something is telling me not to post this question,
because i will most likely get the all too common
"your too young to worry about it" speech.
so if for any reason your thinking of giving it. please dont. lol.
Alright well i hve known this one boy (brian) for over 10 years. We really had something great, since we were young even. it was kinda like we "fell in love" at first sight. Well, his brothers (adam) is kind of a @as. lol. and lied to brian, told him alot of things i "supposedly said" that were not true. And now brian wont even talk to me, or write back. I've stopped trying. but i dont just want to lose him, even if it means just being friends. what should i do?? Thanks in advance to everyone who helps =]]
2007-07-12 16:50:13 · 17 answers · asked by liveitup 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope no speach on this one Brown nosing @ss kissing boot licking back stabbers come in ages, shapes and sizes!
What you are going to have to do is catch Brian and Adam together somewhere that you can pint them down and with you having a couple of your friends with you as witnesses.
Like maybe at McDonald's or somewhere like that where they are sitting down.
Then confront Adam about what he has been saying about you to Brian. And call him a ****!!!@@@ liar to his face. And make sure all your friends and everyone else hears you doing it.
And for the grand Finale slap his face since you are a girl. If you were a guy I'd recommend you inviting him to step out back and settle it man to man..
There is nothing sweeter than seeing a brown nosing, a**s sucking, boot licking, two faced, back stabber getting his or her come uppance.
2007-07-12 18:16:40 · answer #1 · answered by JUAN FRAN$$$ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too young. bleh I hate that speech. My suggestion is give him a little bit of time. I'm kinda going through that right now. Whatever you do DO NOT KEEP TRYING TO CONTACT HIM> It will annoy the crap out of him. Trust me. I just got finished doing that and now he REALLY won't talk to me. I've tried e-mails, myspace, phone calls and more. Give him some time....the problem is I just don't know how much time. It varies from guy to guy. For my case I think it will take a few weeks. :[ But "loving" and/or "liking" comes with consequences sometimes.
Another thing, tell his brother that he needs to tell him the truth.
Hope this helps. :)
2007-07-12 16:57:50 · answer #2 · answered by Kerazy CHIK :P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is first of all to give it some time... If it's meant to be right? Second is this, and it's gonna hurt a little, but if this guy and this relationship means so much to you and something like that was enough to make him stop talking to you then this guy is probably not worth your time. The question is 'when is enough enough' the answer is 'never' in love.
2007-07-12 16:59:11 · answer #3 · answered by Tragic B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and tell him how you feel if you dont you going to regret it in the end.rather regret telling him than wondering all your life.if friendship means that much to him he will listen and if not then he aint a real friend coz friends stick by each other thru thick and thin.why dont you bring brian and adam together and tell both of them how much your friendship means to them and tell them you wudnt want to loose them.people change things go wrong but remember one life one chance so make the most of it and do what you have to.good luck
2007-07-12 16:58:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well you should just tell him how you feel and tell him that your brother is lying if anything sit down with both brian and adam so then brian would know you are serious.just whatever you do just dont give up because then you gonna be stuck wit *what if*
2007-07-12 16:54:41 · answer #5 · answered by MiSz.NaNa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? I started to write to you to tell you to do one thing..but, if he is this muddled and believes what his brother is saying..then ,let me give you better advice...he is sooo not worth the trouble..sounds like he is too immature for you...if he won't speak to you, or write back...so what you need to do, is move on!
Maybe one day he will see the light...but now he is in the "dark" and that is what he chooses to do, for now...there really isn't anything that you will be able to do, or say...just let it go...he is NOT the guy for you!
You deserve a more mature guy...he isn't there yet!!
2007-07-12 16:59:53 · answer #6 · answered by ladyk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt even try talking to Brian right now... let him cool off and in a couple of days I'm sure he'll try contacting you... I'm sure he knows what kind of guy Adam can be... so give him time to realize it.. he will..
2007-07-12 16:55:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 21:38:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u did the most u can do. when hes ready to llisten to u openly except him back. but if he never listens to u than what else can u do? u tried. i would also send him one last email or note telling him that he should listen to u or at least let u really explain and that ull always be there when he feels like talking again
2007-07-12 16:53:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he believes his brother more. He's not giving you a chance to explain things out. If he really loved you, he would give you a chance to talk things out, make the relationship work. He's not giving any effort to communicate to you. Your giving your 100%. Seems like he's zero.
2007-07-12 17:02:59 · answer #10 · answered by Yasmin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋