I just broke up with my ex a couple of months ago. I met a new GREAT guy. Problem: My contract job is up, and there are so many jobs oppurtunities in Oregon and my brother said I could stay with him until I get settled. My new boy hates his job, but says he would love to go there if there were jobs in his field of work (carpentry). Well, there is! And he told me that if we were together for a year and he knew our relationship was good, he would go. I would want the move to be completely HIS decision, not something I "pushed" him into. But it has only been a couple of months.. I don't know what to do. I didn't intend on meeting such a great guy so fast, and now it feels like I get to lose him. Should I go with my original plans and leave him, or stick around and wait for something else? What is the odds of this relationship working out if he did go with me? Does that sort of thing ever really work out for people?
2007-08-01
08:23:19
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