Singles & Dating - 1 August 2007

my boyfriend hurt me. we used to be really happy, but for a while (like months) he didn't think about me at all, like no card on my birthday even though he knew it was that day. lots and lots of things. he used to make me cry, sometimes i think on purpose and he wasn't really supportive.

now he is starting to be sweet again, but i feel like i want more. he assumes i know he loves me, but i want him to show it a bit more. to be honest sometimes when he says something like 'your my baby' or 'i love you more than anything in the world' it actually hurts. cos i wanted to hear it before. i still love him, but then that means he can still hurt me, i am a bit more wary i do still love him though.

2007-08-01 09:54:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well i have a boyfriend and im getting over him so i want to break up with him but the last time i broke up with him he started to cry and i felt bad so i got back with him but now i really want to break up with him but i dont know how.

2007-08-01 09:51:23 · 13 answers · asked by Jenn 3

Theres this guy i like, and he texted me saying he wants to have sex
I want to, but people keep telling me I'm too young
I am also a virgin...
Help!

2007-08-01 09:50:59 · 50 answers · asked by sxclxc 2

I have a bf, he doesnt have much but the clothes on his back, growing up his parents were just average, a bit poor, both parents never owned a house and he never had a true home and always moving place to place. I hate to say it , but sadly i still live with my parents. My parents worked hard their entire lives, they have their own home and even had another. they always had brand new vehicles and right now, they have three of them, not used crappy ones. I was use to this my entire life. I think my parents are working class and i wouldnt say we are rich. anyway. my bf always points out what is wrong with their possessions and is envious, but not a doer. he always points out to me about his friends cars and they are much more exspensive then my parents, its always better. he says things to me like "my friends mom owns property, and three houses and drives a camaro" is he jealous of my parents??who he is to say anything when he doesnt have 2 cents in his bank account???

2007-08-01 09:49:50 · 14 answers · asked by jen w 5

My first year of college, i met a guy who quickly became my best friend. I was a sheltered kid in high school and didn't have much of an oppurtunity to experiment, and he kept me out of trouble and safe, while letting me see what the college life was really all about. he had a serious relationship but it had been going down the drains for months and months before i had even met him, and then they broke up. he and i already spent so much time together, that it seemed only natural for something more to develop between us, which did and then one night he kissed me. we had a good relationship but the trust was always an issue so we called it quits and i later found outh e was lying to me about a lot of things. He was an alcoholic, but has been sober for six months and really grown up and figured things out. We're closer than ever now and we've taken time to re-evaluate the situation and i do want to be with him, i just don't want ot make a stupid decision. should i try it again?

2007-08-01 09:47:16 · 15 answers · asked by kenz 2

I don't think questions from 12 year olds needs to be in this forum. This should be from MEN And WOMEN who are SINGLE and DATING.

most of the questions are like "I like this guy" and they are like 12 or 13.

I don't know how these situations can be handled best.

2007-08-01 09:39:06 · 6 answers · asked by art_flood 4

Ok so I've been datng this guy for 7 months. We've had our ups and downs cause hes those afraid to commit types so we arent bf / gf. It was fine for me in the beginning b/c I had just got out of a 2yr relationship and then started dating this guy.Anyways, we've come a long way. I've opened up more as he has too, hes been great, sweet,attentive, tells me how much he cares for me and has love for me. But he made this comment that pissed me off. He was telling me how a coworker of his smacked him on the head playing around & he told his coworker that he plays &jokes around but doesnt like anyone touching or looking at him other than me. That made me happy so I said thats right and made a playful grab at his area. He enjoyed it and was like thats right & you better make sure to please me alot if you dont want me to get it from someone else. It just made me mad that he would say that period, you know? I got so mad that I was like well if thats all it takes to lose you then go.

2007-08-01 09:37:47 · 22 answers · asked by TheLight 5

would you girls like playing a russian spy if i talked to you in a welsh accent and called you natalia? this is a game of course for the afternoon at a fancy hotel drinking dirty martinis by the pool... oh and did i mention we arent guests of the hotel. what do you think of my date????

2007-08-01 09:34:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

the woman literally took her shirt off revealing her chest. what do i do? my boyfriend was staring at the screen smiling. what do i do? we've never done anything seroious because i never thought that he would want to. should i to stop him looking at other women?

2007-08-01 09:34:07 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi there. I don't want to ask my friends this because they are biased...

I have been meeting with an ex boyfriend and things seem to be going well, then suddenly he sort of went a bit cold. I bumped into him the other day and we went for a coffee and he said he hadn't been in contact because he got cut off. We had a laugh and had a good time together, then we went out for drinks that night and I went back to his and so on.

Then I found out he has been seeing someone, even though he was saying to me he really missed being with me.

So am I just a bit on the side? I'm confused. I can't ask him what's happening because I can't tell him how I know he's meeting someone else. He doesn't know I know and he hasn't mentioned anything.

What do you guys think? Is he really wanting to be with me? Or am I being taken for a mug?

Thanks!

2007-08-01 09:32:05 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-01 09:30:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i haven't had much experience in the guy area.... i mean most guys are my friends not boyfriends so i have a pathetic question... How do you flirt...? i mean i've tried and the guy i did it to told me it wasn't flirting.... idk... do i have no hope lol or can you teach me lol

2007-08-01 09:25:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend (well ex) and I were together for only a few months. I ended up going through a bunch of baby momma drama and family issues with him and stuck it out and stayed by his side the whole time. I was more faithful to him than I have ever been to anyone. He told me he was in love with me and that I was the first girl that he's ever fallen in love with. I like him alot and cared deeply for him but I can't honestly say I was in love.
Yesterday I found out that he's cheating on me with someone he met on myspace! They have only been talking over the phone and myspace. Come to find out, I know the girl because she was cool with my ex boyfriend! He told her that he was single and that I was just a friend. He won't talk to me on the phone or in person. Only text. I didn't really wanna do it but I was forced to break up with him (through a text). Now I'm hurt. The only remorseful thing he said was that he wasn't happy. He didn't even reply to my breakup text. :( How do I get over this

2007-08-01 09:20:45 · 20 answers · asked by Beautiful1 2

Describe the pain please as much in detail as you can.

2007-08-01 09:20:39 · 12 answers · asked by BBHunter 5

2007-08-01 09:15:49 · 10 answers · asked by kamal h 1

i need to know what is the best way to get my husband to notice me when he comes home from work. when he comes home he gose to take a shower, eats dinner and then watchs tv all night. theres no exciment and i want that back in our relation ship but how do i get him to notice me so i can put spark back in our relations ship

2007-08-01 09:12:35 · 21 answers · asked by roo 1

My question may tickle some and make others irate, but I have observed a trend amongst my female friends. These are good looking women, with jobs(not gold diggers), smart, decent and with lots going for them but somehow seem to attract men whose only interest is sex. These men promise the moon and when the women get interested and begin talking marriage the men pull back and break up. Many of these men later come back and try to reconnect on a purely sexual basis-which reminds me of rebooting a computer. So why do some men reboot women?

2007-08-01 09:08:28 · 10 answers · asked by Wildfire 3

I can't ask a girl out when I first meet her. For some reason I just think thats rude. Is that weird? Am I supposed to ask a girl out the first time I see her? Shouldn't we kinda know each other first?

2007-08-01 09:07:17 · 9 answers · asked by sclark977 1

I know im emo and guys like Preps!
but i dont want to change for a guy to like
me....i want to be myself..and that means
playing shows with my band and going crazy......
no one likes me, i guess im gonna live and die alone
and i dont want to change my ways and becoming girly...
my sis she's a prep..
my brother he's a football type of dude
i live with them, and my parents live in NY
im so tired of not having some one there for me.....
i mean im 16....and my life is soooooooo fu cked up!

2007-08-01 09:02:52 · 10 answers · asked by Emo nikki 1

2007-08-01 08:57:33 · 8 answers · asked by thanks ♣ 2

2007-08-01 08:54:06 · 68 answers · asked by Anonymous

in other words what do girls like in guys? what makes them like a particular guy, what qualities? there is this one girl in my class that is always flirting with me, im a nice guy but what other quality could it be?

2007-08-01 08:43:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Howmany women wear or would wear pantyhose for their man if he found them sexy?

How many women have had sex with pantyhose on
by cutting out the crotch area?

Howmany women shave their legs before wearing pantyhose?

2007-08-01 08:38:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

These two guys are best friends. One of them is my boyfriend of 1 yr 4 months. They have taken trips together before. And each time, they would sleep around with girls there. Like Brazil, Dominican Republic, etc. So now, I'm worried he will sleep around again. Before, I was fine with it, but now I am not. I'm pretty sure he won't tell me if he is going to sleep around, so it makes it hard. He would tell me before, but that was because I didn't care.

2007-08-01 08:35:31 · 6 answers · asked by rosevsfire 1

i really am in love with this girl and she tells me she loves me too...but she says that we can't be together because she is having a hard time with her personal life and having a boyfriend would just make it harder on her...
i told her that i decided to wait for her to be ready to get back together...and by wait i mean im single for her...and not trying to get with any other girls...
am i making the right decision?

2007-08-01 08:34:47 · 29 answers · asked by cartooncre8tr 1

i have my boyfriend but i really wanna do a girl, is that ok!! i mean i wanna try it!

2007-08-01 08:32:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend have been going out since 1 year and we love each other a lot. We are both 16. But I didn’t tell my parents about my boyfriend cause I was too scared that me and my boyfriend would be separated. One day me and my boyfriend went out, like we normally do. He gave me a webcam to talk to him on messenger. I went home and mum saw the webcam in my hand. Things just got worse from that moment. My mum kept asking and asking questions yet she didn’t believe a word I said … even though she made me swear on the Bible. My mum hates me for having a boyfriend she says I am a disgrace to her. She locked me in the my bedroom, hit me, took away my phone and told my dad to make police complaint against my boyfriend. I cannot ever see my boyfriend ever again and if I do I am never aloud to live with my parents. I have been listening to my parents conversation, they are starting to like my boyfriend but I have not heard a word from my boyfriend since yesterday. Please help me.

2007-08-01 08:32:08 · 8 answers · asked by kareena 1

http://i200.photobucket.com/albums/aa262/stevekbucket/July292007001.jpg

How old do I look? Am I "datable"!

I'm not a crazy person, just have a lot of time! :)

2007-08-01 08:31:27 · 33 answers · asked by me myslef 1

how do i tell this guy i like him and i really want to go out with him?

2007-08-01 08:27:47 · 18 answers · asked by baby girl 1

I feel like I've met my soul mate when I was looking. I recently came out of a 3 year marriage. My divorce was final in October of last year. I was in deep pain and deep remorse for not making my marriage last. It was a horrible time for me. In turn, I vowed to pick up the pieces and move forward with my life. I decided to work on myself by regaining my self-esteem and confidence.
Two months ago I met somebody online. It was a "chance" encounter. I wasn't looking to meet anybody and fall in love. I simply wanted some affection.
Turns out I feel spirtually and emotionally connected to this person. We've been intimate many times now and I feel something so spectacular that it leaves me in awe each time we meet. I can feel that he feels it too.
Funny thing, I believe he is my soul mate. Perhaps we have more than one but I feel so intense about this person. When we look we end up settling but when we don't look there is no reason.
Any of you felt this way before? This is the first!!!

2007-08-01 08:27:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous