Singles & Dating - 12 July 2007

I have been dating this guy for two years. We have agreed that we are exclusively dating, but because his work has taken him several hours away from me, we only get to see each other a couple of times a month. Recently, when he was at my house, he checked his e-mail and left it logged in. Well, like a sneaky little idiot, I looked over his messages. I found a few from this girl he had been talking to, and apparently they had been out for coffee and dinner a time or two. One of the messages she sent asked if he had a girlfriend, and he said no. We have agreed that it is okay for us to have and hang out with friends of the opposite sex, just no intimacy with anyone else. I just am a little insecure of the fact that he has told her he does not have a girlfriend. If I ask him about it, he will know that I read his mail. If I e-mail her about it and tell her he does have a girlfriend, she might tell him. What should I do?

2007-07-12 17:45:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is there any way to change a man's mind?

2007-07-12 17:34:21 · 20 answers · asked by that_one_day 1

i really llike this guy and he likes me. but im always am soooo nervous around him. like even talking to him on aim my heart starts pounding. and i have never had this problem. help!

2007-07-12 17:32:05 · 7 answers · asked by girls in the hood 2

I dont know what I did but my boyfriend just called and said he wanted to break up. What do I do? My whole world came crumbling down. I dont feel like eating. I dont feel like sleeping. I feel so alone. I need ADVICE NOW!

2007-07-12 17:28:34 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

i tink my girl of 3 years does cocaine and has been lying to me. i think she does it every so often. i have never said it to her cause she will deny it. there is a big party comin up soon she really wants to go to. i think she will sniff a little coke there. a blood sample will tell me if she has coke in her system as long as it is within 48hrs. if i get a small sample of blood from her in another way will that be just as informative. serious answers only please!!!!!!

2007-07-12 17:20:20 · 2 answers · asked by garyp8178 2

Is it true that guys like to take womens virginity's like if they know a young woman is a virgin is there some kind of sexual attraction to be their first?

2007-07-12 17:20:09 · 4 answers · asked by ImKindaAwesomeAtBingo 3

Here is the deal:

My ex girlfriend kind of hurt me and I broke up. Well I want to get back together and she said that she might she just needs time I love her so much. She is the best but hurts me sometimes (emotionally)

Well i have the chance to go out with an old crush tomorrow. I know that i might start to like her. But i dont want to hurt my ex and i am still not over her....

What do you think is best?

2007-07-12 17:14:33 · 12 answers · asked by Chris 5

List as many as you can think of. Thanks.

2007-07-12 17:13:18 · 10 answers · asked by ♥ 2

im not sure if this girl i lik is playing hard to get or if shes just not interested. how will i kno what shes doing? if shes playn hard 2 get its pissin me off cuz i really lik her and im getting tired of tryin 2 figure out what to do and i dont want 2 look lik an idiot askin her out if she dosnt lik me but i dont wanna look lik an as* and just leave her alone after trying to flirt with her especially if she is just playn hard 2 get..it seems lik shes not interested sum and others shes cool

2007-07-12 17:10:10 · 6 answers · asked by imsmartkid 6

I was wondering how far is going too far before I am ceating on my girlfriend???

2007-07-12 17:09:27 · 2 answers · asked by kingsmafia 1

ok so I have this boy who happens to be my ex-boyfriend and my first everything. When we broke up we stopped talking, in this time I had a new boyfriend for about a year, and everytime he saw me with my boyfriend he used to stare and kinda look sad! When me and my boyfriend broke up I messaged him again, he saw each other alot, and eventually ended up sleeping together, in conversation one day it came up that my old boyfriend lived with me, and he backed away from me since that point, I then had a boy hanging off me, we were together all the time, which made him back off more, I ended up writing him a message and saying that where just friends and other stuff, he didnt write back for about 1 month, then he messaged me his new number, and we have been talking for about 2 months now really good, and its his birhtday soon so i asked if he wanted to go to the zoo then stay in a hotel which he agreed to,

2007-07-12 17:08:39 · 3 answers · asked by xXxLeIsHaxXx 1

Hey there vastness; Ok, my question. I work in a very professional office and company. I have recently started a sexual relationship with a coworker that I am certain is not leading to a relationship. My goal, as a woman, is to continue this relationship without the man becoming attached. In my experience, men have become attached more regularly than I have with them. I am very committed to my profession and do not want to let these types of relationships affect my job, however, in this circumstance, I have seen very mixed signals, sometimes it seems we are on the same page, and other times he seems unnaturally attached, I do not regularly have a 'booty call' type person, but at this time in my life, it is most advantageous, so my question is, what are the signs that I should be looking for to know that it is going beyond just a sexual realtionship for him? He occassionally sleeps over, I have never been to his house, we are work friends, but no one knows about our relationship....???

2007-07-12 16:59:14 · 8 answers · asked by sw 1

I always hear females talkin bout I hope he talks to me, or " he is sooooo!!!! cute!" But they always wait on the man to talk to them. As a woman, why won't you approach a man? And don't give me that the man is supose to ask the woman stuff ethier.

2007-07-12 16:58:10 · 8 answers · asked by Line Straddler 5

2007-07-12 16:54:53 · 5 answers · asked by me0535 1

something is telling me not to post this question,
because i will most likely get the all too common
"your too young to worry about it" speech.
so if for any reason your thinking of giving it. please dont. lol.
Alright well i hve known this one boy (brian) for over 10 years. We really had something great, since we were young even. it was kinda like we "fell in love" at first sight. Well, his brothers (adam) is kind of a @as. lol. and lied to brian, told him alot of things i "supposedly said" that were not true. And now brian wont even talk to me, or write back. I've stopped trying. but i dont just want to lose him, even if it means just being friends. what should i do?? Thanks in advance to everyone who helps =]]

2007-07-12 16:50:13 · 17 answers · asked by liveitup 2

Okay if you had a girlfriend that was too young for you and you also had crushes on TONS of other girls, AND you wanna be faithful to your really young girlfriend, but one girl you thought was cutest/hottest kissed you, what would you do??

2007-07-12 16:44:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I tend to see good-looking girls date guys with no looks and NO PERSONALITY, INTELLIGENCE, etc.

They're generally jerks, too. I guess what I'm saying is that guys, all types, ALWAYS have options, whereas girls are judged primarily on their looks (again, primarily, not absolutely). I just mean, I've rarely-to-never seen a really good-looking guy with an average girl (who's qualities are rooted in her personality, not just looks).

Is there a scientific reason behind the FACT (don't argue here, you know it's true) that guys are more visual, often thus more commonly labeled "superficial," than girls WHEN *INITIALLY* deciding which girl to approach and get better acquainted with.

2007-07-12 16:38:31 · 20 answers · asked by abby j 5

Tonight is me and my boyfriends anniversary, and my bday was monday, I think we're going to have sex and i need tips to make it the best night of his life!

2007-07-12 16:23:13 · 2 answers · asked by ? 3

2007-07-12 16:20:51 · 2 answers · asked by matt h 1

I have this friend who is now 22-years old and it seems she is so immature to have a date well, because she never acts her age but I really don't know why some guys crazy about her eventhough, she acts like an innocent girl who doesn't know anything around her. That's why i want to know if guys like it or not. Thank You!

2007-07-12 16:05:07 · 1 answers · asked by Beverly Anne N 4

ok so theres this guy i like him and he likes me...but da thing is at hes WAY too shy...i ask all ma friends and dey tell me i shoul ask him but ive never done dat b4 isnt it weird 4 a girl to ask a guy out???

2007-07-12 16:02:07 · 33 answers · asked by rayada 2

I have this friend who is now 22-years old and it seems she is so immature to have a date well, because she never acts her age but I really don't know why some guys crazy about her eventhough, she acts like an innocent girl who doesn't know anything around her. That's why i want to know if guys like it or not. Thank You!

2007-07-12 15:56:37 · 13 answers · asked by Beverly Anne N 4

are they aroused or they like what they see?

2007-07-12 15:49:20 · 6 answers · asked by Leila 1

ok, i'm off to camp with my boyfriend && i want to kiss him really bad! it feels so right!
it's my first kiss and i need advice!
he said he would kiss me so...
well what should i do!
& i want to kiss him so bad!

2007-07-12 15:45:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a guy came up to you and asked u out but u rejected him cuz u didnt know him... and then u saw him in a very nice mercedes or ferrari or something... how would u feel?

2007-07-12 15:42:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you ever left a good man or woman you've dated for a while because you needed to explore? How did that turn out, did it turn out to be worth it?

2007-07-12 15:41:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

tigers are awesome 2...

2007-07-12 15:38:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i notice alot of girls r fake nowadays from the top of there head 2 the bottom of there toenails and they all wanna be blonde. i see that they all dye there hair get fake nails and fake tan and fake boobs and wear alot of makeup and etc,etc, i am a natural girl whos brunete and i love 2 lok nice but not fake. so wat is it boys that u like fake or natural

2007-07-12 15:37:49 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

all of these guys seem to like me, and i'm a really nice person, so i try not to be rude or anything, and they dont make it obvious enough about liking me that i could confront them about it.

one guy asked me if i had a boyfriend, then as he was about to leave, asked me quickly for my number, and i didnt want to say no, so i gave it to him, but i think he got the wrong impression.

another guy keeps calling me, asking to hang out.if i'm not busy, i'll accept, because he really is a cool guy to hang out with, i just dont like him that way.

and then this other guy, i told him i just like him as a friend, and it was pretty settled at that, but then he randomly asked me if he thought we would ever be more, etc..

almost all of my friends are guys, and i like hanging out with them, but i'm really not interested in them as boyfriends..i still wanna keep my friends though, and i dont wanna look like a whore..please help!

2007-07-12 15:31:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-12 15:27:11 · 9 answers · asked by computer 1