My question may tickle some and make others irate, but I have observed a trend amongst my female friends. These are good looking women, with jobs(not gold diggers), smart, decent and with lots going for them but somehow seem to attract men whose only interest is sex. These men promise the moon and when the women get interested and begin talking marriage the men pull back and break up. Many of these men later come back and try to reconnect on a purely sexual basis-which reminds me of rebooting a computer. So why do some men reboot women?
2007-08-01 09:08:28 · 10 answers · asked by Wildfire 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Richard:Yes and no. I understand what they are looking for but why not find someone interested in the same thing they are??? That's the puzzle
2007-08-01 09:14:25 · update #1
BeLLa: Don't personalize, please. I am asking men why they try to trick women instead of finding someone that wants the same thing they do. some of these women are not having sex with these men at all. Others have lived with them and have children.
2007-08-01 09:20:23 · update #2
By the way Bella, I don't think women are sophomoric enough to have sex to make a man call back. I also don't think most women have sex to have fun only. I think most women wait to be in relationships of some sort to have sex.
2007-08-01 09:25:10 · update #3
I do not know why some men behave that way. It is sickening when any man only wants a woman for sex, but it is especially when an intelligent and attractive woman falls for men like that. I am a smart, well groomed, caring guy and I seem to only attract women who want me for sex and money also. Why cannot smart and attractive people date other smart and attractive people is my question?
2007-08-01 09:14:32 · answer #1 · answered by The Stylish One 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A balanced opinion.. hmm... could or no longer this is acceptable right here? seems to me that one and all you prefer is acknowledgement with the help of everybody (regrettably it particularly is in no way going to ensue, even in an completely male international) that "adult men are better," and it upsets you while somebody does not agree. it particularly is the character of the EGO. (talking of which, why are you no longer tricky the certainty that maximum adult men's IQ are plenty larger than your guy or woman? sounds like a matching ingredient to be ordinary. particularly constructive, given the generalizations made, that there is adequate women persons with a plenty larger IQ too). ... no longer even the ingredient ... i think of you ought to do a double address each and every of the internet derived assumptions that your ideas has pieced jointly, and understand that, if there grew to become into no one to oppose you, you may in no way have given a shiit in the 1st place. Oh properly, rape and pornography exists :) handle your low self-worth and are available returned.
2016-11-10 22:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do u think that just cuz a man has sex with you he has to be with you....Thats not a good reason to have sex thinking a man will call u back...A better reason is to have sex only if u will have fun and enjoy that way if he dosent call back....NO PROBLEM....I had fun...if ur having sex for any other reason U WILL BE DISSAPPOINTED
2007-08-01 09:17:23 · answer #3 · answered by b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cause if they were married they couldn't sleep with all the different women They would have to pay alimony when they got divorced
2007-08-01 09:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
same reason some women sleep with every guy they meet. stuff happens.
2007-08-01 09:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by sw 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because they want to keep the one they have but still want to get some strange somewhere else. if they get married then all the fun is over!
2007-08-01 09:16:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
if you were computer I wouldn't reboot you,I would take to get repaired and get all the out viruses until you were perfect.
2007-08-01 11:51:35 · answer #7 · answered by NONAME 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you actually answered your own question.....they're looking for sex. NOT marriage!
2007-08-01 09:11:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont talk about mariage ever... that is the secret.
2007-08-01 09:12:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its in there jeans. get it??
2007-08-01 09:11:41 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋