up until now, my gf has been borderline smothering me (5+ hour long phone calls, constant attention, anger when she dosent get her way, etc).
I just turned 18. she's out of town for the weekend. since her phone dosent get good reception where she's at, I havent talked to her in 2 days, I trust her though. but instead of missing her, I feel free. alot less stress/drama/annoyance. I've thought about her from time to time, but just passing thoughts. without her on the phone all day nagging/complaining/talking about pointless things, i feel like I had more fun, and got more done.
last night i ended up having a sexual dream about a girl i've never even seen before, and felt kind of guilty. I ended up going to an amusement park with my friends. there was an abundance of attractive girls there, sometimes in swimsuits. and as much as i tried, I couldnt resist looking at them.
all of this just feels weird. i have no guit over this, and i feel no restraint. is there somehting wrong with me?
2007-07-15 18:34:53 · 11 answers · asked by Han 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why don't you try being honest with her about your feelings and man you aren't married to her it isn't like you acted on your feelings about these other girls. I would, if in your situation, explain to her that you feel smothered and that you want things to work out ( if you do) if she doesn't respond well or keeps it up then I would break up with her. Just do it nicely man. Don't be like all the jerks out there. Raise the bar!
2007-07-15 18:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your only 18 - you have so much life ahead of you ... It sounds like she's dragging you down, which is making you stressed. If you feel this free within two days ... that should give you a clear picture of what you seriously want. Tell her either to lightly up the load, or call it quits. And looking at other girls ... that's just human or natural whatever you want to call it. I take it you'd get in trouble for glancing at them if she was there ? My point exactly .. Your young, have fun.
2007-07-16 01:39:55 · answer #2 · answered by kendala02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. I don't want to tell you to break up with your girlfriend but she sounds very clinging and from what I know about guys, they don't like clinging girls.
If you like how you are feeling now without her, maybe you should try having without her period. If you don't feel guilty then she is just isn't the right one for you.
2007-07-16 01:39:18 · answer #3 · answered by Lola R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I;m sure most girls will say yes! As a guy,, no way. Been there, done that, have a t-shirt too.... If you really fell this way about her. maybe its time to go different ways...
And the whole dream thing.... it happens!
2007-07-16 01:39:50 · answer #4 · answered by goin_truck_racin06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with you....if i was you i would dump her find someone that you feel more comfortable around, an happier to spend time with...you really dont need someone nagging at you all the time...
2007-07-16 01:40:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are over your gf and she is way too clingy. its time for u to make the choice if you still want to be with her, otherwise its just ball and chain
2007-07-16 01:39:23 · answer #6 · answered by Olga rules 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with you...you're human...take it from a sister with a brother who has had about 3 of these kinds of gf's....end it now...it never works out for you if she;'s always b&%$*ing....
2007-07-16 01:40:36 · answer #7 · answered by crystalblue3300 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel annoyed by her and interest in other girls, free and happier without her around, she is probably not the one for you...
2007-07-16 01:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by thats me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you, you have a bad girlfriend. Dump her.
2007-07-16 01:37:27 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no maybe u need to reevaluate your relationship with ur gf
2007-07-16 01:38:35 · answer #10 · answered by moonlightknightsqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋