My girlfriends 17 year old sister is pregnant and is saying I am the father. We made love a few times but I always wore protection. How do I get out of this mess, and dont say have tests done. She has already said she is willing to have same. She is still at university. Help Please.
2007-08-16 08:45:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell your girlfriend, then go and sort out this mess with yours and her parents.
2007-08-16 08:54:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
1st of all I am very dissapointed in you for having sex with the two sisters thtz not very mature of u & I think u are getting what you deserve& becuz u used protection doesn't mean tht u can't get her pregnant..it cud have gotten torn.I think you should have her have a DNA test to determine if the baby is urs and if it is then I expect tht u will be a responsible man and father ur baby all baby/children needs their father.This here will just be the consequences for ur action so be a man and face it,father ur child.and plz don't do tht again,don't make the same mistake twice.Good luck
2007-08-16 15:58:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can she be at University if she is only 17. You had sex so it is possible that she is pregant - condoms are only 98% effective. You will just have to be prepared to su[pport the child financially until it is 18. that will teach you to cheat on a gf.
2007-08-16 15:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hum.. I think you don't want to do tests right away because you are probably denying that you slept with your "sister-in-law". The girl is probably telling the truth cause i dont think she wanted her sister to know what she had done.. or did your girlfriend know? .. I don't even wanna know... You need to do a test and face the consequences of your actions.
2007-08-16 15:58:06 · answer #4 · answered by Tesorito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a pickle. Looks like protection did not protect. I would suggest you and her go to hers and your parents without delay. Might be a good idea to tell her sister also. You most definitely have as your question says--Troubles ahead.
2007-08-16 15:50:50 · answer #5 · answered by breedgemh_101 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
even though you wore protection, it can only protect you 97%. sorry, but you may still be the father whether or not you had protection. i just hope you're not a deadbeat who will be willing to take responsiblity if it is yours.
2007-08-16 15:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by nothing's certain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, Dude - the only thing that's gonna get you out of it is paternity tests showing you're not the daddy. Good luck - I sure hope that your decision making improves either way.
2007-08-16 15:50:03 · answer #7 · answered by JVar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Prepare yourself for fatherhood... or if you are a coward, only 18 years of child support payments should get you off the hook.
2007-08-16 15:50:45 · answer #8 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why on earth would you want to hurt your girlfriend by sleeping with her sister , i hope the sister tell her whats happened and u lose everything
2007-08-16 15:56:50 · answer #9 · answered by misskitten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i hate to say it,... but the only way to prove it is thru DNA
condoms arent foolproof,... and the only way to be sure is to just not have sex.
If she insists that it is yours,... the court may order tests anyway,...
so good luck
2007-08-16 15:50:22 · answer #10 · answered by solo_yo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋