2007-08-16 08:57:57 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. Kissing is very sensual and intimate. I feel it is even more intimate than sex, because you are right in eachothers face. How much more personal and intimate can you get than that? If you aren't good with words, but good with your mouth...than you never have to explain your feelings to someone because the kiss will tell all.
I think I'm an excellent kisser...only because I've been told. I guess I kiss the way that one wants to be kissed. Personal preference is important. Everyone likes different styles of kissing. I guess the most important characteristic of a good kiss(er) is whether or not passion is present. I only kiss passionately. Why would I want to kiss someone at all if there were none of that?
2007-08-16 09:04:59 · answer #1 · answered by zimmiesgrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's very important, being a good kisser can either make or break you in your relationship. I mean you don't want to date anyone that's slobbing all over your face and honestly have no clue of what they're doing, that's terrible. I'm not the world's best kisser but I can and I think I kiss well. It's easy you'll learn.
2007-08-16 09:50:37 · answer #2 · answered by luvsthepink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's important. Not THE most important thing - I think trust and effective communication are MOST important... but it's important. For some, bad kissing is a deal breaker in 'new' relationships... however, I've known some who have been willing to work on the kissing thing because the relationship has established a great deal of trust and there is good communication. Suppose it depends on the who you're kissing, the and the quality of the relationship. You should ask the person in your life to 'teach you' how to kiss her...
Every woman is unique and different and what may rock one persons world, may be crap for someone else. Hence the 'good communication' point.
Good luck!
Spherical
2007-08-16 09:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by spherical1287 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if knowing how to kiss is as important as your partner liking the way you kiss. I mean really. Who decided on the technical aspects of kissing. It should come naturally. If you are young (12-18) and haven't had your first kiss, it's going to be awkward at fist but after a couple, you'll start to get the hang of it.
I have been told by all my past boyfriends that I am an amazing kisser. And I'm pretty proud of that. Tee hee!
I just got married on 7/7/07 and my husband chose me to be the person that he kisses for the rest of his life, so I would say that makes me pretty damn good. :) And I guess that makes him pretty damn good too!
2007-08-16 09:06:23 · answer #4 · answered by your_caligirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not really important, but it helps. A great kiss might mean that other things will be great too. Plus, if ur partner likes it, they'll want to do it more...and if that's what u want to do as well..then it's all good. But other things should be behind it though...like feelings..but then, if there wern't any there, the kiss wouldn't be good I guess. Am I a good kisser? I don't know.
But yes, sometimes, a kiss is just a kiss.
2007-08-16 09:06:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kisses are what make the relationship, a relationship! Kind of like saying can the body live without a heart? NO!! If you can kiss, great. Bad kisser? Well at leat you kiss... i can kiss very well. Love, Sex, Relationship, Kissing is what makes a good loving couple in their love life part.
2007-08-16 09:05:16 · answer #6 · answered by SCSA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only as important as you and your partner make it...I prefer to date someone who I feel is a good kisser, because I like to kiss (a lot).
Am I an excellent kisser? I've had some guys tell me I was fabulous, and others make no comment, but no one has seemed to avoid kissing me, so I'll assume I do just fine. ☺
2007-08-16 09:03:02 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its important to know how to kiss in a relationship, but you learn as you go it comes with the experience.. you dont become second best at it unless you know how to..
Am I a good kisser? I would say so, I have had guys tell me I am good others just dont say anything..
2007-08-16 09:07:31 · answer #8 · answered by (Anonymous) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is NO definitive guide. Kisses are as individual as the people doing the kissing and dependent on chemistry. One person might think you're excellent kisser while another might think you suck ... its all about chemistry and personal preferences.
The trick isn't trying to be an excellent kisser ... its kissing the right person. :) With the right person, one who's chemistry and style compliment yours - its naturally magic.
2007-08-16 09:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by rose1077 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get many different opinions about this , I imagine, but I think that kissing is a huge part in a relationship. Think about it...you and a loved one are going to kiss at least a couple times a day. If it's not a good, meaningful kiss, than it will get ur woman/man thinking. Kissing isn't hard to do. Just go with the flow. Use your tounge, but not too much because that is a total turn off. Oh and make sure your breath is nice a fresh. There is nothing worse than sticking your tounge in someones mouth that taste and smells nasty!!!
2007-08-16 09:02:46 · answer #10 · answered by Ray Ray 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋