 answers · asked by Julia Rody 1