Singles & Dating - 16 August 2007

I was talking to my friend about a particularly bad time I was going through with money. I couldn't afford a house payment so he offered to let me borrow $1600.00. I accepted. This was in December.

I was going through a divorce and he had a crush on me. I care about him too but then I wanted to work on my relationship with my ex so I got back with him. I kind of let the money slide and didn't pay him back at all.I didn't tell my husband about borrowing this.

After I told him in June that I was getting back with my ex, he was crushed and made the money a gift. I didn't accept but still did not pay him back.

In August, he said I was taking advantage of him. I got really offended and told him to never talk to me again. I felt like he was taking stabs at my character as a person. After saying that, I started sending him $50 and he sent me back the check ripped up. He said money isn't worth losing a friendship over. Am I being a jerk?

2007-08-16 09:05:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

so we have been together for over a year now. im the girl he has lasted the longest with...his first "real gf" and hes my first "real bd" you can say. sometimes i worry that we wont last because we are too young or maybe we havent really met alot of people. everything seems great we are in love. is it possible that this the guy for me?

2007-08-16 09:05:23 · 9 answers · asked by Pretti iiN Piink 4

what figure[shape] do u like 'em in lol personality ???? j/w let me explain me.I'm 5'2' i weigh 90-95 pounds,hour glass figure with a getto booty but not to to much junk in the trunk lol i'm a great hip hop and slow dancer i play volleyball i can be nice but then again i can get a bit bitchy! and i'm just a great person when you know me.And i do know how to defend myself.I'm not a baby! But i'm not as tough as a man lol

2007-08-16 09:05:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I honestly don't know if I am a "Good Looking guy". I have never really asked anyone. And people dont really tell me what they think of my "looks". And i dont know what an attactive guy looks like exactly either. I want Honest answers though. And be descrptive of your opininions. I want lots of Feedback.
http://s180.photobucket.com/albums/x239/kamcb88/Hair/Doggy/New%20Hair/Myself%202/

2007-08-16 09:04:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been together for a year (and 2 months). I recently told him I loved him and he said he doesn't feel a natural connection with me. At the same time he has problems with various things, such as my age (even though I'm only three years younger than him). It seems like he keeps on pulling out small things about me that he doesn't like or that bothers him. Something so simple as we talk and write differently. I feel that I have a connection with him and I don't see why he would stay with me a year if nothing felt "natural". Is there some way to build that natural connection with him or should I just forget about it. I feel like he is just making up a bunch of excuses to not be with me, even though he said he wasn't. I really want to try to fix the relationship and he said that he would try to too. I'm wondering if it's really worth it, my feelings are strong for him so it's difficult to just give up. I don't know why but I also worry about being alone if we are not together anymore

2007-08-16 09:04:16 · 11 answers · asked by P.M. 2

when you've kinda lost contact, when you don't see her, talk to her, know what's going on with her life, what she's doing, who she's hanging out with..or if she's WITH anyone...

do you miss her more? (but just hide it?)

2007-08-16 09:04:14 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do guys care about...?
Hi-i was just wondering for all you guys....
girls ask questions and wonder if a guy or guys will like what they're wearing, like, (just a fashion top. not slutty. not talking about that) But like, do guys really care how girls wear their hair, and if they like that top, or whatever. Do guys really care???? Cuz girls are always wondering that...i just want to know.

and plz do not say....um......"ya...if it shows off her boobs, or her butt" IM NOT TALKING ABOUT THAT. talking about real fashion.

ALL ANSWERS APPRICIATED, I REALLY WANT A LOT OF ANSWERS!!!!!
girls, you can give ur opinion, but i mean, if you've heard wheather they do or don't from a guy, plz tell me and asnwer the question. if not....whatever.

2007-08-16 09:02:23 · 3 answers · asked by XD 4

2007-08-16 09:00:55 · 4 answers · asked by wigberto.serpa 2

"the only time it is EVER acceptable to hit a man in the groin is if he is attempting to harm you in any way"

or do you beleive its okay to send a man into agony whenever he makes you mad?

2007-08-16 09:00:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-16 08:57:57 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know that may sound stupid but i was wondering b/c my b/f says he's actually never did it yet.

2007-08-16 08:57:49 · 45 answers · asked by Jessica Santelli 1

Please help?
My ex-boyfriend and I have been broken up for a few months, however remained in contact mainly as he wanted to stay in contact. I wanted to cut all contact with him but he was begging me not to. He was the one who broke it off with me. We have been arguing lately mainly because I still have lots of feelings for him and I get emotional. I asked him to call me on Sunday but he said he can't and I got really upset and told him that he should not contact me again. He texted back and he was pretty angry. We had arranged to meet up face to face in a couple of weeks but now he is now saying he isn't sure he still wants to meet. He said to give him a week to feel better as he needs time to digest our arguments. Why does he need all this time? I texted him today and asked him to be ok with each other but he told me that he hates being forced like this. He sounded pretty angry? I just don't know what to do? I am so powerless? He is showing me a wall?

2007-08-16 08:57:32 · 15 answers · asked by violet b 1

In the last week my boyfriend and I have been fighting constantly. We love each other, but the other day we were talking and he mentioned starting school and "what's gonna happen then" We haven't been seeing eachother a lot lately and he said that he thinks we're going to grow apart and eventually break up... I'm starting to see what he meant about growing apart because he used to call me everynight before i went to bed, now we barely have time to even talk and when i do see him he usually ends up having something to do. It used to be that he would always want me to stay longer than i could. is it time for both of us to move on? I don't wanna break up with him because I'm in love with him but I think he feels differently... Any ideas?

2007-08-16 08:55:29 · 15 answers · asked by bee 1

he made any more posts today but the whole question was gone. What does that mean? I am concerned.

2007-08-16 08:54:15 · 3 answers · asked by BERT 6

ok for the past 2 months i have been sleepin with a boi,who at first i didnt know had a child,until the end of the second tim we did it,and to my knowledge he did not acknowledge the fact that his baby momma was his girlfriend,so since two days ago august 14 my frein jas saw her in the chinese store,and she made a joke,about the b.momm's son,she asked was i gonna come see him,so the girl turned around and looked at jasmine,so thats when the gilr asked do i go out with her baby daddy,cuz she saw pictures of me and jas in his phone,and i had to many of me in there b4 i didnt even know iw as in the phone.so now the girl is askin do we go out,how old was i and other stuff,so after the second time i did it to him,and i found out he had a baby,we did it one more time,jus one!so now the girl wanna talk to me.and im like i ain do s*** wrong now the other day jas,tell me he said come to his house,the b.momma i did,it woulda been a 4th time.so anyway am i wrong cuz i dont think i did anything.

2007-08-16 08:51:41 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-16 08:50:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

or do you never measure?

2007-08-16 08:49:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has recently started going to a strip club in the "ghetto." I want to know what really goes on there. He took some video on his camera phone and I saw the girls in the crowd dancing with the guys in thongs, topless, what other things really go on there?

2007-08-16 08:46:27 · 28 answers · asked by allie s 1

My girlfriends 17 year old sister is pregnant and is saying I am the father. We made love a few times but I always wore protection. How do I get out of this mess, and dont say have tests done. She has already said she is willing to have same. She is still at university. Help Please.

2007-08-16 08:45:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

More specifically, I can't understand why it really seems to touch a nerve with SOME NOT ALL black girls when they see a black guy dating white girls.

I don't understand why this seems to offend them and touch a nerve when I walk by them. Many black girls usually say things like: "Those white girls need to stop taking all of our good men" and etc.

However, they don't realize that first of all I don't belong to anyone and neither do the rest of the black men that they want to claim.

Secondly, before I had a girlfriend the black girls who are complaining about the relationship didn't seem to make any effort at all to talk to me romantically. Therefore, why does it only seem to bother them when black guys find comfort in the company of another non-black girl?

To me this seems to be a dysfunctional form of competition between girls/women that should not exist. After all, if the interracial couple is happy why do some black girls get upset by us dating a nice white girl?

2007-08-16 08:42:44 · 20 answers · asked by Enygma 3

I was with this guy last night that I have wanted pretty badly for a few months. In the beginning, I pursued him but he just kept running away. So I got smart and acted disinterested......after a month of me not chasing him, he came after me.
So we hooked up last night. We did foreplay for like two hours......it was pretty intense because it was in a place where people could see us but that we would not be immediately noticeable. I guess I'm kind of an exhibitionist........I like when people watch. Then we went upstairs to my bedroom and fooled around some more but when it came to penetration, he just wilted. So like a trooper, I used my hands and mouth on him. I could tell he liked it because he said stuff like "you're amazing", sucking in his breath and of course getting hard. So we go to put a fresh condom on....I made sure to lubricate him using my tongue....serving a dual purpose of keeping him erect. Then he wilts again. We finally had to give it up for the night.

2007-08-16 08:39:09 · 6 answers · asked by Red 2

we are both aries do you think we are compattiable and will be able to stay in a relationship together

2007-08-16 08:35:36 · 2 answers · asked by Chanel B 1

i have a broken heart.
and i need advice on letting go.

anyone have any poems or anything?

2007-08-16 08:30:03 · 22 answers · asked by omgitssrachx3 2

My girlfriend was brutally raped 10 years ago. I did not know her then, but I want to be here for her now. I love her with my entire heart, but this can be hard for me to handle. She doesn't ever want to talk about it and she becomes numb(emotionally) when I touch her or when we become intimate. She flinches when I touch her and she has a hard time wanting to sex. She would rather not be touched at all. She is a wonderful lady and we want to spend our lives togerther, but how do I help her through this and become more touchy. I am a physical person and I love physical contact. She doesn't want to seek help, because she does'nt want to talk about it. It was really bad what happened to her. I want to be the one who helps her and stays by her side. That person took the most beautiful thing in my life and made her afraid to be close to anything. How do I undo what he did? How do I help her to feel safe? How long until the memories fade away?

2007-08-16 08:21:07 · 58 answers · asked by just me 1

How come you guys fear rejection? especially if you never had a girlfriend before or you are ready emotionally and mentally to get married ? and you want to approach or call a woman?

Do I fear ? nope. if the guy doesnt want me , then shame on him. he lost out on something excellent!

You men if you like someone or you just want to get to know a woman , call her to see how she is doing or ask her out. if she says no 2 times then move on... and sometimes if she starts to think hmmmm then she will approach or call you. cause u got her thinking.

2007-08-16 08:13:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

hmm like, when the guy in question makes way more less than you do and occupying a lower position in the company...etc etc
would you feel attracted to them? would you date them?

2007-08-16 08:00:11 · 4 answers · asked by naruto's girlfriend 2

Sunday night he texted me saying we shouldn't talk anymore coz of a argument we got into.

Come Tuesday he sends me a text that he is mad at me saying he doesn't like my sarcasm towards him. I told him I didn't know what I did and not to hold it against me. He then texted me wanting to come over my house and I didn't respond (I didn't want to see him)

the next text he sends he says I don't pay him any attention and has not wasting his time.

Last night he texted me saying good night (I didn't respond) then he sends a text an hour later calling me a faker. I was like next time I see you we will see and I told him goodnight. he responded saying you wont see me again. Bye! and immediately after that he texted Its cool I'm on another planter right now bye!

I asked him if he was aright he said he was asleep and bye to me. I just said goodnight and we haven't texted since then, which was only lastnite.

Is he begging for attention or does want to make me un-interested in him?

2007-08-16 07:59:48 · 49 answers · asked by MoMo 2

when ur mad

2007-08-16 07:59:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this boy but he dosent really know me. how do i impress him?

2007-08-16 07:56:01 · 9 answers · asked by Amelia K 1

I like this boy but he dosent really know me. how do i impress him?

2007-08-16 07:55:43 · 2 answers · asked by Amelia K 1