ok i went to volleyball camp and ex bf was hanging out with this guy that i used to be interested in..i didnt like him but i was interested...big difference...anyways i saw them which was last week and today i took a nap and had a dream that i slept with him...wuts also disturbing is in the dream i had also slept with a teacher and i was goin to sleep with my friend "again" but i woke up right when my nephew decided to drool on my face..but anyways i dont know if i like him or not but idk wat to do.
also my neighbor is like my brother and we call each other brother and sister but lately everyone is saying we should go out and that we are goign to end up getting married...but i think i am getting feelings for him cuz we hang out, he comes over, we tell each other EVERYTHING and my parents luv the guy.i do too but not that way.but lately i have bin wanting him to come over cause im comfortable around him...he has a gf whose always screwing up tho...but do i like him &if so wut do i do
2007-07-15 18:18:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. im not really that close with the other guy but he is really cool to be around. hes my friend but not my best friend. hes cute and has a great personality and writing this is actually making me like him. but i dont kno how i should act on it
2. my neighbor/ he loves her and tells her that in front of me but for some reason i hate it when he does that. it bugs me. he shes to immature and does stupid stuff...i dont like her cuz he deserves better but i cant choose for him. wut does all this mean?
o and my dreams usually always have something to do with something happening in the future or with a guy that i have feelings for....i also had a dream about my neighbor kissing me and him and i were together. it was actually kinda weird but i didnt mind it..
WUT DO I DO?!?!?!
2007-07-15 18:48:34 · update #1
it sounds like u like both guys but idk only ur heart can tell u ur feelings so let it talk and follow it...everything will turn out perfect sooner or later if u follow ur heart!
2007-07-15 18:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by Bunny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Answer to both questions - your sexually frustrated, do not screw up any relationship because of your hormones! That's what the dream says to me, and I've had that kind of disturbing sex dream too, but trust me it doesn't necessarily mean you have feelings for the people who were in it.
As far as your neighbour, be very very sure about what your feeling before you act, or you'll ruin a great relationship. Pressure to see someone as being a potential partner can make you think you like someone when you don't. The fact that you say you love the guy, but not in that way, says to me that you aren't really interested in him.
As I said, you're just frustrated. I'm not advocating going out and finding a release for this though, I'm sure you can take care of that yourself. Just remember, it'll pass.
2007-07-16 01:26:15 · answer #2 · answered by Lee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are never a serious pointer to any thing in real life--Billions dream of odd ball stuff. Dreams mean nothing.... The neighbor that is your good friend may or may not work out---it is good on the friend level but in later life you may not see him as marriage material--you will have your own description of a perfect man. As a young person I would ask you to cool off ---take a break---give it all a rest---settle down--you are mixed up about nothing at all. Your emotions and hormones are in high gear--relax and let nature take its course.
2007-07-16 01:27:55 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1- its only a dream not more than that.
2- just give it a try since its better to have a BF who u comfortable with and can share everything. This kind of relationship always last long or 4ever.
2007-07-16 01:22:15 · answer #4 · answered by sweetzy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. It's just a dream.
2. Wait for him to ask you out.
2007-07-16 01:21:06 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question to ask yourself is do you like him no one can answer if you like anyone only you can truly tell if you do so you have your decisions.
2007-07-16 01:22:34 · answer #6 · answered by Blood Lust 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
story #1: do nothing.
story #2: do nothing. Don't risk that kind of friendship, because you can never ever get that back.
2007-07-16 01:23:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
IGNORANT ASSES! YOUR DREAMS ARE SEXY BECAUSE YOU HIDING YOUR INNER DESIRES. THE SECOND, JUST ASK HIM OUT. SO WHAT ABOUT THE GIRLFRIEND.
2007-07-16 01:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
take off your pants silly
2007-07-16 01:20:48 · answer #9 · answered by MattH 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋