Singles & Dating - 15 July 2007

Im 18 and going to college in a little more than a month. Ive recently met this girl who really likes me a lot and has for a while. She really would like to date me until the summer is over. She is ok but nothing amazing at all. we are sexually active and we hang out nearly everyday. the only reason we dont date is because i just got out of a relationship a little while ago and i wasnt sure if i wanted to be in another off the get-go. Im starting to feel like we should date now and make a commitment for the summer. im just dreading that she will become more attached and things will get much more complicated than desired. as of now, she is already fairly attached to a degree. opinions? should i date her or no?

2007-07-15 19:04:45 · 17 answers · asked by yahooanswers23 1

There is this guy that I know who is 33 and I am 23. I like him and we talk all times during the day but at night I cant get him to answer his phone. So I finally stopped contacting him and he started calling me. He will not even meet me to have lunch. He is a high school drop out and I am about to matriculate at a law school. He is from the rough parts of the city and I am bfrom the burbs. I like him even though a lot of my friends say that he is ugly. He tells me that he cant answer because he is asleep. But a lot of people tell me he is a dealer. What the hell do you believe is going on. When we worked at the same place at night from 11-7 he would be jealous and didnt want anyone to come around me. He would practically sit at the front desk all night even though he was a maintenance guy and I was a night audit. What is up with this guy, someone help me.

2007-07-15 18:56:02 · 15 answers · asked by starsmoonis 2

up until now, my gf has been borderline smothering me (5+ hour long phone calls, constant attention, anger when she dosent get her way, etc).

I just turned 18. she's out of town for the weekend. since her phone dosent get good reception where she's at, I havent talked to her in 2 days, I trust her though. but instead of missing her, I feel free. alot less stress/drama/annoyance. I've thought about her from time to time, but just passing thoughts. without her on the phone all day nagging/complaining/talking about pointless things, i feel like I had more fun, and got more done.

last night i ended up having a sexual dream about a girl i've never even seen before, and felt kind of guilty. I ended up going to an amusement park with my friends. there was an abundance of attractive girls there, sometimes in swimsuits. and as much as i tried, I couldnt resist looking at them.

all of this just feels weird. i have no guit over this, and i feel no restraint. is there somehting wrong with me?

2007-07-15 18:34:53 · 11 answers · asked by Han 2

ok ya i love her and all but she can be really clingy sometimes i mean ya ok dinner and a movie i can do that chillin at the house im cool with that watching me at hockey practice ya most definately but wanting to go mountain biking with me on hard technical trails uh uh your stayin home then she gets not mad but upset so help me out here

2007-07-15 18:33:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so my bf of 2.5 years and i got into a huge fight on friday (the worst it's ever been) b/c i have PMDD and my symptoms cause me to put him through hell. basically it came down to him either forcing me to go back to my house or he was going to jump in his car and leave. i left w/him telling me he loved me, would call me everyday, and that i could call him if i needed anything. i called Sat only to tell him about a fish tank that was on sale-he was nice to me, telling me about his day then we hung up w/him telling me he loved me. i called back that afternoon in tears (got his voicemail) telling him i was scared we weren't going to make it but he never called back.

i called him again today while on the way to his neice's b-day party (he didnt go) but no call back.

ended up stopping at his house-he let me in, we made love (best it's ever been) then got ready for work. i felt we needed to talk about what happened..

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2007-07-15 18:31:13 · 9 answers · asked by dncer228 1

-like how their show love,cares,and everything

2007-07-15 18:29:06 · 3 answers · asked by luisa l 1

he said he loved me and i said it back then he said it again then i didn't say anything then he was like you not gone say it back but he said it was like in a funny voice like a playful voice but he was telling me about his first love he said he would never fall in love again what does that mean???

2007-07-15 18:27:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay im a virgin and she is not...
how can i get good and have better endurance

i just have low self esteem when it comes to this cause shes experiecned

2007-07-15 18:25:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Same girl for all my Wtf questions.
I started im with her. and she keeps saying she loves me. but shes a lier so what should i do.

2007-07-15 18:24:31 · 2 answers · asked by keithr2003 3

2007-07-15 18:22:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i went to volleyball camp and ex bf was hanging out with this guy that i used to be interested in..i didnt like him but i was interested...big difference...anyways i saw them which was last week and today i took a nap and had a dream that i slept with him...wuts also disturbing is in the dream i had also slept with a teacher and i was goin to sleep with my friend "again" but i woke up right when my nephew decided to drool on my face..but anyways i dont know if i like him or not but idk wat to do.

also my neighbor is like my brother and we call each other brother and sister but lately everyone is saying we should go out and that we are goign to end up getting married...but i think i am getting feelings for him cuz we hang out, he comes over, we tell each other EVERYTHING and my parents luv the guy.i do too but not that way.but lately i have bin wanting him to come over cause im comfortable around him...he has a gf whose always screwing up tho...but do i like him &if so wut do i do

2007-07-15 18:18:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have gone through a rought patch recently and I really just want to give him something that signifies my devotion to him. If I were the guy in the relationship, lol, I would think it was the perfect idea to give my gf a promise ring right now...but since I am the girl, I'm having a really difficult time coming up with an idea for what I could get him that has the same meaning. Something he can keep with him, because I'm leaving for school in the fall, and I really want him to have something to remind him of my promise to him while I'm gone. Any ideas would be greatly appreciated!!! Thanks!

2007-07-15 18:16:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok here is watz up my Wifey Recently moved to RI (Rhode island) and im in the Bean...
Well she doesnt think i luv her anymorez cuz of the way i sounded on the phone but anyways....
I basically wanna send her some flowers or suttin ...
So i was jus wondering if anyone knew any websites or suttin... That u can send **** to other pplz...
Also could i jus go to a flower shop and get it done
Plz tell me all info u know or i guess websites would be good
So thanks in advance

2007-07-15 18:14:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is 17 and i'm 14 and he likes me but when i but told him my age he said i was too young but he always walks up and down the street before he found out i was 14 but he still does and he always looks at me say for instance if he sees me outside on my porch he comes by like he comes across the street then when he comes back he comes on my side of the street what do u think does he still like me or what???

2007-07-15 18:13:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-15 18:12:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex guy and I had been together for a couple of years. But recently we decided to take a break. We still act like were together.Were eachothers first LOVE.

But whenever I call we usually talk 4 like 30 mins. When he says hes gonna call most of the time he doesnt. He says he forgot or he was waiting 4 me to call.

He says he wants to get back together and he is gonna ask me. But I have no idea when.

Should I still try to get back with him and wait or just forget it????

2007-07-15 18:11:03 · 20 answers · asked by StArS 2

Here's the story ... I dated this guy for almost 3 years. He left two months ago without saying a word to me. The night before he slept in bed with me, we have a normal conversation. The day that he left - He kissed me goodbye when I went to work, said he would see me when he got home. With all intentions of leaving that day. Now .. We just had previously bought a new house together. He gave me the excuse that he was stressed out - I'm guessing financially. When he left he wouldn't even talk to me for about 3 days. I had no clue what was going on with him. We never fought or anything - This is why I was like What the hell just happened ?! So anyways, when he did finally talk to me in person - He gives me the line that he didn't like the area and he never got to see his friends. So why couldn't he have sat down and told this to me in person ? I'm not by any means a "witch", and I'm pretty mature and would have taken it more lightly if he would have just be straight up honest.

2007-07-15 18:09:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was best friends with this guy for 2 years when we started dating. It was like two pieces of a puzzle fitting together (yes that sounds cheesy). BUT, he told me three months into it that he couldn't do it and that he just wasn't ready for me. His reason was that he would fall in love me and I would break his heart. He said that he never wanted to commit to someone and settle down because he doesn't believe in marriage. Can someone explain this to me? I am 22 and he is 29. Now he is dating his ex-girlfriend and he tells me that he wants to marry her and she that she is moving in with him soon. We stopped talking after he told me this (2 months ago) but now I'm wondering if my hurt and sense of betrayal are justifiable?

2007-07-15 18:07:44 · 6 answers · asked by whyseetea 2

first off im 20...21 in about 3 weeks. im old already and i get that...but my parents are WEIRD! and the thing is , i dont really think they like the guy that im with. he hasn't done anything horrible to them, or bad but they dont like him cause i think, they met him when he was 17 and i was 16 and i thinkthey hold the fact that we were young and dumb against him u know? kinda like they see him still as a child. they dont like that he doesn't go to school and they think he's ugly...which normal people wouldn't say but they are dumb. anyway. he's been my bf for 6 years!!!!!!!!!!! and i want to tell them. i just haven't cause they get upset and they wont let me go out with him or him come over, cause i still live at home. ugh i dont know!!!! how do i do this without upsetting them? i don't want to totally go against them but i know they are gonna say NO and that they dont approve. i love him very much, please help!

2007-07-15 18:06:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so my bf (of 2.5 years) and i got into a huge fight this past Fri due to my PMDD-it causes me to basically put him through hell the week before my period (accuse him of things he's not doing, cry over everything,etc). it got so bad that it came down to him forcing me to leave his house and go back to mine or he was going to get into his car and leave me in his house. i left w/him telling me he loved me, just needed a few days to bounce back, promised me he'd call everyday, and that i could call him if needed. i called Sat only to tell him about a fish tank that was on sale and he seemed happy to hear from me-telling me aobut his day then saying he loved me when hangning up.

i called back that afternoon in tears (got his voicemail) telling him i was scared we wouldn't make it-he never called back. i called again today on my way to his niece's b-day party (he didnt go) and he never called back so i stopped by...

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2007-07-15 18:03:55 · 10 answers · asked by dncer228 1

okay well my ex(zach)we went out for a month and yeah i liked him alot. but somtimes he would get mad when i was hanging out with my guy friends but they were his friends too.well then one day this other guy started to flirt with me and i didnt like him at all but zach didnt belive me.and yeah the guy would do it alot and sometimes he would give me stuff and im the type of person that cant stand to see some one sad or hurt. but i wouldnt take it and one time he gave me a rose in front of my ex zach and yeah he broke up with me and yeah he broke my heart alot by saying really mean things too me and then some time past and i got over him but now when see him or see the letters he use to write me and our song(how to save a life by the fray)i start to remember him and i dont know if it was my fault or if it was just fate. and yesterday i had a pool party and that guy came and he was flirting with me i answered back but i would i would remember my ex. what should i do should i call him (ex)

2007-07-15 18:02:05 · 12 answers · asked by iliana s 1

theres this guy at my school. he smiles at me
for NO reason at all. i swear i don't even do anything
even when were talking one on one he's always smiling
& i like him too but i don't smile at alll whens he around or when were talking!!

i was wondering
why does he keep on doing this?

2007-07-15 17:56:30 · 5 answers · asked by Leila 1

Even though they say they want a nice guy and say they hate jerks? If you look at the scenario, it always plays out where the girl goes for the jerk and tortures the nice guy with the fact that she's in a sexual relationship with a jerk. To me, this shows hatred and contempt toward nice men because torture is the ultimate display of hatred. This isn't really what bothers me, though; it's more of the fact that women can't be honest about what they really want when looking for a man.

I realize that many women will respond to this and say that they love nice guys, when in reality they've only been used by jerks.

By the way, in this case, nice does not mean weak, emotional, needy, or desperate.

Could this perhaps also be why America's divorce rate is skyrocketing? Nice guys feel they must become jerks for a sexual relationship (a basic necessity for all men) so any concept of love is lost.

2007-07-15 17:37:21 · 8 answers · asked by SKKKKKAFF 2

Been hanging out with this guy a month...weve been acquaintances 2 years...he has admitted hes always had a crush on me...always respectful...i would fall asleep in his bed talking and nothing ever happened...on Wed. i ended up drinking a lot with friends and sent him the same text message from another day over and over on accident...he calls...comes over bc he is worried...he takes me to his house and we talk and end up having sex...we talk about it the next day...i cant go to work bc im upset and we end up driving to the lake, we stay 2 days...the whole time he talked about himself and pretty much stared out the window...im very shy so i didnt really know what to say...we slept together...the last time i felt like he was rough...at the end he tried to hug me and i wouldnt and he said ur mad at me now...he falls asleep and i go to the club downstairs and get a drink...i come back up and tell him to come downstairs...hes mad...when he takes me home i try to kiss him and he wont

2007-07-15 17:36:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i recently got my girlfriend an mp3 player for her birthday that was 229 dollars she has had it for 4 months now and has noticed some scratches on it , now she wants me to by a new one because she saw some scarthes on her mp3 player, the player works fine it just has some scratches is it worth buying her a new one for 229 im not know rich guy here i make average wages here. when i tell her it not a wise decision to do it she fusses and huffs and puffs was i wrong for not gettin the mp3 player

2007-07-15 17:32:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-15 17:31:57 · 3 answers · asked by =] 1

We just got a new computer and my partner looks at porn when i am not around should i worry. We have an excellent sex life and i know he loves me. I am not where nearly ugley and 13 years younger than him.

Am i being silly ???

2007-07-15 17:30:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

what features or kind of personality , what about her that would make u like or love or ask her out

2007-07-15 17:28:34 · 6 answers · asked by dance3life 2

ok i got home today from the lake and a guy that likes me call he ask me something this is what he said " have u been telling people that i like u ?" i said no and well he blew up and said that he was gonna kill me. im scared to death. what should i do?

2007-07-15 17:28:27 · 28 answers · asked by girl_that_is_blue 2

im hoping its not the worst....

2007-07-15 17:27:09 · 4 answers · asked by Brian W 1