ok ya i love her and all but she can be really clingy sometimes i mean ya ok dinner and a movie i can do that chillin at the house im cool with that watching me at hockey practice ya most definately but wanting to go mountain biking with me on hard technical trails uh uh your stayin home then she gets not mad but upset so help me out here
2007-07-15 18:33:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow too obssesive. Dude jus talk wit her alone and say that u wanna spend some time alone or wit ur buddies im sure she ll understand
2007-07-15 18:37:17 · answer #1 · answered by GANGSTA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are sure she can go mountain biking with you, then it's not much of a problem... if it still bothers you, then tell her that you need your own space, and that you want to be with your alpha male guys and need some rough time with them alone... hope she will understand. Just don't let her feel like you don't want to be with her. and avoid or erase (better) the words "uh uh you are stayin' home" that sounds really rejecting and "back off" kind of... just plain cruel on her... I bet she loves you so much and you need to be careful with your words too.
2007-07-16 01:42:25 · answer #2 · answered by designingirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're just being ungrateful... A lot of guys want a gf who loves him like that. You don't deserve her. Why don't you get a slutty girlfriend from the bar? I'm sure she wouldn't wanna do everything with you, cause she'll be out with a different guy each night anyway. Maybe that's what you want.
2007-07-16 01:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is a bit dependent and clingy and you do not want to be tied down all the time.
Do I have it right?
2007-07-16 01:43:08 · answer #4 · answered by Deana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called co-dependancy! However, if you can modify this in small ways itmay get better,
2007-07-16 01:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by duska_angel m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she's clingy, needy and insecure.
2007-07-16 01:36:29 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she just loves you....ur a lucky guy...i guess..lol
â¥Hope that Helpedâ¥
2007-07-16 01:37:21 · answer #7 · answered by NoLongerInUseSoByee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋