Singles & Dating - 15 July 2007

I am 14 (almost 15) and have never had a boyfriend before and I have never been kissed either. I am just so inexperienced with boys. I am kinda shy and I live in a small town. All of my friends have not started dating yet either but they have had bf's. Sometimes I think that there is something seriously wrong with me because my little cousin who is 11 has had like 5 boyfriends already. What's wrong with me?? Is there anyone out there that didn't have a bf or gf until high school or college??

2007-07-15 11:39:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-15 11:35:37 · 16 answers · asked by Sarah K 1

I'm thinking about getting something and I can't decide between the following:

A regular leather belt folded in half, or these different kinds of paddles and straps from the londontanners website:

http://www.thelondontanners.com/boudoire.htm

Especially:
The Domestic Discipline Punishment Strap
The Corporal Punishment Ruler Paddle
and
The Rectangular Pocket Discipline Paddle ?
Anybody have any thoughts?
Thanks.

2007-07-15 11:30:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

How hard can it possibly be to find one?

Men are everywhere. What qualities are needed to be considered a nice guy? If you met a man with the ideal personality, but he was lacking in the looks department, would you pass him up?

Why do people make this stuff so complicated?

2007-07-15 11:28:00 · 12 answers · asked by posttk421 3

I found dirty texts on her fone to and from a guy she had saved on her fone as a female.She says texts were just 'flirting' and nothing more .Found emails from same guy - one showing torsos of white male on top of black girl and i know its her - she denied knowing of the emails until i grabbed her phone and found texts from same guy.she says she is sorry it wuz just a mistake and wants to come back.I strongly want to have nothing to do with her anymore - ps we own a house and some land together abroad unfortunately.her behaviour towards me changed past three months - no sex no intimacy silly arguments etc oh and i dont care if she reads this and knows its her im on about. I am hurt terribly and so much in pain and confusion.

How do i deal with this?

2007-07-15 11:26:34 · 37 answers · asked by dawgz 2

So im 16 And I've Been Dating This Guy For About A Year Now & My Mom Put Me On Birth Control In April. Well We Have Sex Almost Everyday More Than Once. Sometimes We Don't But Most Of The Time Yes.We Do Stuff Everyday Even If Its Not Like Full On Intercourse.....Were Not Always In The Bedroom...We Got Out & Do Things Alot. But My Bestfriend Tells Me That Maybe Our Relationship Is Just Based On Sex.

I Talked To My Boyfriend & He Said No Way.
So Is It Just Based On Sex...Do We Have Sex Too Much?

2007-07-15 11:23:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-15 11:17:58 · 22 answers · asked by Sara007 5

2007-07-15 11:14:04 · 19 answers · asked by beachgirl 2

I meet this guy last week and we meet up again today and i said to him in convo that you have just come round 2 get ur dick wet . He paused and then said yes that he was not looking for a relationsip and that he felt bad but really i cod tell that he didn't give a crap. I wanna say wot made him think that i was the type of person to be like that? Do u think that i should call or just leave it ?

2007-07-15 11:07:43 · 23 answers · asked by deb_star_82 3

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2007-07-15 11:05:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

sat under the stars with your partner and romantically picked one out as YOURS..?

2007-07-15 10:58:54 · 19 answers · asked by jenniesrainbow 3

There's this guy in my piano class, and he always teases me. He made up a nick name for me, and he's ruthless. One time I laughed at something he did, and he stuck a middle finger right in my face and held it there. He's such a jerk.

So I saw him while I was at the mall yesterday with my guy friend. He said my nickname, which is turtle. No way do I look like a turtle. And he came over and we talked I guess, he was really nice, and he gave me a hug? What the heck? Does he just feel bad for everything he did to me in the past or what?

2007-07-15 10:56:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been dating a girl for roughly a month (we were friends before then), and we are seeing eachother exclusively. We always make plans for our days off together. I have met her friends and have gone on double dates with her and her friends. We make out every chance we get (movies,beach,park...). We talk on the phone everyday 3 hours total (morning and late at night). But we have never talked about the boyfriend/girlfriend thing? Is it appropriate to bring it up now? Cause if I were to bring it up, I'm pretty sure nothing in the slightest would change other than us getting even closer. OR should I wait for her to bring it up?

2007-07-15 10:54:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

all of these grown men are openly staring at me. Why do men who are obviously much older than me (at least 10 years) staring at me? What do you think about when you stare at someone? Is it true that you're "undressing them with your eyes"? I mean, I got a bit older, and I ummmm, well I "developed" a bit more recently....but I am nothing stare worthy, so are these men retarted or something?

2007-07-15 10:54:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was talking 2 him he was all like sup looking at me top 2 bottom starring at me putting his hand on his chin

2007-07-15 10:53:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i have been asking a lot of questions about my bf. but now i am p!ssed! ok yesterday his friends came over (as a matter of fact they are alwyas over) and they kept talking about girls and how many he has "done it with" and all the girls in my bf's phone and i was steamed! and this morning i told him before he left for work that me and him needa stop acting like children and talk when he got home. i even called him while he was a work and said it again and that his loser friends cant come over until we talk. but he got home 44 min ago and he guess who came. his loser friends! (I call them losers because they are they have no life all they wanna do is go out and see how many girls they can do it with!) and now i see why he has changed because of them. i try and try to talk to him but he wont listen. (yes i know what most of u are gonna say he dosent care about my feelings) but i cant leave here. i had stayed with my mom so many times now and she lives with her bf and he told me that..

2007-07-15 10:46:58 · 13 answers · asked by shelly 2

I like him but hes always staring at me like im madonna.

2007-07-15 10:44:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today I told my girlfriend I wouldn't be able to see her tomorrow (school) and she said it's cool because she was going to hang it with a new friend (a guy) she made in summer school so I said "cool" and said I would see her on Tuesday.

I'm not really worried or anything and I probably won't even bring anything up about this because she doesn't have many friends anyways. She's trying to make new friends because her old friends back stabbed her and I just kind of wish she would make friends of her own gender I guess...

Anyways, only question I have is if it is normal for a girl to go out with another guy. I think if I told her I was going out with another girl she would probably castrate me, she gets jealous easily.

Details:

Girlfriend = Almost 16
Other guy = 15
Me = Recently turned 18

Dating 8 months, serious relationship (40+ hours a week together), things are going great, rarely fight.

Is it normal for her to hang out with a guy alone?

2007-07-15 10:41:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you like a talkative girl? so much smart, amusing, having many topics, fun and intellect or still you appreciate much more silent moments? lol

2007-07-15 10:37:30 · 17 answers · asked by Sara007 5

so i asked a guy that i was once involved with if he had a girlfriend. he say why do you ask that im just with my friends. i said oh okay but do you have a girlfriend? he said oh yeah for like 5 months. i said aww i thats cute. then he called me and said i just called you cause my girl thinks were messing around. i texted him and said tif your girl thinks that then stop calling and texting. he said he would call me i said no. then he goes on to say hes not with her anymore and she is stupid!! but 20 minutes ago that was his girl! hw then texted this:

lying about what. stop messing with her.thats just like how it was wit you tell her im down and go bacj but i dont need to go back cause im really in love but i need to move on.

do you even think he really has a girlfriend

2007-07-15 10:36:20 · 6 answers · asked by UW2010 3

I really like him and i want to be his. So i go to the Ukie Resort and he goes there ALL summer and i usually see most of the holidays. So, last night was the best night of my life, there was a festival and i went with my bff and i saw him there and later when the proformences were going on me and my bff wanted to "watch" it (yea right) and there was like a couple places open to stand over the veranda anyway i stood by him of course. Later i looked at him a couple of times and my heart was beated so freakin hard. He then sat behind me and i looked at him more then my friend said he was looking at me with a deep stare...<3! later he then stood by me again and i could see with the corner of my eye again he was staring at me again with the deep stare. Then later my bff wanted to leave so i left and i said bye but he didn't hear me (im shy and quite) I don't know what to do i really like this guy. Does he like me, How do i get him to ask me out we r both shy, i don't know wat to do? HELP

2007-07-15 10:25:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a virgin and I'm worried about STDs. There's always a chance a girl could lie to me about how many partners she's had or if she's always had "safe" sex. Condoms aren't 100% effective. A lot of people who have STDs dont show any symptoms and dont even know they have it.

How can I ever trust someone to take that risk? How do you not worry about STDs nowadays?

2007-07-15 10:15:37 · 14 answers · asked by sspence966 1

2007-07-15 10:11:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating my boyfriend for almost two years. He is warm and caring toward me. He was divorced shortly before we met. He never talks about his ex-wife, however, I have asked about her. We have talked about her twice. It appears they had an unhappy marriage that ended after four years. She cheated on him and liked to party a lot.
My concern is that I am very jealous about his ex with no reason. I have found pictures of them together in a closet, along with paperwork such as old tax returns and marriage license. I am very embarrassed about my snooping and would never admit it to anyone. I also found her on myspace and contacted her with an alias. When she responded I felt guilty and ended correspondence right away. One interesting thing that resulted from this was that I realized she was a nice person and that we had a lot of common. I should feel good about this. Still, my jealousy persists.

I would appreciate any advice as to how to deal with this. Thank you

2007-07-15 10:09:49 · 15 answers · asked by luckyone_95 1

ok..there was a boy i dated for like 7 months in 7th grade. about 4 months until school was out he got sent to some place that's like a detention center and we broke up. i hadn't gotten to see him or talk to him for 4 months. i've been trying my best to find a way to talk to him and i finally did today. he said he he would be lucky to get out before next summer. i couldn't even take 4 months without seeing him, how am i supposed to take almost a year?? i feel like it's my fault he got sent away. his dad didn't care about him and made up lies about me and said that i was the reason the boy kept running away from home. but i kno i wasn't the reason, the reason was because his dad kept beating him. when he was with me i didn't think i liked him as much but now that he's gone i realized that i do love him. i love him more than anything. i guess what i'm asking is how am i supposed to get over him knowing that everybody thinks it's my fault??

2007-07-15 10:05:51 · 2 answers · asked by Amanda B 1

Just a serious question, ive always heard that

2007-07-15 10:04:31 · 23 answers · asked by Nate 2

i want to know.

2007-07-15 10:02:29 · 33 answers · asked by m0o0000 3

I have been with my boyfriend for over 6 months, i love him but i dont get that light headed buzzy feeling when i see him, talk to him or around him. i would never think of dumping him even if its the last thing on my mind. im 15 heis 18 in august, he has promised me we wont do 'anything' till im 16 and ready. i love him for that. whats wrong.
please dont say he's too old for me because i dont reely care, i trust him.

2007-07-15 10:00:25 · 13 answers · asked by Wolfie 3

i m in luv with him frm 2 years.but i feel that he may ignore me bcoz i m 2 young.i hav shifted 2 dubai just 1year before and dont hav much friends to share this .actually he is one of my far relative and i m scared of facing him and his family if ones he rejects me.apart frm this i m a memmber of a strict family and if my fatherr comes 2 know about this he may lose all the trust that he hav upon me .he is a very old minded man who dosent like girls doing anything that may effect our family prestige.so i kindly request all of u plz 2 help me .i will b very thankful 2 all of u whoever helps me.plz plz plz plz

2007-07-15 09:53:03 · 13 answers · asked by shaama 1

I just found out the guy that i like alot, and have hooked up with once or twice is seeing this new girl....and calling her his "babe" It sucks cuz i really like him, and I know that there is something there with him as well....I just dont know what to do. This isnt the first time hes liked/dated another girl while we were talking....I feel like i have to move on, but i know if i do, the chances of us ever seeing each other again is slim to none. (we just graduated, and hes got a busy life, and now with this new girl......who knows when he will find time for me) I feel horrible cuz he can just throw me to the side......all my friends say its time to move on.....i cant make the decision though!! please help!!!!!!

2007-07-15 09:45:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous