ok for the past 2 months i have been sleepin with a boi,who at first i didnt know had a child,until the end of the second tim we did it,and to my knowledge he did not acknowledge the fact that his baby momma was his girlfriend,so since two days ago august 14 my frein jas saw her in the chinese store,and she made a joke,about the b.momm's son,she asked was i gonna come see him,so the girl turned around and looked at jasmine,so thats when the gilr asked do i go out with her baby daddy,cuz she saw pictures of me and jas in his phone,and i had to many of me in there b4 i didnt even know iw as in the phone.so now the girl is askin do we go out,how old was i and other stuff,so after the second time i did it to him,and i found out he had a baby,we did it one more time,jus one!so now the girl wanna talk to me.and im like i ain do s*** wrong now the other day jas,tell me he said come to his house,the b.momma i did,it woulda been a 4th time.so anyway am i wrong cuz i dont think i did anything.
2007-08-16 08:51:41 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no you're not wrong. f*ck that *****. it's not your fault she can't please her man & you can! she's a hater =] let her hate on it, and keep doin you. and if he hasn't, make sure he's DONE with her first! dont give it up for free. make him completely your man first.
2007-08-16 08:56:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋
First of all I am a baby momma! If the boy didn't tell you he had a girl or a child you are not in the wrong. Now, the baby momma has every right to ask you if yall is a item or what is really going on. C if I found another girls picture or number in my man's phone I would be calling that number and find out what is the deal. Once u found out that he had a baby momma and they are together you shouldn't of slept with him anymore. I look at that is you did out of spite! Good luck and I wish you the best of luck and I hope you find the best answer!
2007-08-16 09:05:29 · answer #2 · answered by chericeoceania 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him alone. I have dealt with guys with children and it never ends good if they lie in the beginning about having a child. More then likely he is still sleeping with his baby mamma that is probably why she wants to know so much information. Since he hid from you the fact he had one, he prolly only wanted one thing from you so that is why it took him so long to speak up. Be smart about the situation and dont get caught up in somethin that wont be worth it in the end. Some baby mommas are just a bunch of drama, so get out now while u have the chance. It was fun for the few times you were intimate but let it go.
2007-08-16 08:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are in the wrong. The moment you found out that he had a girlfriend should have been the red flag, let alone a child, too. And you still slept with him after you knew?!? That's sad...very sad. I hope in the future you will think better of yourself than to do something like this. Respect yourself and others around you. How would you like it if someone was sleeping with your baby's daddy behind your back?!?
2007-08-16 08:57:21 · answer #4 · answered by Ray Ray 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you could take the time to actually write your question in English, we'd all be happier about trying to help you out. What I'm getting out of it is this - you are sleeping with a baby daddy who is supposedly still with baby momma - even though he didn't tell you about it until you had already slept with him twice. Bottom line - he's attached and worthless. You did do something wrong if you still slept with him (EVEN ONCE) after you found out he had a girlfriend and a child. I say you deserve whatever she has to say to you.
2007-08-16 09:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by JVar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you didn't do anything wrong until you found out he had a kid and slept with him again. you have to realize that you did yourself wrong there. you obviously like the guy so he needs to come correct with you because it's entirely his fault for not coming clean in the first place. that being said, you need to have more self respect for yourself because you didn't help the situation by being the immature one and sleeping with him again knowing that he has baggage with another woman. on top of that, there's a kid involved. ask yourself this, what if it were me with the baby and my man had someone else? that kid is the one who really suffers in the long run. think about others for once.
2007-08-16 09:04:52 · answer #6 · answered by WreckinShop 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved there are too many guys out there who don't h ave children. You have a future and it seems to me that this guy is still involved with his child mother. Think about it this girl is not worth the trouble or headaches. Obviously he was hiding something becasuie he wouldn't have hid the fact that he was a father. Put yourself in that young ladies shoes. The same thing she is going through you can go through it too. Don't hurt anyone she seems as though she is hurt enough by raising a child on her own.
2007-08-16 08:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by Jamonican 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Actually, you are doing wrong. When you found out he was taken, you should have dumped his sorry butt. You know he treats his women like crap, so why do you want him? You probably aren't his only on the side honey, either. Get checked out for STDs.
I hope I read everything right. You might want to use proper grammar so everyone can understand what you are saying. Good luck.
Ah, you are 15 and having sex. I guess we'll have to inform your parents.
2007-08-16 08:56:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, you didn't do anything wrong.. he did. It's been 2 months, you would think in that time he could have found a minute to tell you he's got a kid. And that bit about her seeing pics of you in his phone - why does she see his phone anyway if they ain't dating?
You got to ditch this bum! You don't need this drama in your life! And if he can't be honest with you on this, can he be honest with you about anything? No, you don't need this sh!t. Dump his @ss and get someone who can treat you good.
2007-08-16 09:15:17 · answer #9 · answered by customfordgirl79 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are sleeping around with a guy who has a child with another woman! Why would you sink so low? You'd better have yourself checked for an STD. He's probably sleeping with other women, too. What do you see in him? He's no better than a dog...prowling the streets and sleeping with anyone in sight who's willing.
2007-08-16 08:58:56 · answer #10 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from the guy. Your young and you don't want to be his other baby's mama.
He's not very honest if you didn't find this out from him.
I'm not sure if I understood everything since you appear to be writing in that text messaging lingo I barley can understand.
2007-08-16 08:56:11 · answer #11 · answered by 354gr 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋