Well i have a boyfriend and im getting over him so i want to break up with him but the last time i broke up with him he started to cry and i felt bad so i got back with him but now i really want to break up with him but i dont know how.
2007-08-01 09:51:23 · 13 answers · asked by Jenn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well first of all break up with him face-to-face NEVER REPEAT NEVER break up with him like by text messaging or having someone else tell him for you, he will just feel worse! Even though its hard to tell him face-to-face! second, The best way is take him somewhere that you 2 can talk peacefully dont have anyone around you! He'll get crushed to be broken up in front of a friend or anyone at all! Try like a park or take a walk with him. Then if youre walking stop walking turn to him and say "Baby" or however you call him " It has been great going out with youre funny, sweet, very nice but im sorry to say that i think we should see other people i know its hard for you cuz i know it is for me but i think its for the best im sorry!" then walk away! i hope ive helped!
2007-08-01 10:04:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 16:14:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tried to break up with him and you didn’t because he cried then you need to get a backbone and stand up for what you want. You can’t just go through life and stay with people because they would be sad if you left. If he starts crying again just tell him that is the exact reason why you are leaving, because last time you tried to talk and say it wasn’t working and he made you feel like you HAD to stay with him. Tell him that it will be better for the both of you if you leave because he obviously feels like he NEEDS you and you don’t feel the same about him. You deserve someone who will make you happy and he deserves someone who is staying with him because they want to stay with him, not because he cried about it. Don’t let him bring you down, if you want out, then get out and don’t let his crying get to you!!!
2007-08-01 10:05:32 · answer #3 · answered by Margie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sandwich method: say something good, state the bad, say another good thing...
Example: You are a really sweet guy, John. I don't feel like we are right for eachother and don't think it would be honest to you to keep leading you on (btw MEN LOVE THE WORD HONEST.. sounds "logical" i guess) Thanks for all the good times, but I know this is right.
And then... have a place to go! Don't hang around and drag it out (unless of course you've been dating for years and years which it sounds like this is more casual.)
The method helps to save the fragile ego:-)
2007-08-01 09:58:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anonymously send him a sex tape of you with another guy. That way he will break up with you instead of you breaking up with him. Don't worry about how he feels though because it will just make it harder on you.
2007-08-01 09:57:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be honest and tell him the truth...don't be with him just because you feel sorry for him..thats even worst. because it would be like if you where playing with him... you will break some hearts in this life so get used to it...because the same will or may happend to you to....
be honest
2007-08-01 09:58:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call him and have him meet you in a secluded area and give him the low down. Just say its not working im sorry
2007-08-01 09:56:51 · answer #7 · answered by Carla Bund 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know how you feel just sit down with him and tell him that you feel that you would make a better friend then a girl friend tell him you think that he is a sweet person but you rather be a friend see how he feels about being friends
2007-08-01 10:29:46 · answer #8 · answered by LUCKY â?¥ BABE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just say that you think that someone else deserve him more than you. =D
And tell him not to be such a baby
2007-08-01 09:54:47 · answer #9 · answered by Thao Kun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text message
2007-08-01 09:55:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋