I've been talking/seeing this guy at work for about 3 months. We talk on the ph for hours sometimes, text a lot. Sometimes we chat on aim at work, we always hang out on breaks and lunches but we haven't hung out a lot outside work and weekends. I'm 25 yrs leave w my 2 lil sisters (18 n 21 yrs), he's 26 leaves w his parents. We leave about 45 mnts apart. So we don't really have enough privacy to be alone. We hung out only 4 times after work to grab something to eat or have a drink. This situation is kind of weird for me so I thought he probably has a gf/another girl. 1st time when I asked him, he said there's a lot of rumors about him at work and when I said if he wants me to leave him alone he said not to. The 2nd time, he didn't answer my question and things between us got kind of awkward it took us awhile to get on track again but that still leaves me with no answer if he has a gf or not. Sometimes I have doubts that he's into me but what I know is he said he likes seeing and talking to me also enjoys my company. He goes on breaks and lunches w me everytime he gets the chance because he's always busy at work. We've been calling each other hunny and he's the one that started calling me that. Last Friday he asked me to hang out w him I thought it's just going to be another ordanary night w him but it turned out to be a great date! (our 1st date) from the date, I could tell that he really likes me because he couldn't stop looking at me and kissing me on my forhead, cheeks, and my hand when we're holding hands. On Monday when I was sick, he asked me if I was feelling any better, etc but there are times that I have my doubts if he's into me because if I think about it most the time I'm the one that always call him 1 to 2 times a week or text him first everyday, and if I don't he sometimes text me and rarely calls me. He sometimes doesn't txt me back or pick up the ph. Especially on the weekends there are no ph calls or texts from him even if I text or call him, it would be a miracle if he answered me back. Btw about our intimate stuff, we only did that twice. Now I'm getting tired of this game and decided to stop calling or text him. In my head I do want to ask him but in my heart I think I already know the answer. So I really don't know what to do...do you guys think he's playing games, booty calls, into me or do I bother him to much or what is it? Please help me...
2007-07-12
14:36:36
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marlie
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