I know that may sound stupid but i was wondering b/c my b/f says he's actually never did it yet.
2007-08-16 08:57:49 · 45 answers · asked by Jessica Santelli 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys lie and claim not to have sexual experience for the same reasons that women do. There is no way to tell. Certainly, he has seen porn so he knows what to do and it is not that complicated.
2007-08-16 09:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The best way to find out if your man is telling the truth or not is to either find out who his friends are and ask them how many girls your mans been around or gfs before you, chances are the friend will tell you the truth, but be careful how you word your questions if its a good friend you'll be asked by bf why you were asking questions. The other is siblings especially if he has a sister she will so tell you the truth. Other than that there's no real way to tell besides when an if your ready to make that step if he seems like he knows what hes doing really well than it maybe clear to you when it is too late.
2007-08-16 09:10:47 · answer #2 · answered by Brian F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys might pretend to be experienced, but you will instantly know if he acts nervous and unsure of himself when it's time to be intimate with you. Whether you are experienced or not, the best thing you can do is keep things simple, the attitude light, and have few expectations. Don't make it about who has an orgasm when and how often, make it about having an enjoyable time together.
It is entirely possible that he won't be able to last long before ejaculating since he has no experience with actual intercourse. Teach him before this point what you like, and what foreplay works for you before actual intercourse begins.
Please use protection. The pill for you and condoms for him. It's okay for you to have your own supply of condoms ready to go for him, but he should learn to take responsibility and buy his own as well.
2007-08-16 09:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell actually. Its very easy. You make love to him all night and if he says to after that you are top of his list of lovers....then you've caught him out.
Apart from that maybe you should grow up a bit. As long as he is faithful to you then what exactly is the issue? As for lying about about it, well, if you made such a big deal Im not sure Id blame him.
2007-08-16 09:05:00 · answer #4 · answered by philip_jones2003 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to know he how he treats you. If he is smooth with the foreplay there is a good chance he is no amateur. Once you do decide to be intimate you will also find out then, he is doesn't even know what to do. But be careful cause some men lie to get what they want so just take it slow and feel him out. Eventually you will find out on your own.
2007-08-16 09:02:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duration and knowledge
Does he ejaculate rather quickly. I know its not 100%, but its a good sign of inexperience.
Also, does he know his way around. Can he "enage" in intercourse without much diffculty. A "rookie" would have trouble. A guy that has had some practice can usually "engage" rather easily.
Again, neither is 100% way to tell, but they do offer clues.
2007-08-16 09:06:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not possible to know for sure. So either you trust him or you dont. Sorry I didnt mean that to sound harsh hun thats just the way it is.
I'm twenty four and I'm still a virgin. There are still a few of us out here. lol.
2007-08-16 09:04:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no physical way to tell.. but you will know if you do have sex.. There should be some awkwardness.. unfamiliarity.. not pulling off mulitple positions only found in the karma sutra..
2007-08-16 09:01:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't tell whether a guy is truly a virgin or not. Although, I can't understand why a guy would even admit to being one if he wasn't lol But, if he grimaces (makes a face) AT ALL about having to wear a condom, you've got your answer lol
2007-08-16 09:46:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's really y no way you could tell if they've been having sex or not you should got to ask them about and hope that there telling the truth.
2007-08-16 09:03:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋