Hey everyone. heres the deal. I have a girlfriend who seems to be a bit of a flirt. There are times were i would look at her myspace and see pic comments from guys that werent too bad. but latley they've been getting more suggestive. and shes been returning them. me and her got in a big fight and she appologized and said she would never do that again. and so far shes made good on that promise as far as pic commenting goes. but now she is acting distant from me, and like she never wants to talk. she usually calls me and is quite. what kind of does bother me though is that she sees the same people who suggestively comment her pics in real life. sometimes when im not with her at things like motocross races becuase im an mx racer. i love her deeply and im trying to make this work becuase i would never want to hurt her but its almost like her heart is hiding. i know flirting is innocant but sometimes it can flat out hurt when its taken too far. what do you guys think i should do?
2007-08-16 16:03:08 · 5 answers · asked by andthefatladysings 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sit her down and tell her how you feel. Draw a line and let her know if she crosses it you are gone. I am a flirt by nature and my husband is ok with it to a point. I do not cross that line or put myself in questionable situations out of love and respect for him. If she is not willing to make that choice for you then you need to find someone that will.
2007-08-16 16:10:11 · answer #1 · answered by llamma2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is only innocent if no one gets hurt. If my boyfriend was doing what your girlfriend is, I would be not only hurt but suspicious. My advice, walk away. You are concerned with hurting her but she doesnt seem to be very concerned about you. Sounds like she is just playing the field and, when the time is right, she will leave you. Just trying to be honest. Sorry.
2007-08-16 23:09:51 · answer #2 · answered by superfun124 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love her that much.. go out there and win her back... get her to notice u. make her feel that he love her so much that u'd do anything just to make her understand u.. go back to the basic in courting... and remember that u only live once but can love many times.
2007-08-16 23:12:33 · answer #3 · answered by Zykoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's acting distant because she's still doing what she wants, but know she knows you don't approve of her.
Either you accept her behavior or you find someone who doesn' t annoy you.
2007-08-16 23:07:18 · answer #4 · answered by matt123169 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a disrespectful floozy.
2007-08-16 23:09:52 · answer #5 · answered by Cas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋