Singles & Dating - 16 August 2007

my life starts like this....yrs ago i married my sweetheart but since being 2gether till about say 4 years ago hes cheated on me. i was young (15) when i met him&got pregnant @that age &we now have 4 2gether. when i 1st cheated i did it w/the WRONG guy (his bestfriend from childhood) yes i know what a s1ut, he in turn scr3wed my best friend yrs l8r, keep in mind that he did the cheating on me way b4. We have seperated b4 but now things have changed&now everything is fine neither1of us is cheating @least not that i know of. Anyways about 2days ago his exbestfriend was following me until he met up w/me @a restraunt, i did not ask him 2follow or anything i in no way made any intentions on talking 2him. well exbf wanted me 2pick him up and i said no cuz i didnt want2 mess anything up w/my hubby. but now that i think about it more , trust me i've really been thinking about exbf, my hubby cheated&lied2 me constantly&told me he wouldnt cheat on me. so what do i do?

2007-08-16 16:38:01 · 16 answers · asked by luck013 1

2007-08-16 16:37:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-16 16:32:02 · 28 answers · asked by Poo 1

i need help plzz... tell me the way or show me a video

2007-08-16 16:28:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does this type of relationship work? I know that the womans primary concern is for the well being of her child as it should be. But how do you think this sort of relationship works? I know the child element changes things, but how far does it change things from having a regular relationship?

I think the woman is a great person from what I can tell so far but I'm not sure how to work a relationship if a child is involved. I don't want to hurt the innocent in the end should the child grow attached to me and the woman and I split up. Any advice on this situation would be helpful.

2007-08-16 16:26:44 · 51 answers · asked by Cameron 3

Take it how ever you want...

2007-08-16 16:26:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

before i start i'm 15 and in highschool. well one day me and my girl friend we're talking, and she started this random conversation about how hot this guy she met in branson was, she went there for a concert for school. she said she talked to him a lot there and they hung out. ok yes i got extremly jealous but trusted her and didn't push it. later that week me and my buddies we're hanging out in the hall way and a pretty good lookin senior walked by, one of my buddies was like wow that girl is so hot. and all i did was nod my head, by gfs best friend saw me told her and she got all pissed. so what i'm askin is, is that really fair? i know she was tlaking to me about it but still. my gf is amazing and gorgous. (i know i can't spell) i wouldn't ever do anything to her to hurt her feelings but is it fair that she can rate other guys but i can't do the same for girls? just was wondering

2007-08-16 16:22:56 · 25 answers · asked by grggraves 2

I had this boyfriend for a long time, we were together for about 4-5 years, then we broke up. For about a year or so we didn't see or spoke to each other. Then we met again, and we began talking and stuff, we have a nice friendship we're very close friends. Obviously Im still in love with him. He's never had another girlfriend after me, i mean he dates and stuff but not a gf. Same with me. Last night he called to tell me about this new girl he had been dating...and my advice was...take her out of the picture...forget about her ...and he said yeah i will...and he did it.
I need to know, how can I tell him that I still love him without being...umm ridiculous? or how can i get to see him just as a very close friend, who usually tells me nice things and invites me to dinner and hangs out w me a lot? THANKS

2007-08-16 16:20:52 · 20 answers · asked by Mrsprincessconsuelabananahammock 1

he's mean to me and when he hurts my feelings hes soo nice and trys to do anything to make me happy , he says i have a pretty face sometimes but then he calls me stupid..what's his problem?he's 24 , and i'm 20

2007-08-16 16:17:02 · 4 answers · asked by angel 2

I wanna have sex But my parents say im still to young plz Help me !!!

2007-08-16 16:09:10 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-16 16:07:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey everyone. heres the deal. I have a girlfriend who seems to be a bit of a flirt. There are times were i would look at her myspace and see pic comments from guys that werent too bad. but latley they've been getting more suggestive. and shes been returning them. me and her got in a big fight and she appologized and said she would never do that again. and so far shes made good on that promise as far as pic commenting goes. but now she is acting distant from me, and like she never wants to talk. she usually calls me and is quite. what kind of does bother me though is that she sees the same people who suggestively comment her pics in real life. sometimes when im not with her at things like motocross races becuase im an mx racer. i love her deeply and im trying to make this work becuase i would never want to hurt her but its almost like her heart is hiding. i know flirting is innocant but sometimes it can flat out hurt when its taken too far. what do you guys think i should do?

2007-08-16 16:03:08 · 5 answers · asked by andthefatladysings 1

this guy and i were pretty close like he'd call me every night and we hung out and stuff. Well there were a few incidents we had like i went all the way to his friends house and had to leave and drive 45 minutes back home, and he didnt even call me for 4 days to make sure i got home okay. That was awhile ago but the last time i saw him was at a place i worked at and later that night he wouldnt stop telling me how cute i was and how he missed me and stuff. i havent heard from him since. It was the 4th of July. I dont want to call him and ask him whats up i feel he owes it to me to explain himself. If it was just a random guy it would be different but he was just sooo obsessed with me always calling and blah blah, cept of course for the driving to his friends house thing. Idk am i wrong in feeling this way?
The last time i saw him (at my work) i was talking to this guy i worked with and we are sorta flirty but idk if he saw that or not.

2007-08-16 15:55:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend liked a guy be4 and she tried to ask one of her friends to help her out. First, her friend said that she would try her best to help my friend out but then she took that guy away from my friend. She and that guy went out and she kept saying about how stupid my friend was. But later, another girl appeared and took that guy away from her-----> this just ended up for nothing. None of them (my friend and her friend) got that guy.

They're just crazy. How about you?

2007-08-16 15:40:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-16 15:38:50 · 9 answers · asked by Sari M 2

I was staying in a hotel for about 3 weeks. One day I was talking to the really pretty girl at the front desk. She told me all she had to do when she got off work was to go home and pet her kitty. Was this a hint? I just went back to my room. Did she want to hook up? Or am I looking to hard at this. Help.

2007-08-16 15:36:53 · 20 answers · asked by PK 2

okay... Im dating this guy, he's great when we r together.... but when we r appart I feel like he doesnrt care.... he's getting less afectionate, we see eachother less often, and I wonder does he care..... How can i talk about this with him... like what do I say exactly.... cause I'll screw it up.. Thanks to anyone who answers this!
sincerly
Clueless

2007-08-16 15:36:34 · 25 answers · asked by Jen T 2

i like a guy and he likes me but he doesn't belive in middle school dating so he says we'll date in high school and than eventually get married. th problem is he always flirts and he always doesn't care if i dated someone and im a tad pist what do i do???

2007-08-16 15:32:16 · 16 answers · asked by busterjo1112 1

I think when they go to the bathroom you get out!

2007-08-16 15:31:48 · 25 answers · asked by mizz_top_boss 1

I cant wait to leave high school. Im a senior, so one more year. Ive liked this one kid forever, but I just cant explain to him how I feel, because I have a feeling he is not nearly as in love as I currently feel. Hes been in my head for years, and I was wondering if anyone out there had some love obsession in high school and was able to move on to find a guy that just blew past their expectations from the first in college?

2007-08-16 15:30:12 · 5 answers · asked by blondee 2

Examples, chocking, spanking, dirty talk ext,,

2007-08-16 15:29:22 · 13 answers · asked by bigdre10yo 1

if a guy you just met makes out with you all night on your first date, is that always a bad sign?

2007-08-16 15:28:26 · 7 answers · asked by sweetaction 2

O.K. so i'm "involved" with a guy named Eric, but i have a crush on another guy named Jacob. I talk to Jacob more than i talk to Eric and whenever i need to vent i go to Jacob. BUT, Eric and i have been together for 3 years and i love him. (altho it feels like my love for him is shrinking) Jacob and i flirt ALL the time and he never puts me down, i guess it's just that im always happy when im with him. To make this more complicated, Jacob dated my best friend and they now hate each other. WHAT DO I DO?!?!?!?!?!?!?

2007-08-16 15:26:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-16 15:25:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom wont let me date yet til im 16.....and everyone else in my grade is allowed to date.....But thtas besides the point. I really like this guy and want to date him. ANY ADVICE????

2007-08-16 15:24:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

won't care as to why you got a divorce the first time around?...and there are no children anyway????

2007-08-16 15:22:14 · 5 answers · asked by sweet 4

Does this mean that he wants to get married?Should I be carefull?
I'm torn. I have been dating this man for about two months now.Lately he has been telling me that he wants me to go to Arizona in November to meet his family,friends,everyone.H... and I live here in California and he wants to move to New York with him next year.He asked me last weekend if I can have children.I'm a little hesitant because he has a really BADDD temper.He got mad at me and punched the wall.We went on an outing to the park. I told him that I needed to go to the bathroom.When I got back from the bathroom he showed me his camera.He had followed me and took pictures of me as I went to the bathroom aal the way until I went inside.I remember stopping to talk to a lady about her dog,he took pictures of that too.Am I jumping to conclusions or should I be carefull?

2007-08-16 15:14:35 · 24 answers · asked by KISS ME♥*´`*•.¸★ 2

Ok Im japanese and I`ve been datting this guy for almost 9month. He is an American.
He is going back to States in 2month :( I really love him and I wanted to go with him but I guess its not gonna happen.
Well my question is since I know I can`t be with him after he left, should I still be with him until the end (the day he leaves) or I should break off this relationship now???
I really don`t know...... I know either way my heart is going to be break. I just wanna know which is more painless???
Its really hard for me right now cause every time I see him all my emotion comes up and starting to think about losing him from my life. I don`t know I can handle all about this.
Please give me some advice.
Thank you for your time to read this.

2007-08-16 15:04:42 · 9 answers · asked by livemybe2 1

I like this person, right when summer started. It was going good, they said they were interested in me as well and we talked a lot. There was one problem though, they were already dating someone else. I didnt know what to do, so i just kind of chilled and kept talking with them. We were a little while into summer when they were out of town for about a month, we were originally supposed to hang out when they got back but it never happened and we sort of lost touch. They were always busy, and id call at allthe wrong times it seemed. So i just stopped. Finally they came home, and i talked to them after a few weeks and it was a really short conversation. I waited a while, called and they didnt answer. Didnt send me to voicemail but didnt call back either. (they hardly call their best friend back.) I dont know what to do. I had a friend that has myspace, message them for me letting them know I would like to talk with them. (i dont have a myspace, & they hardly get on instant messaging.)

2007-08-16 14:59:37 · 7 answers · asked by Rae 1

We've been dating over 1.5 years and for the past 2 weeks we've been unhappy mostly my issues I suppose. Anyways he's moving up here to go to college and so i think it's stress, financies, family, etc. We kept fighting and i asked him what he wanted. We love each other so much and he wanted a break. Not a sleep with other people but not talk or see each other break to reasses everything. I said no but then said do it because it's important to him. Now I can't seem to get on. I'm still crying hours later and I want to contact him. What should I do? I don't want a break and just want to see him and help him move into his apartment! It sounded like a good idea until now and I'm clueless, is a break the right thing to do, should I call and disagree? Our current deal is I won't do anything and he'll call when he's ready but I can't do that. ....HELP!

2007-08-16 14:54:34 · 19 answers · asked by misschick87 2