We just got a new computer and my partner looks at porn when i am not around should i worry. We have an excellent sex life and i know he loves me. I am not where nearly ugley and 13 years younger than him.
Am i being silly ???
2007-07-15 17:30:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your sex life is good, then you don't need to worry. He's just making up for you not being around. When he ditches sex with you to look at porn instead, then you should worry.
It's just something that guys do.
2007-07-15 17:34:22 · answer #1 · answered by eva_im_sorry 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am a normal, cool, good-looking, happily married man....and I am here to tell you that there is something wrong with a man that DOES NOT look at internet porn. You simply have a man that enjoys the beauty of a woman, and is excited by human sexuality. If he is looking at really weird or super hardcore porn, I might be concerned, though.
2007-07-15 17:36:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn is only a problem if it interferes with your relationship in a negative way. Most men look at porn frequently. It's no problem as long as they are still connected to their partner.
2007-07-15 17:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetkat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt worry at all. im sure he sees it as a harmful release. but tell him and he should be able to reassure you that it has nothing to do with your looks or how he feels about you, just a little personal time for him to get a "release". many men, and women look at porn, and it can also be enjoyed together if you were open to it. it may surprise you what might happen
2007-07-15 17:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probable no longer a risk to teenager females or your daughter....except the adolescents have been marketed as, say, 13. no be counted if he's a competent husband, father, or guy commonly I have no theory. If he strays, it probable has no longer something to do with no be counted if he seems at porn and so lots greater to do with no be counted if he's hassle-free, mature, in charge, and first rate. of direction, those traits probable are not what have been given you pregnant with the aid of him.
2016-10-19 05:02:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its natural, but why should he have to go to porn if he is in love? its fake girls sceaming there head offf. why should he want to look at other? those are the questions u should wonder if it gets out of hand. like if he is looking at it every day for hours on end. once a week or two should not be bad.
2007-07-15 17:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by cowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you have an excelent sex life, could be he learnt from watching these porn. But if it concerns you, why dont you discuss it with him.
2007-07-15 19:15:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn 't worry about it. All men at one point or another like to look at Porn in some type of fashion, weather it's Internet, books, movies. They just like to look. Maybe you should tell him you want to join him, he might like it.
2007-07-15 17:36:27 · answer #8 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not being silly. What if you suggested to him that you look at porn together? You may find that it further enhances your sex life and you may even find that he views it less and less.
2007-07-15 19:27:14 · answer #9 · answered by hama73hama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
every guy looks at porn.. and if you knwo that your not ugly then everything is okay! wouldnt you rather have him look at porn n know that he cant touch any of them grils or ever meet them or would you rather have him look at women in a strip bar n know that he can touch them and meet them... just keep that in mind. i think your just being silly hunny!
2007-07-15 17:40:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋