first off im 20...21 in about 3 weeks. im old already and i get that...but my parents are WEIRD! and the thing is , i dont really think they like the guy that im with. he hasn't done anything horrible to them, or bad but they dont like him cause i think, they met him when he was 17 and i was 16 and i thinkthey hold the fact that we were young and dumb against him u know? kinda like they see him still as a child. they dont like that he doesn't go to school and they think he's ugly...which normal people wouldn't say but they are dumb. anyway. he's been my bf for 6 years!!!!!!!!!!! and i want to tell them. i just haven't cause they get upset and they wont let me go out with him or him come over, cause i still live at home. ugh i dont know!!!! how do i do this without upsetting them? i don't want to totally go against them but i know they are gonna say NO and that they dont approve. i love him very much, please help!
2007-07-15 18:06:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh...he comes over all the time. really ALL THE TIME. they always tell us we can't be together. its annoying. but i know they know we are...but i need to say it u know? but how
2007-07-15 18:14:14 · update #1
You should tell them you have a boyfriend. Don't wait any more. If they don't approve step up. Your old enough to make your own decisions.
2007-07-15 18:15:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..It is not like your are 16. they really have no say when 18+. If they really are weird, and he is a OK guy, keep it to yourself until 21, or even longer. Nothing wrong with living at home but they should not have a say in your personal life.
2007-07-16 01:13:39 · answer #2 · answered by Cinnamon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an adult. Don't you think it's time you started acting like it? There are 13 year olds on here that have more common sense, amazingly enough.
2007-07-16 01:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u've been with him for 6 years!! its about time you let ur parents know... besides if you love him then they should understand .. also you've been with him for a long time so its obvious that you guys are serious about your relationship ... you should talk to them first and then have them meet ur bf again .. good luck
2007-07-16 01:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Yummy♥ ✰ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe have him meet them again, not as your boyfriend, and have him on his best behavior and such. Who knows, they might like him eventually.
I personally emailed my mom the news. How sad is that?
2007-07-16 01:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would jus come out and tell them, cuz ur grown, jus dont tell them about being with him for 6 yrs
2007-07-16 01:13:26 · answer #6 · answered by ricanthuglyp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them personally
your not going any younger
2007-07-16 01:16:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they probably allready know.
youre not old lol
2007-07-16 01:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by Ben S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋