My husband has recently started going to a strip club in the "ghetto." I want to know what really goes on there. He took some video on his camera phone and I saw the girls in the crowd dancing with the guys in thongs, topless, what other things really go on there?
2007-08-16 08:46:27 · 28 answers · asked by allie s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me like your sex life is going stale. I wouldn't be surprised if he's cheating.
2007-08-16 08:48:50 · answer #1 · answered by Qu'est ce que tu penses? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, besides the things you mentioned: Yes the girls do go around half naked - topless, asking if you wanna lap dance. If you say yes, they escort you to a seperate section of the club into a small cubicle-like room about 5'x4', small enough to fit a small but comfortable arm chair. She then will close the curtain behind her and start doing her thing. Some girls are risky and let the patron touch, others a kind of strict. I've heard of some girls offering "extra services", but have never witnessed that myself. Anything else?
2007-08-16 15:53:09 · answer #2 · answered by Navy Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's about it really. I mean, the strippers can call security if anything more happens that they don't like and it gets out of hand.
Sometimes they do offer little favors on the side depending on how much the guy is willing to pay, but most of the time it's just lap dances.
Either way hon, I'd say crack to whip on your husband. I mean, really...what self-respecting woman would find out about it and continue to let it happen...he could be bringing STD's home to you from hookers and everything else (not necessarily the strippers). You should probably put him in his place. No man should ever do those kinds of things when he's with someone he loves.
Good luck
2007-08-16 15:49:45 · answer #3 · answered by find_your_nirvana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's married an goes to a strip club? Miss, you have more to worry about than what goes on there. Most men, get that out of their system prior to marriage. I'd suggest a long talk, maybe counseling, and maybe you need to "spice" things up more at home. I don't mean that in a crude way. I have been married to a great woman for 24 years. Yes I went to strip clubs when I was single. I wouldn't think of going there now,being married.
2007-08-16 15:51:35 · answer #4 · answered by randy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not a whole lot goes on at all.
Men go into these clubs, spend a ton of money and walk out sexually frustrated. These girls are there to extract as much money as possible without actually doing anything or being touched inappropriately.
Most men get over this fascination by their mid to late 20's.
If your husband ever touched one of those girls breast, butt or crotch, he would get physically throw out.
2007-08-16 15:53:47 · answer #5 · answered by m_c_m_a_n 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is your husband going to a strip club in the first place, and if you have to question what goes on then i dont think it is a good idea to agree to him going.
2007-08-16 15:49:12 · answer #6 · answered by rockgirlfury 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I asked an ex of mine this question (he used to be really into the strip club thing) and I was told that they get to fondle boobies, but no actual intercourse is available. He could've been bending the truth, too, though. *shrug*
2007-08-16 15:49:52 · answer #7 · answered by gilgamesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I that's how the girl make there money and if making the guys feel like they're attracted to the by dancing with them or giving them lap dances is what get's them to give up there money they'll do it.
I got a lapdance and the girl said she wanted to hook up with my friends and I and rubbed and grabbed us like she wanted to have sex with us...the same as if you were with a guy trying to get him to have sex with you...he'll give all his money, but HELLO I'm a girl ha ha ha!
2007-08-16 15:52:54 · answer #8 · answered by haziehulagirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably bugger all- I got dragged to one once on the wisdom that 'you have to do it once' and found it to be a depressing experience in truth- a bunch of old guys spending all their cash to watch a woman without even a feigned interest in them gyrate before dashing off to the toilets to finish themselves off.
2007-08-16 15:50:08 · answer #9 · answered by miserable old git 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ive been to a ghetto strip club its just naked women sometimes they offer table and lapdances but mostly they dance so its usually harmless sometimes there has been arrests for prostitution but i would ask to go with him sometimes
2007-08-16 15:49:42 · answer #10 · answered by Jman 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋